We pray for the graces we need to abstain until marriage because that is God's initial plan

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Thread title is quite deceptive.

kobonaire:
So what exactly is the "grave danger" behind "kissing while single" .... The OP never really explained the very dangerous consequences.

you could notice obviously that (according to him) kisses before marriage can be dangerous, he noted the case of Judas iscariot who gave Jesus a deceiving kiss, you can also read that he noted that kisses without the intention of greetings are dangerous because it will lead to pre marital sex and the outcome of premarital sex sometimes can turn to shame...

dont mind me ooo am not a chuchi... is just that i am trying to explain the danger he gave

tobishills12:

Now listen, there is a big difference between the Jewish kiss and the French kiss.

We are neither Jews nor French, what we do here is Nigerian kiss and it's not in the bible.

Kissing may or may not lead to pre-marital sex. It depends on the boundary you guys set for each other and your obligation to the set boundaries.

Congrats, you've ended up spoiling show for your guy and if I was the bloke, I wouldn't mind breaking your head.

Hitter:
Ha! OP sleep you no gree sleep.. Na ofofo you dey do Mind your business

Hmmmmmm

Nice one op, may God help us all. Abstinence is still d antidote to premarital sex. Apart from the spiritual implications of d act, there is health implication of contracting viral infection like hepatitis B, n others. I hope people will learn to wait.

Interesting... Dose portions of de bible has been kind of confusing to me. But now I totally get it.

Have noticed people become "born again" in this forum on sundays, 4rm monday,it becomes business as usual..Anyway, Op is ryt,a lip or tongue kiss aint holy cos it wil only fuel that passion,make it so intense that u end up indulging in fornication..only kiss on the cheek or forehead

tobishills12:
Kissing while Single: Judas Version

Saturday night was a splendid one, you know why? Because I had to lecture someone on this above topic. I was sleeping when I heard my roommate conversing on phone with his girlfriend (MTN refer to that as xtra-cool). Yes that was a disturbance, I couldn't sleep any longer, fortunately for me I could hear what they where both saying: I eavesdropped!

it was a very interesting conversation of which I felt jealous, did I? No I didn't. All I know was that I felt like calling someone too, unfortunately I had none. I have been enjoying the conversation until it came to the shocking part of which I heard his girlfriend refusing sex before marriage, claiming she's still a virgin but she was not an opposition to the act of kissing before marriage. That part shocked me, I have been hearing about this but I have never heard someone I know talk about it, I had to beg and pester my friend to please hand over the phone to me of which he agreed, then I was fulfilled when I talked to and convinced the ignorant lady.

Is kissing before marriage a sin? This is a frequently asked question by singles that really want to leave the bird undefiled. It is so unfortunate to notice that although they want answers but when they get one they decide to go against it and they twist the bible to suit their decision: they really wish to explore the act (at least it's romantic). The aforementioned lady had made some references to the Christian scripture—1conrinthians 16:20, Romance 16:16 et al.—of which the act of kissing was encouraged. when I heard this I laughed so hard to the extent of being challenged by a watch guard, then I said to myself: forgive her father for she knows not what she said.

Now listen, there is a big difference between the Jewish kiss and the French kiss. Noticeably, the Jews greet themselves with kisses, it is equivalent to the Western handshake. To the Jews, kissing is not a mouth-mouth, it is done to the cheek, and it is just a sign of respect, it is used to salute with no other ulterior motives. We all know what kissing in Nigeria means to Nigerian Youth— its not to salute each other. The word "holy" is actually being added to those aforementioned verses in the bible and so it will not be holy when it leads to premarital sex.

The motive behind kisses is what makes it right or wrong. You will not call it wrong when you see your Mom kissing your Dad or your Mom kissing your younger sister because of the motive behind it. I likened kissing in Nigeria to the event that occurred between Judas Iscariot and his master: Jesus. It was a serious event that led to the death of the two parties involved: Jesus was killed and Judas committed suicide (Luke 22:47). The motive behind the kiss given to Jesus was not to salute him but to reveal him. Then I say on to you, any kiss that is offered to you except with the motive of greetings is dangerous.

Can't you just wait until the fullness of time? A time is coming when you will be allowed to kiss through out the day with your spouse (although, not possible). A five minute kiss can lead to five years of shame and dejection, can you please wait for the right moment so you won't regret your action? If you can, then, you're on the right path. Happy Sunday!

Its wrong to eavesdrop on another person's conversation. Its worse that you got the fake ass roommate to part with his phone so you can lecture his girl friend. That is just weird, lame, childish and truly shameful. How old are you guys?

So it's rubbish huh?
keep to it then...

it's no news that the world @ large hate truth...

tobihills didn't force anyone to make the word sink in his/her heart...why pour invectives on him?

aah aah. bizzare world.

AikayDaWrapper:
Just common kissing again.

Abeg



Swerve

LOL

sonofananimal1:
WHO THE HELL CAN EXPLAIN WHAT THIS EEDIOT IS TALKING ABOUT

YOUR POST MAKE 0.0000000000001% SENSE AT ALL.

