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Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by MrsChima(f): 3:44pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
smithsydny: You don't have to read any of my comments. My opinions isn't to cater to what you think someone to say or not. It is a free world...move on |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by BOWOTO(m): 3:50pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima:But you know you're wrong right, so if we had sex and you get pregnant,dont you think its wrong for you to take it out without telling me, think about it. 1 Like |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
smithsydny: Didn't a guy just poisoned a baby because he wanted out of the relationship with the child's mother? Men do terrible things too when they feel trapped within a relationship they no longer want or faced with a pregnancy/child that wasn't planned. It happens everywhere. In America, Scott Peterson murdered his pregnant wife Lacy because he didn't want to be a father. So guys please, don't act like every guy is overjoyed or willing to take responsibility upon hearing this kind of news. Hence ladies just take matters into their own hands. Some guys can be cruel & so are some ladies (the ones who chuck babies in bins for an example). 3 Likes |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima: AMEN. + 100. 1 Like |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by MrsChima(f): 4:03pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
BOWOTO: If we agreed on having children as married couples...I wouldn't. If we are dating and had unprotected sex and I am pregnant depending on my circumstances I would give the child up however I don't judge women who have abortions because it is obvious they don't want the baby or can't care for it. It is their choice and I can't force my opinions on them. I suggest men use condoms until you have met the right one to breed babies with. 3 Likes |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by proxillin(m): 4:04pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima: If all fails she can go for abortion. But now...nothing is failing...just short few quarrel break, she aborted. My guy is single and has have a good job enough to take care of 4 wives, talkless of a single girl And the lady is working too |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by ladyF(f): 4:11pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Benignasweety:U r just realising that he isn't financially capable abi? When una dey do una thing, u no call us o. Tall to ur folks about it. Sorry ehnnn |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by MrsChima(f): 4:19pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
proxillin: Men don't get it. Just because he is employed and has money means NOTHING. He loses his job then what? He leaves her for another woman then what? He decides he wants nothing to do with the kid then what? Money is like fire it can be extinguished! 2 Likes |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by BOWOTO(m): 4:29pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima:I get your point, but you're saying the men should use condom like the woman wasn't aware hes not using one, I'm 27,if my girlfriend is 25 I think its only fair she tells me about the pregnancy and the reason why she cannot keep it,then we will both decide before aborting the baby, I'm not talking about kids,im speaking as a responsible adult. |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by proxillin(m): 4:31pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima: So based on your logic, people should not marry again. or what makes you think he will not marry her if he knew she is carrying her baby? 1 Like |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:women do worst nne |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by onemorepls(m): 4:54pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Let him give her another one |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima:off cos I will I can never be stagnant ma'am.. know that she will surly pay for what she did be it now or later.. what if its her only child she aborted? then she will carry her misfortune to anoda innocent guy, or what if she losses her womb hmmmm...don't u consider all this ma'am.. |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by proxillin(m): 5:01pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
onemorepls: Just like your display name. na so u dey give am around ? |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
smithsydny: Come on! That's bullcrap & you know it. It appears so because when a woman commits a crime, it's considered more shocking since women are supposed to be caretakers, nurturers & so forth. The most heinous crimes are often committed by men. Need I mention the likes of Ted Bundy, Richard Ramirez, Ghengis Khan... And what's the name of that guy who got crafty with the skin of his victims by making lampshades, rugs...? I believe he even wore the skin at one point. Made a sweater ![]() |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by faith551(m): 5:18pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima: When I mentioned feminism, that's was the only thing that came to my mind that could warrant you to make the comments about abortion, seriously no woman can try that on me, why will you abort my sweat and blood? It takes two to tango, and when the deed is done, the two has to make the decision. The lady in question sound patetic,now they are back in terms, who even suffered it sef. No fighting sha, how have u been, I missed u ![]() |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by cyprus000: 5:30pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima:[size=13pt] If you abort my baby. I swear. Just lyk you didn't give my son/girl the right to live. I will take away your's too Cos I don't need your consent to terminate your life,just lyk you didn't need their consent to tarminate their's That's the perfect example of equality and equity you peeps preach Tho it can never happen,let me pretend its a nightmare. [/size] |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Benignasweety:. Contact me! |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by MrsChima(f): 5:37pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
cyprus000: Abortion is legal. Murder is illegal (those whose aren't in the womb) If you don't mind the death penalty...murder away. 1 Like |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by MrsChima(f): 5:38pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
faith551: You don't missed me. |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by MrsChima(f): 5:40pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
smithsydny: It is her life. |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:that's for u bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
smithsydny: Oke doke. Let's just agree to disagree. |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by MrsChima(f): 5:43pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
proxillin: People should look before they leap and know whom they are sleeping with. It is better to be safe than sorry. We don't know the man's reaction but marriage doesn't solve anything. |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by faith551(m): 5:43pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima:I did |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by ladyF(f): 5:45pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
But u guys are not the ones going to carry a protruded belly for 9 months, u won't join her as she goes through the supposed *shame* and stigma that society will met out for *mothering* a child out of wedlock, the stigma wen they ask her how is *Oga*, and she has to explain that she's not married yet, how her parents will feel too.... I'm not saying she has the veto power, but I think the overall decision should lie with her. The OPs friend should just talk things through with the lady, put urself in her shoes too. ![]() ![]() PS: I do NOT in any way support abortion. 4 Likes |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by refreshrate: 5:45pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
Benignasweety: If na dat guy dey dey your dp with you your issue is more than just his being in final year o |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by refreshrate: 5:47pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
faith551:wrong answer you're meant to say "I dod" |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by proxillin(m): 5:48pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
ladyF: The risk of losing her womb and life is more than stigma and shame |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by ladyF(f): 5:49pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
To every action there are consequences... proxillin: |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by proxillin(m): 5:49pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima: That's d point. She didn't wait for d man's reaction. |
Re: She Aborted My Baby Without My Consent by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
MrsChima:that's what I expected |
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