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Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by tonychristopher: 9:11pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
TooNoisy: is that all u gat? I guess you must be a Yoruba girl ..very mouthy 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by TheSonOfMark(m): 10:02pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
GHoJes: What's you obsession with Efik-Ibibio women? You keep losing men to them? |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Stillfire: 10:12pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
What has this crassness got to do with feminism? 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Stillfire: 10:13pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Look at how a grown ass man is crying for food on the internet. Na man be this? 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by SAMBARRY: 10:14pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
I just taya for over talkative men. What difference does it make if you or nanny cook rice what is inside rice. If she's helpful why the complaining again? And what does feminism has to do with who cooks rice for you and who doesn't? Una no dey taya. Afejo yi na sha.chochochocho cho.unnecessary complaints and if you are lusting after the nanny just own up this one you're claiming she's smiling at you seductively. No use rice or your wife not cooking excuse cover up if na her hips you dey look confess ![]() cococandy: |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by SAMBARRY: 10:18pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Stillfire:you can imagine ![]() Just rice abi na indomie. If nanny is boiling indomie while she's baffing shebi na to eat. Why then should whoever that cooked the food matter ![]() Op Abeg grow up |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Nobody: 10:24pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Last 4 posters shd be ashamed of themselves. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Stillfire: 10:29pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: I can just imagine myself as grown as I am crying for food. Our parents really spoiled these men, unleashed overgrown babies for women to marry. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by SAMBARRY: 10:31pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Stillfire:e taya me no be small? Like seriously ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by bukatyne(f): 10:31pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
@Odidire: What has your story got to do with feminism; Has your wife ever claimed to be one? @Finances: I think Yoruba women are more open to sharing than Igbos. Might be wrong. @Options: Discuss with her and see the outcome. 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by iykedare(m): 11:34pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Stillfire: 6 Likes
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Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by iykedare(m): 11:38pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Stillfire: But you haven't been able to marry a grown man. Your mates are getting married to these supposedly "overgrown babies". Keep consoling yourself 8 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by iykedare(m): 11:50pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Aside the woman's laziness and nonchalant attitude towards certain things in her marriage, op isn't happy that she isn't spending her own money on anything in the house. I just don't understand why someone would not contribute to the upkeep of the house ? Have you guys no family project/ investment? Op allowed her keep all her money,she was OK with it. Now she is okay with not cooking for him.He caused everything. You are too soft. 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Nobody: 11:53pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
iykedare:This isn't the problem Op allowed her keep all her money,she was OK with it.This is the problem. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Stillfire: 11:55pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
iykedare: In your mind now, you have insulted me... rotflmao. ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by iykedare(m): 12:03am On Jul 26, 2015 |
Stillfire: Haba,I didn't insult you. Though if I want to,I can. Now, you wrote that men of nowadays are overgrown babies then I pointed out to you that other women are getting married to these "overgrown babies" . At least,you not been able to hook a grown man,have you? ![]() ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by iykedare(m): 12:07am On Jul 26, 2015 |
This is the reason I love polygamy. When wife A refuses to cook for oga,wife B will gladly do it. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Stillfire: 12:09am On Jul 26, 2015 |
iykedare: No, I have not been able to hook a grown man. I am 40 years old, single and desperate for marriage. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by lastnogood(f): 3:26am On Jul 26, 2015 |
So he's home 2 weeks and works away for 2 weeks, while she is a full timer. I'm guessing when he's home he's waiting for her to make him a meal when she gets off work. Else he won't eat. I'm guessing he cooks as survival means but doesn't want to cook really, else he wouldn't be complaining. I think he's just isn't happy about the state of affairs, and instead of being direct about it. He's creating a drama. This whole thing started over something irrelevant to your marriage, I believe that you are blindsiding your wife. The way things are going presently required some coordination between the both of you. You have lived in this arrangement for a while I'm sure. You would've changed the matter from the beginning if you didn't life the maid cooking. I mean, she just now starting cooking for you? I think not! Wife never did anything in this house only for the past few months? I think not! @Odidire you should think seriously about what is really vexing you, sir. Your ultimatum doesn't resolve the problem, and putting wife in a corner only creates an unhappy and confused woman. Your marriage is slowly falling apart, and I think you want it to. Your looking for a way to end it, without it being completely your fault. So, if your serious about keeping your marriage in tact, I'd suggest you be direct and communicate your qualms with your wife. State what it is that truly upsets you and how it makes you feel. She's your wife, your feelings are hers to mend. If you're not serious about being married again, than stop this melodramatic banter and do the needful. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Ewuro4: 5:37am On Jul 26, 2015 |
