DISCLAIMER: 《I know it's kinda long but please your opinion is seriously needed.》

So, here's the messed up love story of my cousin.

She has got this boyfriend (now fiancé) right from her secondary school days (ss3 precisely) and they've been on this roller coaster love thing for almost 6 years. Finally he proposed.

well, that's the good side of the Story, let's head to the bad....

She graduated Secondary school at age 23 (yeah! she wasn't part of the young ones) and haven't had any luck gaining University admission. She's 29 now.

Finally, she's got a scholarship to study Neurosurgery abroad. Good news right (not really). Neurosurgery takes 14years to be completed. 14 years!!!. She'd be 43 when she's done. Her fiancé is well to do, but is that enough? And, he doesn't even consider travelling abroad to start a new life there or something.

She's contemplating ditching the scholarship (her dreams), for marriage, do you think that's an ideal idea.
Abeg help!!??

She'd be reading this later so please..... no Insults or harsh words

Seen this before...
U have nothing to say sef

43 years just to get a degree

I have noting to say...if she insist on going abroad let her go...he can get anoda gal to marry[b][/b]

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This is a very touch decision.... Transferring this case to the federal high court

czarr:
Seen this before...
U have nothing to say sef

this is happening real and your talking about seeing it before... well, it must have happened before, cool!

but, right now we need help not this...

why did she apply for a 14yrs course wen she knows her age....?
it's her problem, she shld solve it.

krazydave:
no Insults or harsh words

From nairalanders?



Are you joking



43 years before she gets Bsc
7 years to menopause Blood of Elijah!










SHE SHOULD CHANGE HER COURSE

The dude should go with her

rawpadgin:
The dude should go with her

He's financially stable, not rich enough to go abroad and start a new life. He's not even considering that too.


@Hawlahscho
that's almost not possible, the scholarship is more or less a 'specific' one.

op, the sister and fiancee are silly

ah!! pls..studying a 6years course sef isnt beans not to talk of 14years..pls let her go nd marry...dnt worry...in her next life she will be a neurosurgeon....

Let her follow her destiny

It's a tough call 4 her buh let her jst let go of d study. If she cn handle d 2 at d sm tym no problem buh i highly doubt dat

Anyways best of luck on wat she decides