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Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 8:44am On Apr 02, 2009 |
ebony r u a mother? |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Tgirl4real(f): 8:58am On Apr 02, 2009 |
I think she spends a lot of times with kids. |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 9:23pm On Apr 02, 2009 |
~Sissy~:Me? lol, nope Tgirl4real:You thought right |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 9:49pm On Apr 02, 2009 |
@ Sissy, Tgirl and others: 1. How do you potty train a child? 2. What can you do if your baby starts brawling and catching an attitude in public. (Age: Less than 5 yrs old) |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 11:38pm On Apr 02, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: first every child is unique so this might or might not work. patience and guidance is the keyword, so here is what i do 1) take him/her with you inside the toliet and demonstrate with them. for example during the time for my little niece, i did the demonstrating. i kinda squatted on it and she was watching me and repeated it after me cox they sometimes learn by imitating, just to make her feel ease with it. maybe do the gender thing. boys with the father and moms with the daughter. 2) recognize the signs that they need to go or help them recognize the signs of knowing when they are wet etc and encourage to talk any sensation of wanting to go they might have. my niece her face changes when she wants to go or she just stand still, all i do then is to help her sit. 3) i'd suggest keeping some toys around there, just to keep them busy while they do their thing. or maybe some cheerios as a reward each time they do it right and praise them too. like Good job! David, or high 5 just to get them going 4) let them practice by themselves how to pull up and down their pants, and maybe have them flush the toilet for you, as to get them familiar with the whole process and maybe bring their potty chair in the toilet which the child may sit, only if the want to, they may if they see you doing it. 5)just make them to sit on the potty chair if even nothing happens it just gets them familiar and comfortable with it. 5 |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 11:49pm On Apr 02, 2009 |
You said all I've said on the other thread except for number 3. Knew I was going to learn sth new. Thanks |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 11:56pm On Apr 02, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: i'd suggest maybe try to settle the whatever the matter is mutually and if it doesn't solve the issue i wouldn't mind dragging them in a corner and spanking them. |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 12:03am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:And let them call the cops on me? I've tried this, and I've been advice not to. Fact is, some kids thinks you won't beat them just because you'r ein public, which they are right, so they take advantage and use the opportunity to get what they want. I took my cousin to walgreens to "sth". we got to the cashier, and you know that's where they love tho keep their candy. He pointed to a candy right, so I bought it for him. He pointed to another, I told him no. So he started crying and kicking. I was about to give him a "small" sroke on his buttocks, but the lady was like "awww, don't do that. He's just a kid". I told her if I walk out of the store without paying for the candy, she better not call the cops on me. There is no way, a two year old can know why he's being spanked. But then, how else do you hush them and not spoil them in public? Hope say you're not tired of hearing me talk about my cutie pie. But he's the best example for this topic. Not that he's a bad kid, but he gets out of hands sometimes |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 12:20am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: haha that one, i will never buy it for him, let him cry for all i care. by the way i haven't heard where they said crying kills som1. so if it was me, i'd let him scream, candy is not good either so that one is even a bigger no 4rom me. after crying we enter the car tired ke? nah, you help keep the topic flowing jare . keep them coming |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 12:23am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:LOL, abi o. Drag am out of the store and let him cry. But it's embarassing Infact, let me show you his pic. Tell me when you're ready. . . . |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 12:30am On Apr 03, 2009 |
ready, set, go! i'm ready |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 12:34am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Okay, will remove it shortly. The one in the pink is not me o That's my cutie pie |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 12:37am On Apr 03, 2009 |
You saw it? |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 12:38am On Apr 03, 2009 |
yes oh, i saw it. oh my, he is soooooooooooooooo cute awww oh yea, i sure do know what u r saying, at this stage, thats where the wahala start he is really cute |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 12:38am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:Na me he take resemble lol joking |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 12:40am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: hahahaha you got one cutie pie there baby |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 12:42am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:One naughty troublesome handsome pie Sadly, I'd be leaving him to live on campus Okay, now at topic, What's the best age to have a baby? |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 12:47am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: how sad hahaha my teacher once said 15-20 but i dont believe her. for me i'd say 15-28 cox after 30, many things start changing and i wanna grow old with them, so i'd start early |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 12:50am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:28 sounds pretty good. . . . 15-20? Was she high? So they can provide for them with our tax money? You should have sent her this song. Explains a lot about having kids https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGIp3gVuslY&feature=channel_page |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 12:55am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: hehehe like the octomom i like that song but how many folks today actually wait? |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 1:19am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:I knew you would Octo mom? She's mentally ill. How can you have babies and not have any ways/means to take care of them. Yet, still wants to have more? . It's not that they don't want to wait, it's lack of prevention. Lack of proper judgment, just having unprotected sex up and down. |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 1:25am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: octomom na case oo, she is obsessed with kids and i really pity those kids me wait? rofl |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 1:27am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:*grabs her leg* Ahhhh, you, madam, come here now!! Wetin dey laugh you? Come and explain ooooooo |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 1:47am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: me and waiting cant be in the same sentence ooo |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 1:57am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:Why? Are you. . . .P? |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 2:02am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: hahaaa wot's a P? am in a relationship so waiting is not me ooo so are you waiting? |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 2:06am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:Oh okkk, I was talking about you waiting for the right time to have a baby. Then you said you won't. . . .ahhh, you scared me o I'm waiting because I don't want to get into one and Naija men here are NOT my type jare. You know, I don't understand why ppl say Ghanaian men are ugly, the ones on my campus are so fynnn. Gosh! |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Sissy3(f): 2:10am On Apr 03, 2009 |
Ebony-Silk: Ghanaian men?, not sure if i have seen any of them , the ones in my sch. are mostly from Ethiopia and they continue waiting my dear, as they say good things come to those who wait |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Nobody: 2:17am On Apr 03, 2009 |
~Sissy~:You haven't? Them say they're ugly, but the ones I've seen so far are cute. The naija men here, some are fyn, but they try too hard to be westernized. Not my cup of tea. I'm Nigerian to the core LOL, time is still on my side, baby. Not waiting, not looking I have never seen Ethiopian men o. . . |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Hauwa1: 2:27am On Apr 03, 2009 |
so na Ghana man Ebony dey look eh the ones on my campus no fynn at all unlike the ladies. ummm, na soso kenke you go dey cook. pickin go dey cry ebony no go mind am because she dey pound plantain for her ghana man all this ya kweshion no go get tail anymore because ghana man must chop they eat more than naija man o. but na plenty pickin you go get |
Re: Parental Guide: Bringing Up A Child by Hauwa1: 2:30am On Apr 03, 2009 |
no look for ethiopian man o. they are not fynne unlike their ladies few sha ok |
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