A woman should see cooking for her husband as a pride and not slavery. I see young career ladies cook(stew&soup) in bulk , store in Tupperwares in batches & freeze them for the week. When a man comes home hungry for your cooking, it's good. I don't understand anymore. Mr.OP talk to your woman and stop forming macho online. I don't understand why it's so hard to express your mind to your better half you claimed to love abi that doesn't count in decision making ![]() Seem finances was left out during courtship. The Both of you need to sit back down and have a frank discussion. recount each of your grouse and reach a compromise. if you need her to pictch in financially, let her know. It's about checks and balance right? Who doesn't know how to lavish money. And you shared part of blame too Afteral your eyes were wide opened when you agreed to a live in house help abi Na lie? so enough of a victim picture you're trying portray. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by ChristyG(f): 6:25am On Jul 26, 2015 |
The op is a bloody bigot,he is also replying himself with another moniker.this thread belongs in d politics section.this story is fake as tonychristopher brains 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by ChristyG(f): 6:31am On Jul 26, 2015 |
tonychristopher:i can say the same for eboe women and why they marry more outsiders than their akpu smelling brothers.proud,ugly,controlling and very unreasonable.and even with all their false claims if knowning how to care of women,nobody wants their ugly asses.so they go and rant on twitter about yoruba men dumping their asses for yoruba women.ibo career women that marry in their 40s and 50s |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by TooNoisy(f): 8:21am On Jul 26, 2015 |
The silly OP wants to turn this into politics section and some bigots are really helping him. The story is just fake. You claim you have a house help and 2 members of your wife's family who don't do anything. Yet you want to split the house chores 50/50. So what will you also wash your house help's plate and those of your wife's family. You also claim you offered to resign while she takes care of the bills. What a silly offer when you know her salary cannot cover the bills. Will you take the offer and stay at home really? Then the nanny part is just lame! Nanny is supposed to help your wife out with house chores and that is what she is doing. So what is the problem again? If you think she's your wife's competition then go ahead and marry her. The nanny seems more like your type since you reason like a village man. You shouldn't be married to an educated woman! OP is trying to paint a picture of women being selfish, lazy and uncaring but he forgot to mention he must blame himself for marrying such a wife. Fake story! 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by ayoi: 9:32am On Jul 26, 2015 |
The problems I hv with the post are u mentioned a tribe and u generalised wh is annoying. The problem is ur wife's attitude not her tribe. |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Odidire: 10:39am On Jul 26, 2015 |
Since the discussion is gradually moving towards tribal rivalry, I ve edited the story. The story is 100% true. No a single fact has been altered. I have recounted it as narrated to me. Thanks for your contributions |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by iykedare(m): 11:29am On Jul 26, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Word on marble. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Stillfire: 11:58am On Jul 26, 2015 |
Odidire: The way you arrive at conclusions is funny. You reduced your problems to feminism and tribe. Is this how you handle issues in your home as the 'head'? No wonder your wife can use your head, she wants you to do chores, but won't foot any bills? lmao. Your wife doesn't foot any bills which is an antithesis of feminism, but oh dear, that word must be fancy let me join the bandwagon and use it. ![]() Awon your money is our money, but my money is my money are not feminists. So just keep feminism out of this talk. Thank you. 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Neplusultra(f): 11:59am On Jul 26, 2015 |
tonychristopher:Lol! Tony ibiakwa ozo! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by rebella(f): 1:31pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Truth be told, most people don't even know the meaning of feminism. @Odidire what is happening to you is what happens when a man marries because he is looking for someone to clean and cook for him. I don't see cooking for your husband as a big deal, please remove all those conditions and speak to her firmly that you want only her and no other person to prepare your meals. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by tonychristopher: 4:44pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Neplusultra: nne ihe m na acho na okwu bu to whom it may concern the truth is coming out really 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Ladies And The Push For Feminism by tonychristopher: 4:47pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
ChristyG: what you said is true but we know that it's Yoruba women that cry of heartbreak when Igbo men dump them it's Yoruba men that cry to Igbo women |
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