AND WHO THE HELL IS THE MOD WHO PUSH THIS RUBBISH TO FRONT PAGE

I wonder o.Totally absurd!

wait let me consult d oracle OKPATUKPO TUKPOOOOOOO TUOYO TUOYO TUOYO

I agree on the kiss but what about hugs?

sonofananimal1:
WHO THE HELL CAN EXPLAIN WHAT THIS EEDIOT IS TALKING ABOUT

YOUR POST MAKE 0.0000000000001% SENSE AT ALL.

AND WHO THE HELL IS THE MOD WHO PUSH THIS RUBBISH TO FRONT PAGE

WAITING TO READ UR WISE ARTICLE SOON,!!

mrkings84:

WAITING TO READ UR WISE ARTICLE SOON,!!

KEEP ON WAITING!!! YOU HEAR!!

As 4 mua ZONAZINNY, I find kissing very very disgusting

@ddami........no vex.........sTc

pile of bullsh*t packed together to for crap mtchew I shouldn't Fu*k agreed I shouldn't kiss toooooo aba na

thank god i hv never kiss bfor... But i will love to anyway :-P

tobishills12:
Can't you just wait until the fullness of time? A time is coming when you will be allowed to kiss through out the day with your spouse (although, not possible). A five minute kiss can lead to five years of shame and dejection, can you please wait for the right moment so you won't regret your action? If you can, then, you're on the right path. Happy Sunday!

Patiently waiting for marriage, will kiss him from 6a.m till 10a.m. Infact, he won't go to work for 2 months cos av had patience enof

bestdeals0:
Patiently waiting for marriage, will kiss him from 6a.m till 10a.m. Infact, he won't go to work for 2 months cos av had patience enof

you sure 'bout that?

Yea

0lushola:
you sure 'bout that?

bestdeals0:
Yea

hmm, swithrt, I wish yhu the best

Tnx dear. I wish u d best too

0lushola:
hmm, swithrt, I wish yhu the best

tobishills12:
Kissing while Single: Judas Version

Saturday night was a splendid one, you know why? Because I had to lecture someone on this above topic. I was sleeping when I heard my roommate conversing on phone with his girlfriend (MTN refer to that as xtra-cool). Yes that was a disturbance, I couldn't sleep any longer, fortunately for me I could hear what they where both saying: I eavesdropped!

it was a very interesting conversation of which I felt jealous, did I? No I didn't. All I know was that I felt like calling someone too, unfortunately I had none. I have been enjoying the conversation until it came to the shocking part of which I heard his girlfriend refusing sex before marriage, claiming she's still a virgin but she was not an opposition to the act of kissing before marriage. That part shocked me, I have been hearing about this but I have never heard someone I know talk about it, I had to beg and pester my friend to please hand over the phone to me of which he agreed, then I was fulfilled when I talked to and convinced the ignorant lady.

Is kissing before marriage a sin? This is a frequently asked question by singles that really want to leave the bird undefiled. It is so unfortunate to notice that although they want answers but when they get one they decide to go against it and they twist the bible to suit their decision: they really wish to explore the act (at least it's romantic). The aforementioned lady had made some references to the Christian scripture—1conrinthians 16:20, Romance 16:16 et al.—of which the act of kissing was encouraged. when I heard this I laughed so hard to the extent of being challenged by a watch guard, then I said to myself: forgive her father for she knows not what she said.

Now listen, there is a big difference between the Jewish kiss and the French kiss. Noticeably, the Jews greet themselves with kisses, it is equivalent to the Western handshake. To the Jews, kissing is not a mouth-mouth, it is done to the cheek, and it is just a sign of respect, it is used to salute with no other ulterior motives. We all know what kissing in Nigeria means to Nigerian Youth— its not to salute each other. The word "holy" is actually being added to those aforementioned verses in the bible and so it will not be holy when it leads to premarital sex.

The motive behind kisses is what makes it right or wrong. You will not call it wrong when you see your Mom kissing your Dad or your Mom kissing your younger sister because of the motive behind it. I likened kissing in Nigeria to the event that occurred between Judas Iscariot and his master: Jesus. It was a serious event that led to the death of the two parties involved: Jesus was killed and Judas committed suicide (Luke 22:47). The motive behind the kiss given to Jesus was not to salute him but to reveal him. Then I say on to you, any kiss that is offered to you except with the motive of greetings is dangerous.

Can't you just wait until the fullness of time? A time is coming when you will be allowed to kiss through out the day with your spouse (although, not possible). A five minute kiss can lead to five years of shame and dejection, can you please wait for the right moment so you won't regret your action? If you can, then, you're on the right path. Happy Sunday!

bestdeals0:
Patiently waiting for marriage, will kiss him from 6a.m till 10a.m. Infact, he won't go to work for 2 months cos av had patience enof

Hehehe. .Lord have mercy on his lips. But ermmm...what would you be doing during the two months?

Kissing cos av waited for long

forandy:


Hehehe. .Lord have mercy on his lips. But ermmm...what would you be doing during the two months?

bestdeals0:
Kissing cos av waited for long

loool. .it's okay sha. Wait well

OK dear.

forandy:


loool. .it's okay sha. Wait well