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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 7:52am On Jul 31, 2015
Hmmm... Let them continue to lie until they realise their is nothing profitable there.

Modified: i realised females are more than guys on this thread.. It's normal sha,they will defend themselves.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by donbrowser(m): 7:53am On Jul 31, 2015
christinie:
why should it be the norm? It should be discouraged. Unmarried people should not be involved with sex. Am not here to preach though.
Are you a virgin?
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 7:53am On Jul 31, 2015
whizqueen:
If she tells you I was df at the age of 15 by her Ex or something you'll call her cheap angry now she's trying not to look cheap just because she cares you're now ranting here again undecided

What does nigerian guys want sef
Lying to your bf is a deceit.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by freeage7(m): 7:54am On Jul 31, 2015
christinie:
Can you prove this allegation?
But why would boy friends care to know how their girls was dis flowered? I think it is irrelevant to know.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 7:54am On Jul 31, 2015
Anjorson4sure:
If you have value for your relationship you will not border bother over non issue conversation. You should look for what the future hold for both of you not the past
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Gurgle(f): 7:57am On Jul 31, 2015
dabriggs:



Thank you jare for saying the truth. No be all those yeye "why does he want to go to memoryt lane" answers. Some Ladies and yeye borrowed terms. Simple question, una dey write textbook as answer. It is simple, you do not want him to think you are a sl.ut who sleeps around!
Guys will tell you how it happened. I have never met a guy who ran away from this question.

Yeah that's it

The same way a guy wont tell her how he used to be an armed robber

nobody wants to reveal that agbero side of their past
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:00am On Jul 31, 2015
UpLoyo:


Height of joblessness, of that relevance is somebody's else virginity? Some of you are just too disgusting to be allowed amongst sane people. There's always a stupid article about ladies, do you perverts have a mother or sister in your lineage at all? What is your damn business if a ladies lies about her virginity to her man, is that your freaking problem? Bunch of jerk offs, I blame the clown responsible more monitoring this website, it has really gone to the dogs.
He may want to wife her,hence,the question about her past.I will rather do my private investigation about her than ask her directly,cos I know she will lie.I don't want a runsgirl as a wife.Never!

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Adexchelsea19(m): 8:04am On Jul 31, 2015
I see some ladies here are blaming guys for asking questions like this,but most times is d girls that come up with all dis lies of how they were disflowered but bcs they think their bf may look down on them.Normally i don't even ask a gal whether shes a virgin on not,i can find that out mysef.Gals re d once that cum up with how they are disflowered mayb after their bf have asked them if they are a virgin or not...they use that 2 give reasons why they are not and most times they lied abt it.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by onajo2000(m): 8:06am On Jul 31, 2015
Some times it looks like a Mumu way to dem cos if them tell you, you go see them finish
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by richard870(m): 8:09am On Jul 31, 2015
lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?
That happens as a result of being dumped after 'oga' don chop their 'biscuit' grin[color=#770077][/color]
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by jessBoitumelo: 8:11am On Jul 31, 2015
lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?
why is that a problem to you? Joblessness I guess.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:11am On Jul 31, 2015
Gurgle:


Yeah that's it

The same way a guy wont tell her how he used to be an armed robber

nobody wants to reveal that agbero side of their past


Chai See our parallel case o! "I will rather die than commit suicide o".
But I do not think I will be shy in saying I am an agbero na. An armed robber, I guess not. But hey, you women do things for love. Infact if to say God no create una the way him create una plenty men for no dey see woman wey go love them.

Anyway sha, make I face my computer..hey come help me work. We go shared my Friday wage.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Humanbeingyahoocom(f): 8:15am On Jul 31, 2015
christinie:
Can you prove this allegation?
YES
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:16am On Jul 31, 2015
freecocoa:
We must have diffrent understanding of what "agreeing" means, I wonder how you can say you agree yet here we are.

No, I'm not guessing, I do know many girls who lost their virginity through r*pe, you first have to understand that many people don't even know what rape is.

Plus, I don't remember saying every girl who's lost her virginity in naija did so through rape, so what's your case exactly?
It's not all girls who get rape that are virgins.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by abat4real37(f): 8:18am On Jul 31, 2015
otunsman:
It's because lying is their birthright
you are confuse
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Ifebazz(m): 8:19am On Jul 31, 2015
Nneka123:
Trust you say!

Some guys tend to act like they don't care about a girl's past or how many guys she has been with, when they ain't good either, but as soon as she just start talking about her EX, then the virginity part, and AYE! Everything changes, but his own past ain't pretty too.
The reason for that notion is because ladies carry decency like a noticeboard on their foreheads like it's only guys that do the evil things. They feign no knowledge or interest at that in sex. Now check this thread that seems to slight their innocence, the ladies pop out in numbers to defend their womanhood and untouchable pasts, but given another thread that talks straight sex, you won't see any lady popping up to share their thoughts. That's blatant hypocrisy.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 31, 2015
shaiba:
that is past and the future is bright with him by her side. would it be fair to ask how he was disvirgined? why should it be of interest to him? would the answer make them richer or add more years to his life? Honestly I don't see how it can better the future of that relationship.

