INTROVERT:
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Radison:
Hi nairalanders, am In a serious relationship but my woman does not care about me and she lacks respect for me. She does not listent to me and many more things. Am tired of the whole thing but my love for her is just too strong for me to move on. I have done a lot for her, faithful to her(never cheated in a two year old relationship), also listens to her. Thing is this; I want to move on because she does not have the character I need in a lady. How do I go about this? Is double dating going to help or what. Please serious and mature answers. Thanks

RickRichards:

First: You're in a serious relationship with her, but you don't like her character?
Second: You want to "move on", and double dating is the first solution that creeped into your mind?
My verdict: you don't know what you want.

INTROVERT:
cutehector please report here.

StPete:
I'm sure you're dating a lady within d age range of 17-23 yrs. Most times, girls within these ages are prone to being very abusive, stubborn and hard to control. She'd probably get over it as soon as she crosses that age bracket.

Forget love and let her be. Get someone else to keep ur mind busy or better yet, distract yourself with other things

marieolae:
Cut her off completely. Delete her from all your social networks and get busy. Take your mind off her and eventually you'll get over her. Be patient

He's already finding it hard to get over the lady, so deleting her is the first step. If he sees her picture on his bbm, watsapp etc it will only make him miss her more..
You think say na easy tin

Manuelson:


Ok.. Clap for yourself.. ... Op no need to delete anything.. Just ignore and do other things, learn a new skill , install modern combat (great game), have a beer or two once on a while with ur guys, read something new each day., enjoy life!!

marieolae:

He's already finding it hard to get over the lady, so deleting her is the first step. If he sees her picture on his bbm, watsapp etc it will only make him miss her more..
You think say na easy tin

Manuelson:


He needs to be able to see these things and still carry on with his life.. Wud make him stronger and less susceptible to emotional manipulation from any lady in the future... Its hard.. But must be done

Radison:
Hi nairalanders, am In a serious relationship but my woman does not care about me and she lacks respect for me. She does not listent to me and many more things. Am tired of the whole thing but my love for her is just too strong for me to move on. I have done a lot for her, faithful to her(never cheated in a two year old relationship), also listens to her. Thing is this; I want to move on because she does not have the character I need in a lady. How do I go about this? Is double dating going to help or what. Please serious and mature answers. Thanks

RickRichards:

First: You're in a serious relationship with her, but you don't like her character?
Second: You want to "move on", and double dating is the first solution that creeped into your mind?
My verdict: you don't know what you want.

StPete:
I'm sure you're dating a lady within d age range of 17-23 yrs. Most times, girls within these ages are prone to being very abusive, stubborn and hard to control. She'd probably get over it as soon as she crosses that age bracket.

Forget love and let her be. Get someone else to keep ur mind busy or better yet, distract yourself with other things

marieolae:

He's already finding it hard to get over the lady, so deleting her is the first step. If he sees her picture on his bbm, watsapp etc it will only make him miss her more..
You think say na easy tin

Manuelson:

He needs to be able to see these things and still carry on with his life.. Wud make him stronger and less susceptible to emotional manipulation from any lady in the future... Its hard.. But must be done

you guys are both right...but it depends on how the OP wants to take it. He might not be strong enough cuz of the love he still have for her (obviously). So deleting her pictures and blocking her contacts will be the very first step(forget about being mature and all that shiit)

Then he can hang out with pals to divert his attention from the chick, and get his heart trained in order to deal with such ish in future

vizkiz:




you guys are both right...but it depends on how the OP wants to take it. He might not be strong enough cuz of the love he still have for her (obviously). So deleting her pictures and blocking her contacts will be the very first step(forget about being mature and all that shiit)

Then he can hang out with pals to divert his attention from the chick, and get his heart trained in order to deal with such ish in future

misspicy:

Deleting her pictures and contacts should even be d first things he should do,if possible he should delete her number from his head,and he should stay off women for sometime too...get busy,this as always proven to be antidotes for hrtbreak

marieolae:
Cut her off completely. Delete her from all your social networks and get busy. Take your mind off her and eventually you'll get over her. Be patient

Op need I say more?

Nature8:


Nawa for you!
Is that the help you've to offer him?
For crying out loud, the dude needs help.. That's why he's here, if you don't have any advice for him you keep quiet..

RickRichards:

And who are you, Mother Nature?

Nature8:



You can say whatever you like, I've said what I wanna say.. Period!

RickRichards:

So this was all about you suffering from PMS? Please transfer your PMS-induced aggression to someone else next time, okay? Okay.