nasha1:


I am okay now,i am at peace with myself.
I have a great family and they have been very supportive.I am focusing on my saloon and very soon with the help of my brother,i am going to open a clothing store.God has been thankful.

Thank you

IamLEGEND1:
oh pls,

cry me river...

you were dumped,so what?

you arent the first lady to be burned and you certainly wont be the last.

you gave him money,and so?

that is what matured people do in a r/ship,they help each other out in times of need.

so if you think bcoz you bailed him out financially on a occasions he is supposed to be indebted to you for life.......then you are sitting on a long thing.

He didnt marry you yes,but dont go about infesting the minds of the zombie-like girs we have around with ur vitriol.

women get dumped up and down the country everyday,and ur case is just business as usual.

so just bcoz you have one sad little sob story to tell doesnt mean you can label every man a chameleon.

#AllWasSaidInGoodSpirits

#NoHardFeelings

IamLEGEND1:
oh pls,

cry me river...

you were dumped,so what?

you arent the first lady to be burned and you certainly wont be the last.

you gave him money,and so?

that is what matured people do in a r/ship,they help each other out in times of need.

so if you think bcoz you bailed him out financially on a occasions he is supposed to be indebted to you for life.......then you are sitting on a long thing.

He didnt marry you yes,but dont go about infesting the minds of the zombie-like girs we have around with ur vitriol.

women get dumped up and down the country everyday,and ur case is just business as usual.

so just bcoz you have one sad little sob story to tell doesnt mean you can label every man a chameleon.

#AllWasSaidInGoodSpirits

#NoHardFeelings

akike:

You move from one thread to another like a rabid dog. That was how you called your mum a hoe on the other thread

You need to learn how to criticise objectively

IamLEGEND1:


thank you for ur irrelevant opinion

now can I go back to my wench of a mother

IamLEGEND1:


you know I really didn't know you edited my post and posted it as ur comeback.....

but all the same,I'm not as moronic as you....

I wouldn't insult ur parents.

That shii is for kids and vagabonds

but if you finally grow some balls and feel you are man enough

holla me and let's get this ball rolling....

akike:



bla bla bl bla bla bla

Mznaett:
Babe,,these poles aiint loyal aswear

I keep saying this "I'd rather spend my money on a lady than on a guy" they don't deserve to be loved at all

Mikkie31:
Some of you ladies deserve what you get. Anyway, there comes a time in every man's life when a line is drawn between marriage or relationship and status. Once a man's status changes,it is almost natural for him to detach himself from everyone who will not match his new status,including his lover and friends. Now that is a fact every honest,made man will agree to. #Pele_dear

akike:


My mum is a slut, my dad is a hopeless drunkard, and I'm a wh.ore, I need help!!!!

johnson232:

My mum isa B!tch ? She is a hoe of a hopeless drunkard...

IamLEGEND1:
this was for my mum, she is a biitch

nasha1:
I am okay now,i am at peace with myself.
I have a great family and they have been very supportive.I am focusing on my saloon and very soon with the help of my brother,i am going to open a clothing store.God has been thankful.

Thank you

bellong:
You gave someone money to start a small business but he rather spent it repairing car... Repairing car? And you never questioned him nor end the relationship right there.

That action alone speaks volume about his person. He has been finding a way of dumping you long ago, his "brokeness" made him to stick with you till he found a way.
You were only the ATM machine.

However, your experience, though unfortunate, doesn't mean that every broke guy would do the same. This guy must have been showing you subtle signs but you never paid attention.

Your concluding advice is an error. One experience shouldn't paint the whole group bad.

Sorry about the ordeal.

nasha1:

thank u bellong, 2 tell u the truth there were no signs.He was always in my shop, his family knew about me and they were very fond of me.
I believed in him so much and sometimes,love can blind you.But i am glad i have grown and move on,he called me this december telling that he regret marrying his wife and moving to the USA. He wants 2 comeback but he need 2 know if i still love him.lol
He said he want 2 work more and save 2 comeback so dat "we" can run businesses.I just hangup the call.

bellong:
You gave someone money to start a small business but he rather spent it repairing car... Repairing car? And you never questioned him nor end the relationship right there.

That action alone speaks volume about his person. He has been finding a way of dumping you long ago, his "brokeness" made him to stick with you till he found a way.
You were only the ATM machine.

However, your experience, though unfortunate, doesn't mean that every broke guy would do the same. This guy must have been showing you subtle signs but you never paid attention.

Your concluding advice is an error. One experience shouldn't paint the whole group bad.

Sorry about the ordeal.

nasha1:

thank u bellong, 2 tell u the truth there were no signs.He was always in my shop, his family knew about me and they were very fond of me.
I believed in him so much and sometimes,love can blind you.But i am glad i have grown and move on,he called me this december telling that he regret marrying his wife and moving to the USA. He wants 2 comeback but he need 2 know if i still love him.lol
He said he want 2 work more and save 2 comeback so dat "we" can run businesses.I just hangup the call.

nasha1:


I am okay now,i am at peace with myself.
I have a great family and they have been very supportive.I am focusing on my saloon and very soon with the help of my brother,i am going to open a clothing store.God has been thankful.

Thank you

dulux07:
U never know d tru xracter of a man till e has money.

Jst because ur unlucky does not mean it wont work for others. Jst lik u shared ur story, their r other couples who went tru d same tin n r married today.

If u marry a ready made man , u r jst lik other materials e as in his house, so e can kick u out anytime e liks, compared to u, marryin someone u struggled 2geda tho marriage is not guaranteed but Life itself is a risk, its better to b part of someones success story, than 2b a piece of art in a man's gallery. The moral of d lesson shud b ladies should b independent.