SPECIAL REPORT:
"The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes
YOU Probably Make With Women-
And What To Do About It, "

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes.

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of Double Your Dating

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A Nice Guy

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to “nice” guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What’s going on here?

It’s actually very simple…

Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and it’s hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You”

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she’s just not interested?

Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.

Think about it.

If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”.


Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don’t get me wrong here.

You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts


How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It’s only NATURAL when this happens…

That’s right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

“I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”.

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
How You Feel Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves.

Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax.

There’s a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How
Attraction Works For Women


Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.


You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.


And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren’t attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Now I’m going to blow your mind…


A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That’s ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don’t like to ask for help.

Hey, I’ve been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women…

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn’t know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn’t get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night… right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I’ve dated models, I’ve dated actresses, and I’ve dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling… like I don’t know how to meet women… and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


It’s JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and how to take things to a “physical” level smoothly and easily.

I hope u don't mislead guys with this thread

PERFECT THREAD

Who ever doubts what you just posted will end up USED and DUMBED by ladies for being too "nice"

LOVELY POST

Nice write up; I think I might learn one or two things from it.

THIS POST IS A BOMB, INFACT IT IS AN EYE OPENER FOR US GUYS. I AHVE XPERIENCED MOST OF THE THINGS U HAVE SAID,

I COMOT CAP FOR Uooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!

@faakay

No doubt you are right, but you know that no matter how accurate a guy follows such instructions carefully does not define success at the end of the road, also need practical coaching and also a conspicous outplay at any of these examples given, for example a guy has to have basic skills as women do. these could incluse Charisma and prowess, he has to have an attitude. women love to fantasize when they are along. love to talk and discuss. love to gossip with friends, love to reflect on past day activities and to be part of the gist means you are making an impact on their minds, also to impact possitively ino their gists with such a great persona and attitude means that you have a shot, youmust have carriage and charisma for a woman also always respects guys that has that irrespective of how bouyant he is, just have a way you do your things that can be related with any other guys, Nice write up faakay I commend you for this, but you know that there alot players already, youdont have to bring more into the game, we go get competitors but not winners on us, because playas pass players

am out!!!

Ah! U try o.

na the secreT of my MeLody!

really?

brein:

Ah! U try o.

its not really the poster's idea but De Angelo's. i tell you all that this stuff is cool. i've subscribed to it and recieve his free newsletter often plus i've bought some of his products online.
this will take you from the nauve level to a point where you are the guru with women.
visit www.doubleyourdating.com for
www.datingtechniques.com
more info

regards

@poster
pele ooooooooo

@ y mE!

Oka Bo ooo!! why you!

non of those shits makes sense. any of those could make a gal fall for you. don't mislead people.

this is so wrong!

oya now

@faakay,PERFECT THREAD, Ben20001,ik_moore2

you guys should not think that books can help you or get any ladies, that book you think is on sale is crap, there are a lot of un true stories in there and ways if you go by it, I have read through the book and was laughing my pimpled black arse out, come on that book cant be serious and to think that the guy Ben200011 is promoting it is making a mess out of it in a whole bunch, Ben200011 who paid you to do this? I knowyou know the person who is selling the book, no one will ever buy that crap and if someone ever does that then you know he is a dumbo, I have been around 17 african countries and 3 arab world, europe and america, I am not saying am a hitcher for people to have a relationship, but I worked on radio channels. I have advised people in relationships, sending mails and all, I have even helped women get guys who think they are players, I ahve helped regained relationships which was all fallen, all I did without a dime payment, my payment is just to know that these people are back and having a whole good life spirited once again, even if you want a woman and you dont think she fancies you, all you have to do is tell me your persona, when I talk with you once or twice, you tell me where you work and your financial status is, I can tell your social charisma, along with the description of the kind of woman also with the way she replies you at events which you will detail to me, I will be able to recommend ways to win her so easy, women out there, if you have a man in mind and you want his heart, that is the easiest I will make him run to you like a bingo dog, all you have to do is discuss with me about him and try my advices, all I will do for nothing than these internet thieves. love is meant to be happily enjoyed without parting a dime,


if you want to contact me righocream@yahoo.co.uk
when you write me i would send you my number that you may call. just dont be shy, anybody can consult male or female. its free

Didi

Hey guys give d poster a brk, he never said he wrote it himself, instead he gave us d link, kudos man but girls are different.

HA AH !! this is aSUPER RIGHT!!! (for me tho !)

@Wizzy01

Hey guys give d poster a brk, he never said he wrote it himself, instead he gave us d link, kudos man but girls are different.

Now I am suspecting your intentions in this room and as shows your gestures here shows that you are a narkie and you are here to promote someone in here, come on what the hell are you? dumb, look at the likes of the poster of this link as well as Ben2000011 look at the similarities, I think they are one fella and the other hand might be a friend or someone who knows about his evil ways of catching mugus to buy the rest of the copies abandoned by the public who now rarte it as cheapest rubbish 2009 eve saw

@toup

This guy's good, I wish he was on Nairaland, I have some questions to ask him lol.

Hey topip, I am very much on nairaland, what do you think I just write from heavenland? come on, I have been in on this site far so long just that I like to read alot of all other things and prefer not to make any replies till I see that it is needed, I love to read a lotof other things and as though I ask some professional questions from high and eloquent iindividuals of which I have efficient soultions tomy problems, I believe that is what nairaland is for, I have got so much connections in here ranging from office to nigerian representations in the governement, you guys find it so hard to beleive that there is a great nigerian participation from all sections of lifestyles and office in here, dont take this site for granted as we all do, there are interlectuals in here that I have taken advantage of, I thank God for the owner of this site. he has brought alotof good favour to our dooorsteps.

