xpac01:
Every sense in me tells me the that se.x with the guy has been sweet and this sleazy honey moments haa got a strong grip on your soul. Infact you're scared that you might not meet some other guy as good in the sack.

My dear open up your heart and give a green light to another nice guy, and watch how you drop this muchicanaso like some hot spoilt yam.

khassy:
the guy took your name to EDO

Edo winches can explain better


oya Wheesin come and explain una activities

wheesin:


abeg when the girl mention edo ? Better buy original drugs, before your sickness worsens

xpac01:
Every sense in me tells me the that se.x with the guy has been sweet and this sleazy honey moments haa got a strong grip on your soul. Infact you're scared that you might not meet some other guy as good in the sack.

My dear open up your heart and give a green light to another nice guy, and watch how you drop this muchicanaso like some hot spoilt yam.

kilokeys:
He know how press your mumu button

raayah:
You have to be an adult in this situation and realize that this relationship is unhealthy for you.

No one is going to force you to leave him.

Be honest with yourself. Grow a pair and stop contacting this man. Give it time and you will be able to get over yourself.
I will also advice you to love yourself. If you love yourself, its easier for you to be more honest with yourself and you will want to do the right thing for yourself.

You can end this relationship.

Find your inner strength.

swtdrms:
Sincerely its not easy dropping this guy because i have a clear understanding of what you are going thru, i thnk i'v experienced too many "bad good and ugly" things to see into how hard it is to depart from him. That being said, you first of all have to be convinced he is completely d wrong guy, cuz if that conviction isn't there, any little disappointment from other guy will make him be like "after all he's better than so many guys out there" and you'll be tempted to accept him back.

Secondly, avoid his terrain, try avoid him as much as you can. Any innocent contact, seeing each other will strike back the good memories you had with him, from there the resistance you'v been trying to develop either crumbles immediately or begin to crumble. (how i wish i can tell a small story what my experience was but no time)

Thirdly, get your life going, mix with people, friends, relation, inshort get busy, try avoid loneliness and boredom, because these are the factors that'll strike back that fun memories you both had, and to make matter worse, if his call come in at that moment and he talk some sweet words into your heart, ehn! thats a bomb ooooo, you'll just be like, i can't just leave this guy, thereby deceiving yourself that he'll change ds time around. Babe na lie oooo, em no go change.

With these three steps, i thnk in a short while you would have freed yourself from his shackles although not completely but to a great extend where you'll be ready for another guy, hopefully more reasonable and responsible guy to enter your heart.

I wish you all the best and hope your next prospect will be a joyous, happy and fruitful one. free your mind, spirit and heart and enjoy the good things of life.

AnyibestDede:
What u need to do is to ask urself what u really want. I knw is not easy but u hv to start frm somewhere and try to convince urself that he is the wrong guy 4 u. Open ur heart to a nice guy and try to 4get abt anything that reminds u of ur ex. I wish u luck

SunshineNYC:
I'm in this terrible situation and don't know how to drag myself out of it. I met this guy 5 years ago and we've dated off and on since then. He's always a bit detached and distant in the relationship and I'll admit he's done some pretty messed up things to me. This relationship causes me a lot of anxiety, frustration and heartaches but still I love him.Our last break up was a year ago and it was the worst of all. I don't want to make this too long so I won't go in to detail but it was so bad that for months I hated him, pure hatred and swore I would never speak to him again but he has a hold on me that I can't explain and here I am pining away for him again knowing fully well if I give in I'd be making a fool of myself.

What is this grip that he has on my heart? It's just not natural how much I love this idiot that keeps mistreating me. I've tried to date another guy but couldn't make it work because I'm still stuck on my ex. I never thought I'd be in this situation and usually I'm a very level headed and rational person. I'm usually very careful about not accepting any form of abuse from anyone but when it comes to him, all good sense goes out the door. I need some big sis and big bro advice from you guys. How do I shake this stupidity aka love off?

0luwatope:
Issokay, i stand to be corrected because am only a teen but this is what i do before i go into any relationship. I baricade my heart and create a love limit for my partner, i hope for the best and always expect the worst. People change and so do their feelings. Someone that means everything to you today may be totally useless tommorow. Why let that inner foolishness of love control you in the first place? Am sorry you might not be able to forget it because memories last forever but what might help u is to stop being alone, move with your funny friends, crazy friends, when you are alone, u get depressed so try to be with a crazy or stubborn friend for sometime....