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RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by HAZAZEL: 9:06am On Aug 11, 2015 |
The last few days here on nairaland has been war. The cause of this free for all is the subject of RAPE. So, wading through the barage of accusation, insults,and base generalistions I saw that most guys do not really understand the subject matter. You can take this to be a crash course to that effect. Here goes: Rape simply put is non-consensual sex. The key word is CONSENT. so if at any point a lady says/through actions express non-agreement to your sexual intent,but you still go ahead to do the deed, the law says you have raped her. It is not fair as I shall explain later,but that is the law for now. The moral background of the raped counts for little when in court. So a prostitute, non-virgin etc. According to law can be raped. Her morality is no excuse. So guys how can you protect yourself? Here are a few tips I got from jon mixon, a close follower of american jurisprudence: 1) Never have sex with drunk or "high" lady, legally she is in no mind to give consent. 2) A mixed answer should be taken as a no! 3) As much as possible minimise "alone time" with women. The reason is because when it comes to rape even a false accusation can be socially devastating in consequence. So employ cctv's in offices and when with female visitors at the last resort leave your doors open 4) Stay away sex wise from teenage girls and young adults. Most of them don't understand consent yet. 5) Stay away from women who have nothing to lose: a large percentage of false rape accusations come from morally lax women aiming to blackmail or outrightly ruin you. 6) Make certain that you are able to account for your time in the wake of a "bad date". Stop at a fast food restaurant, an all-night box store or a gas station. Pay with a credit/debit card and get a receipt. Just have a good alibi. 7) Only date women who know what they want. The era of "she gave me green light" is fast becoming late. When it comes to sex/rape only VERBAL CONSENT counts much. Sure asking : janet do you want to have sex? Takes away the spontanity of sex,but it might keep you out of jail. Don't forget when it comes to rape, the woman's word counts more than your own. Cc. Lalasticlala. 1 Like |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by ELTON123(m): 9:07am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by Cutehector(m): 9:09am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Thanks for this piece op.... |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by Elosky20: 9:11am On Aug 11, 2015 |
am sorry to say life is nt fair to men nowadays regarding the rape scandals flooting around. men have in som cases been raped by women but who will believe since the man is the penetrating patner. dont be suprise one day a lady u had sex with without condom might as well claim to be raped since your sperm is left in the lady as evidence. MEN SHOULD PLEASE LEARN TO CONTROL THEIR 3RD LEG. LADY SHOULD AVOID THE TEMPTATION OF BLACKMAILING GUYS because OF MONEY. #NOmarriageNOsex |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by Delusiongirl20(f): 9:13am On Aug 11, 2015 |
HAZAZEL: Yea because men as stronger than us, everybody should be careful. |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by Nobody: 9:17am On Aug 11, 2015 |
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Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by misspicy(f): 9:18am On Aug 11, 2015 |
E don do nah That moment wen you see anoda thread about rape....you be like most you people create threads...
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Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by gabazin080(m): 9:25am On Aug 11, 2015 |
The number 1 rule to avoid such mess is not to have extra-marital sex at all.
That way no woman can accuse you of rape |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by HAZAZEL: 9:39am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Cutehector: Thanks. Most friends will interpret this thread wrongly, I am not saying women are not raped ( my heart goes out to all true victims), but am saying there are evil women who are constantly taking advantage of laws meant to protect them to there depraved machinations. |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by Cutehector(m): 9:45am On Aug 11, 2015 |
HAZAZEL:u are right... The most important thing is to hav an alibi.... Cuz some of these ladies can just do anythn to bring down someone's integrity if he ddnt even rape her truely |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by AfroKnight: 10:52am On Aug 11, 2015 |
Many men have been framed and blackmailed. One could keep written proof of mutual sex. Like a little chat on whatsapp or bbm after sex asking if she would like another session like that or a few words applauding her skills in bed. Make sure you get a response to corroborate then save it for future reference. Ladies are getting vicious nowadays. |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by Nobody: 10:55am On Aug 11, 2015 |
false accusations mostly happen cause those men will sleep with anything in a skirt....... |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by Vyolet(f): 11:11am On Aug 11, 2015 |
The rate of rape and attempted rape is still higher than false accusations. Many young ladies have at a point in their lives faced attempted rape from guys they trusted most. |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by AprokoMan: 11:38am On Aug 11, 2015 |
U meet a girl on the street, woo her, then ask her to go out with you. |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by HAZAZEL: 12:19pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
Vyolet: Do you have data to prove your first statement? We are not disputing the fact that rape does happen, just as we are not also disputing the fact that false accusations do happen. Or how do you explain the fact that most nigerian ladies in a bid to win love/ pity from there latest catch always claim they lost their virginity via rape. If you have time and data, read up rape issues in india and then see how women are manipulatively enslaving men by taking advantage of the same rape laws mean't to protect them. |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by rawpadgin(m): 1:16pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
Best way to avoid being accused of rape me: so girl, as we won enter house so hope u go allow me hug u? girl: yes me: brings out a piece of paper, sign here me: I go kiss u? girl: why not! me: sign here me: i go press bobby? girl: definitely me: sign here me: I go put 1 inside 0? Girl: surely me: oya sign this place make i see how she go take frame me up |
Re: RAPE: How Men Can Avoid Being Trapped. by HAZAZEL: 1:35pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
Rawpidgin you no well o. |
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