So we all know that some guys cant handle rejection well, Infact some take it to the extremes
We have seen and some have experience it, what do guys gain from retaliating or attacking the female who has rejected them, how do you recover from this.

Not interested : guys if a lady tells you this it is not the end of the world , even the most beautiful people, wealthy also get this treatment . The girl just ain't feeling you or maybe your just not her type . Move on so many worthy females out there

Exposing : ok you have made advances gone on a few dates and then she ends it ... So what! this doesn't give you the right to start giving out her number, details, address or sharing intimate secrets about her to friends or bad wishers.

Maturity: some guys are extremely mature this wont even apply to them .. They just lock off the girl and move on .. They don't even feel hurt these guys are sure of themselves, confident etc .. If you are not mature pls align yourself with some mature guys to give u pointer on how to handle things..
Speak to a friend thats in a long term relationship ... They might offer sound advice .

Emotional/Hurt: we all get emotional be it man or woman we just have different ways of exhibiting this. After rejection you might need some time to chill and regroup . If you don't take it easy u would end up lashing out . anger is a very powerful emotion and can make us do things we wont normally do .. ( try and control your emotions)

Self esteem : yes rejection can leave one sad , broken, or your not good enough . this can make a guys self esteem low.. snap out of it occupy your mind with other things .. Because once u slip into a pool of low self esteem u might drown in it.

Criticism and rejection are very much part of life - everyone gets criticised and rejected!

Note to guys : you have mothers, you will have female daughters one day .. Try and treat women how you would want a guy to treat your own . If the woman provokes u or brings out the worst in you move on its not worth it at all .. .. Thanks

http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-to-deal-with-rejection.html

Happy sunday
Cc lalasticlala ishilove

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No babe in dis world can reject me, unless na me reject dem.

I think I dig d "maturity" thingy... Pple like us... D moment u say u r not interested we hit d road early ... there's no nid tryna force or impress... Ive encountered situations where a girl rejects my proposal nd I took it in good faith.. moved on. stop pushing hard.. ignored her chats nd calls. cos I was too busy chasing oda chicks.. she sensed my decline. became worried ... u know d moment wen a girl starts acting weird ... it payed off tho.. After I formed jadon.. I gave her a chance... SHIKENA

This one na Sunday topic so

bi0nics:
Rejection..... No girl can reject a pretty Niqqa like me

buzquet:
No babe in dis world can reject me, unless na me reject dem.

Even the most handsome and wealthy guys suffer rejection from certain females.

So, please wake up from dreamland. You can also be rejected.

@ LadyBoss1 ure just pointing out the obvious there is nothing like coping here

buzquet:
No babe in dis world can reject me, unless na me reject dem.

dy gv ursef hope

Niklausa:




Even the most handsome and wealthy guys suffer rejection from certain females.

So, please wake up from dreamland. You can also be rejected.

rejection is nt in my dictionary

buzquet:
rejection is nt in my dictionary

Why do you think so?

Niklausa:




Even the most handsome and wealthy guys suffer rejection from certain females.

So, please wake up from dreamland. You can also be rejected.

Are y0u pained or You recently suffer rejection

No come pour sand into my garri oo

bi0nics:


Are y0u pained or You recently suffer rejection

No come pour sand into my garri oo

I am just stating a fact.

Niklausa:

Why do you think so?

caz am confident n positive

buzquet:
caz am confident n positive

But even confidence and a positive mindset isn't enough assurance that you can't get rejected.

Sometimes, if a lady isn't into you, there isn't anything you can do about it.

I am just saying the truth bro, no hard feelings.

Niklausa:


I am just stating a fact.

A fact..

Niklausa:


But even confidence and a positive mindset isn't enough assurance that you can't get rejected.

Sometimes, if a lady isn't into you, there isn't anything you can do about it.

I am just saying the truth bro, no hard feelings.

u nid to see me 4 lecture

buzquet:
u nid to see me 4 lecture

Anyone who rejects me, rejects christ!

