Hello fellow Nairaland members,

I'm seeking everyone's advice and opinion! I'm a Haitian American that lives in the United States and my sole purpose for this post is that about a year ago I met a Nigerian guy on Facebook. He sent me a friend request and I seen that we had mutual friends so I accepted his request. About a week later he inbox me and asked how was I doing and if it were possible that we could talk just as friends; I didn't see no wrong in holding a conversation. We Skyped and we found each other to be attractive. As time progressed we started texting, video chatting, and talking on the phone more and more.

A few weeks later he asked me for money saying that his so called friend duped him but I didn't give him any money because I was taught that a man should never ask a woman for money. Every other week he would come up with another excuse to ask me for money. So I decide to play along , I caught him in his lies then he realize he couldn't break me. So I confronted him and asked him if he was a scammer he told me not to accuse him of such a thing so I asked again then he laughed, after that moment I distance myself. He called me several of times and sent me more flowers non stop so I took him back and he seemed liked he changed for the better. We've been in a relationship ever since then until Friday that just past. Long story short since its long already, he recently had some random guy mail money to my house and he made some other guy send me money through western union which I declined and he got mad and tried to manipulate me to go and pick up the money. But I still refused, I told him if truly loved me then he would never place me in such a compromising position. He continued to say sorry and that he had no choice and I told him that he did have a choice but just chose money over me.

The reason I continued to talk to him because we fell love with one another. He brought me Diamond earring with a matching Diamond necklace, he would send me money, buy my school books, and expensive flowers. He gave me a copy of his ID, Drivers license, I know his tag number on his car, as well as his address so that I could trust him.

MY QUESTION TO FELLOW NAIRALAND MEMBERS IS WHY WOULD HE LET ME SEE WHO HE IS, KNOW WHERE HE STAY, ALL OF HIS FRIENDS, PEOPLE HE JUST MET, HIS BROTHER, MOTHER, FATHER, AND SOME OF HIS SISTER FOR HIM TO DO SUCH A THING TO ME I'm really confused was I being played this whole time Should I move on or take him back Please help

Eeyah. Move on....

Sorry

Sorry ma

I understood from the starting, to a point the linguis confused me. And you said something like " I was taught a woman should never give a man money"

Please who taught you?

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Sorry

Dear, I really wish to understand your story but can't understand a single thing from it because its not organized..
Do you mind editing your write up so that the understanding will be possible..

Your story is disorganized. Meaning...E no make sense. Try to rewrite... Chronologically as it happened and in summarized form.

Couldn't say sorry as others have said...cos of the above.

disorganised

#YouLostMeOnTheRoad

Frm d little i could understand frm ur story, i want u to believe dat anybody could av acted as his father, mother brother and sister(probably they work together), first impression goes a lng way. He had wanted to dupe u which u discovered and chaged over night to someone u could trust. Just be careful wit him o. Naija guys bad o. We av young scammers as well as aged scammers too.

He wants you to trust him. Don't fall for that. A scammer won't change so easily.

I dnt understand d story at all. but, sorry..

He comes from a good family and his story about his family's well-being checks out. I just don't know why he would choose such a path being that he have a college degree in bio-medical engineering. I mean, we have a lot of scammers over here just like anywhere else but they never identify themselves or go to great lengths on one possible victim. I guess he needed someone in the States who could do his dirty work while his hand remained clean. I know that he loves me but he wants me to help him dup other people and I'm not down for that.

I modified it... Sorry

chocolateme:
Dear, I really wish to understand your story but can't understand a single thing from it because its not organized..
Do you mind editing your write up so that the understanding will be possible..

eagertoknow y not b eager to face yuh studiezz !
nd stop lookin for facebook boyfriend @ yuh
tender age

Hmmm

I never looked for any guy on Facebook lets just clarify that and this was the first time that I developed a relationship with a guy its not like I went looking for a guy.

wisdomiskey:
eagertoknow y not b eager to face yuh studiezz !
nd stop lookin for facebook boyfriend @ yuh
tender age