MOVE ON BRO
Hmm!!! sis, frankly speaking. The assurance that a lady had that she is going to marry the guy who deflower her is 30 percent. And, the word TRUST is the fundamental principle of a successful marriage.
You cant expect me to marry a lady that i didn't know how she got deflowered. Even, if i marry her. my trust for her is shaky.



i be team#zipitupuntilmarriage
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by yollychika(f): 8:22am On Jul 31, 2015
Y una guyz wantu even know how we lost our virginities Na una lost undecided

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:24am On Jul 31, 2015
lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?
Society makes them lie
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by BestySam(m): 8:29am On Jul 31, 2015
Gurgle:


NO NO NO NO grin grin grin grin grin LOOL

*modified

but anyway, these might be true. that's the sad thing

But I think if I were her I would have evidence for the toilet infection ready, to prove that its not a lie

LOL... The truth is I DON'T CARE! Virgin or no virgin.

I'm even scared of meeting a virgin cuz of the blood thing, I can't stand it.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Temysteve(m): 8:29am On Jul 31, 2015
Na so 1 foolish gal told me say she be vergin, as i done enter her toronto! She con dey tell me say she no knw say na 2wice dem dey disvergin, say na 1 foolish ex..
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Gurgle(f): 8:32am On Jul 31, 2015
BestySam:


LOL... The truth is I DON'T CARE! Virgin or no virgin.

I'm even scared of meeting a virgin cuz of the blood thing, I can't stand it.

What! are you serious

you generally don't like blood or just that kind of blood
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by soniawarmate: 8:32am On Jul 31, 2015
Guys u r d ones raping dis girls so y ask again can a girl rape herself? A guy raped a girl in school and after school d girl became a big girl working in Lagos some day dis guy came in contact wt d girl and he fell inlove wt her. A day came when he asked her how she got disvirgined and when d girl finished her tragic story of how she was raped in d university by a cult guy by d cult name......dis guy immediatly knew he was d one no need to flash back.the girl was narrating her ordeal wt tears in her eyes, and she laid courses on d guy right in front of him not knowing d guy she was talking to and in love wt is her rapist. Dis guy dieing of guilt could no longer face the girl he decided to disappear. It took dis girl a friend of his who he confessed to to know the truth and y dis guy has just disappeared without a word. So in dis case do u still advice guys continue to ask how a girl got disvirgined? If yes den d guy should also say how he got disvirgined, den guys will continue to lose dia relatioship cos dia sins will b exposed and trust me no girl can stand a guy dat forcefully disvirgined her. Guy do d right tin. What goes around comes back around.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by sirlaw2(m): 8:34am On Jul 31, 2015
Na so my gf tell me say her ex bf wey disvirgin her only did outer disvirgining. Say na me come do d real internal disvirginig.... I dey look myself like mumu since..
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by BestySam(m): 8:39am On Jul 31, 2015
Gurgle:


What! are you serious

you generally don't like blood or just that kind of blood

I ain't a vampire. I've been hearing stories of how girls were deflowered and the whole scenario is not something I would love to experience esp the blood and the cry.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:46am On Jul 31, 2015
freeage7:

But why would boy friends care to know how their girls was dis flowered? I think it is irrelevant to know.
Some girls past are nothing to write home about. Some of them brings bad luck and misfortune to their husbands after marriages.Especially,those retire runsgirls and prostitute.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Basoj(m): 8:50am On Jul 31, 2015
soniawarmate:
Guys u r d ones raping dis girls so y ask again can a girl rape herself? A guy raped a girl in school and after school d girl became a big girl working in Lagos some day dis guy came in contact wt d girl and he fell inlove wt her. A day came when he asked her how she got disvirgined and when d girl finished her tragic story of how she was raped in d university by a cult guy by d cult name......dis guy immediatly knew he was d one no need to flash back.the girl was narrating her ordeal wt tears in her eyes, and she laid courses on d guy right in front of him not knowing d guy she was talking to and in love wt is her rapist. Dis guy dieing of guilt could no longer face the girl he decided to disappear. It took dis girl a friend of his who he confessed to to know the truth and y dis guy has just disappeared without a word. So in dis case do u still advice guys continue to ask how a girl got disvirgined? If yes den d guy should also say how he got disvirgined, den guys will continue to lose dia relatioship cos dia sins will b exposed and trust me no girl can stand a guy dat forcefully disvirgined her. Guy do d right tin. What goes around comes back around.
You be nollywood expert, this your story resembles that of nollywood.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Lanadelrey: 8:51am On Jul 31, 2015
This only applies to illiterates or insecure people with lesser mindsets. Educated well-rounded couples don't ask about the past sexual history of their partner and they never bring up theirs. Shows you what category most Nigerians fall in.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 8:55am On Jul 31, 2015
Lanadelrey:
This only applies to illiterates or insecure people with lesser mindsets. Educated well-rounded couples don't ask about the past sexual history of their partner and they never bring up theirs. Shows you what category most Nigerians fall in.
So you are implying on us to wife indecent girls,esp the runsgirls and hoes?

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Lanadelrey: 8:59am On Jul 31, 2015
Edusouls:
Shut up,the past never stays dead,you women think that all those past dirty lives of urs is written off,of course not,it lingers and follows u for lifetime and surely into the home thats why most marriages today are full of scandals and they fail,so we men should always ask and be concious of the past of the person we are commiting our future with, cos we dont want to end up with women with various curses...
Illiteracy is a disease, Get well soon. I hope you will also tell your unfortunate future wife your own sexual history so she can avoid curses as well. lmao

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