Niklausa:


But even confidence and a positive mindset isn't enough assurance that you can't get rejected.

Sometimes, if a lady isn't into you, there isn't anything you can do about it.

I am just saying the truth bro, no hard feelings.

simple nd straight forward

Nice one. Men need to understand that the fact you consider yourself good enough as a partner doesn't mean the Lady sees you in that light.

Don't make it a big deal. Respect their wish, it's better than been in a deceptive relationship.

Cc Youknowyourself

Cutehector:
Anyone who rejects me, rejects christ!

Are you Antichrist

Jamean:


Are you Antichrist

wat does antichrist have to do wit this?

Cutehector:
wat does antichrist have to do wit this?

The Antichrist is an opposition of Christ, rejecting his reign. Goan and read your post again.

Jamean:


The Antichrist is an opposition of Christ, rejecting his reign. Goan and read your post again.

my post says, anyone who rejects me, rejects christ... With respect to d op's topic.. Like I chyke u and u reject me, and I jokingly added dat u reject christ in turn...

I dnt see where antichrist comes into play.. If u had a good sense of humour, u'd notice it as a joke and laff..

LadyBoss1:
So we all know that some guys cant handle rejection well, Infact some take it to the extremes
We have seen and some have experience it, what do guys gain from retaliating or attacking the female who has rejected them, how do you recover from this.

Not interested : guys if a lady tells you this it is not the end of the world , even the most beautiful people, wealthy also get this treatment . The girl just ain't feeling you or maybe your just not her type . Move on so many worthy females out there

Exposing : ok you have made advances gone on a few dates and then she ends it ... So what! this doesn't give you the right to start giving out her number, details, address or sharing intimate secrets about her to friends or bad wishers.

Maturity: some guys are extremely mature this wont even apply to them .. They just lock off the girl and move on .. They don't even feel hurt these guys are sure of themselves, confident etc .. If you are not mature pls align yourself with some mature guys to give u pointer on how to handle things..
Speak to a friend thats in a long term relationship ... They might offer sound advice .

Emotional/Hurt: we all get emotional be it man or woman we just have different ways of exhibiting this. After rejection you might need some time to chill and regroup . If you don't take it easy u would end up lashing out . anger is a very powerful emotion and can make us do things we wont normally do .. ( try and control your emotions)

Self esteem : yes rejection can leave one sad , broken, or your not good enough . this can make a guys self esteem low.. snap out of it occupy your mind with other things .. Because once u slip into a pool of low self esteem u might drown in it.

Criticism and rejection are very much part of life - everyone gets criticised and rejected!

Note to guys : you have mothers, you will have female daughters one day .. Try and treat women how you would want a guy to treat your own . If the woman provokes u or brings out the worst in you move on its not worth it at all .. .. Thanks

http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-to-deal-with-rejection.html

Happy sunday
Cc lalasticlala ishilove

In my opinion,i believe if a lady says No to my advances,its not rejection in anyway.

It could be that she is already in a commited relationship.

If a lady is so single and yet rejects me i will also believe that i do not fit into the picture of the type of man she likes.

For instance there are some ladies i will never take a second look at and there is a type of chic i see and will make sure i approach if im single.

Nice post..

Rejection is heart breaking..

Ladies should take it easy and explain it as calm as possible when rejecting a guy. @least he will be less depressed and wouldn't feel useless, unworthy And unwanted.



I hope the list helps.

Cutehector:
my post says, anyone who rejects me, rejects christ... With respect to d op's topic.. Like I chyke u and u reject me, and I jokingly added dat u reject christ in turn...

I dnt see where antichrist comes into play.. If u had a good sense of humour, u'd notice it as a joke and laff..

We are here, you guys go about joking on every thread. Learn to contribute meaningfully

Jamean:


We are here, you guys go about joking on every thread. Learn to contribute meaningfully

there is nothin meaninful to contribute to the thread... Ladyboss1 knws dat...


Besides, if u take a glance at my posts, u'd knw d kind of personality I keep up here in nl..