I exist, just call me righocream and if you care to know I am in Nigeria and a human being

@Topup

You may ask your questions, am all ears from where I reside, I will try honestly to answer you squarely

@poster, i really appreciate ur thread. I a bomb!
I lost my first true relationship cos i was way too good for de gal, She cheated on me, which led 2our break up!
In de second relationship, i wasn't dat good with de new gal, dis made her hold me on high esteem. Tho we later broke up, but til date she stil needs me.
Being too good doesn't always work, Originality matters!

@Hollysmile

@poster, i really appreciate ur thread. I a bomb!
I lost my first true relationship cos i was way too good for de gal, She cheated on me, which led 2our break up!
In de second relationship, i wasn't dat good with de new gal, dis made her hold me on high esteem. Tho we later broke up, but til date she stil needs me.

sorry man for your past troubles. what I can say is that you had it all wrong from the past, being too good is not the question.
there is no such thing as being too good, well it all depends on your personality as well as able to control your emotions, when you were hurt by your woman was because you knew that she was not the type of woman to take seriously but because of your selfish concerns as well as lust for her particular beauty which you tasted for, (not necessarily her beauty outside) could mean something else you see in her, well you knew that she had that kind of prospects of cheating but you did not mind so far she gaveyou attention, you knew sooner or later that she would act and then you just wanted what your soul required, she finally broke your heart along the line. guys and babes should always look forward for a time to determine their future actions and deeds, make up your mind now inorder not to face heartbreaks in future for example it might hurt to cut off a relationship which you love a spouse now because of you have feelings which are strong forgetting that if you dont do it now that you would find it more difficult to contain in future because that feeling would have grown to a high state making itvery hard to contend with when your spouse eventually bursts you for another subject, what I see was that you were insecure in your first relationship and she knew and she wanted a much secure man and not someone that would always pay attention to her and treat her like a queen she was, not someone who would always tell her lovely stories or take her always in form of romance,,, atleast someone that would treat her like a friend, a hang out partner, a mate and then a lover, someone who can also play so many parts of personas and can fuse into societies easily, I see that she broke your confidence and when a woman does that to a man then she knows he is finished and does not find anything exciting anymore then the relationship because unattractive to her ,, boring and then you start to look like a bug, then it crashes,

The new woman in your

@Hollysmile

@poster, i really appreciate ur thread. I a bomb!
I lost my first true relationship cos i was way too good for de gal, She cheated on me, which led 2our break up!
In de second relationship, i wasn't dat good with de new gal, dis made her hold me on high esteem. Tho we later broke up, but til date she stil needs me.

sorry man for your past troubles. what I can say is that you had it all wrong from the past, being too good is not the question.
there is no such thing as being too good, well it all depends on your personality as well as able to control your emotions, when you were hurt by your woman was because you knew that she was not the type of woman to take seriously but because of your selfish concerns as well as lust for her particular beauty which you tasted for, (not necessarily her beauty outside) could mean something else you see in her, well you knew that she had that kind of prospects of cheating but you did not mind so far she gaveyou attention, you knew sooner or later that she would act and then you just wanted what your soul required, she finally broke your heart along the line. guys and babes should always look forward for a time to determine their future actions and deeds, make up your mind now inorder not to face heartbreaks in future for example it might hurt to cut off a relationship which you love a spouse now because of you have feelings which are strong forgetting that if you dont do it now that you would find it more difficult to contain in future because that feeling would have grown to a high state making itvery hard to contend with when your spouse eventually bursts you for another subject, what I see was that you were insecure in your first relationship and she knew and she wanted a much secure man and not someone that would always pay attention to her and treat her like a queen she was, not someone who would always tell her lovely stories or take her always in form of romance,,, atleast someone that would treat her like a friend, a hang out partner, a mate and then a lover, someone who can also play so many parts of personas and can fuse into societies easily, I see that she broke your confidence and when a woman does that to a man then she knows he is finished and does not find anything exciting anymore then the relationship because unattractive to her ,, boring and then you start to look like a bug, then it crashes,

The new woman in your which is the second woman in your life now took advantage of the shattered pieces which your first woman left with you, firstly you did not bother to build up the last relationship's debris, your confidence was already broken and by building up your confidence means first finding out the problem and then looking inward yourself and then makning sure that you are ready for a new relationship and not one which the woman is like the first or dating her because you are lonely, you have to date because you are ready for it and you are in a very good condition to be with someone and not a self lacking one as well able to give and receive comfortably not necessarily finance but love and attention, make sure that you do all these before you involve yourself with another girl, I wish you the best after checking yourself , build your confidence, this woman was able to see your mistakes of the first relationship and that is why she is acting the way you are seeing her, so make sure that you work on your cofidence, I know the problem you have is insecurity.

This guy have refused to say what his problem is.

@Ben20001

This guy have refused to say what his problem is.

do you think I have a problem? well I do not oh to be frank with you mr. BENBELLA, lol,

Being too good doesn't always work, Originality matters!

Yo!

Goog one there man!I thought i was reading David De Angelo here.You got it but its so difficulty for the so called nice guys to comprehend but its 100% fact