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Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by bigheart2013(m): 11:56am On Aug 12, 2015
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“Majority of Nigerian men will choose a girl with bad character who has a sexy shape and dresses well, over a girl with a good character who doesn’t dress well, as a girlfriend. Therefore most of them invest in their own future relationship failures.”


2.
“Majority of Nigerian women will dump a caring, loving poor man and ‘die’ for a rich cheat as a boyfriend. Money is their biggest single consideration in relationships. The ones we call bad girls only do it aggressively and openly, while the ones we call ‘good girls ’ do it passively and modestly. Therefore, don’t pity most of them who come on blogs to cry river over a cheating husband.”

3.
“In relationships in Nigeria, the definition of ‘kind and caring’ is someone who can easily be fooled, and used. When a person is frugal with his/her finances and uses his/her brain in making decisions he/she is described as ‘stingy’, and ‘proud'

4.
“Most Nigerian ladies, who are above 30yrs, never married before, single and have not much accomplishment to show for it (apart from those who were either widowed, divorced, studying for their PhD, or built a career to management positions), have issues of greed, attitude problems, character flaws, poor value systems. If she’s a ‘good product’ she wouldn’t last long on the shelve because in a country of over 160million people somebody must have noticed her”. Therefore, marry them at your own risk.

5.
“A lady above 30 and still single, stands a better chance marrying outside her community, tribe or even outside the country. The reason is that most ladies above 30 have left too many bad trails that haunt her. Therefore, she’s better off with strangers who either care less, or have no access to information about her pasts.”

6.
“Nigeria should respect and recognize single parent-hood by choice especially, where the 2 people involved are willing to support the child equally both in custody and financial support, like most advanced countries do. It’s obvious most people are better off without marriages but will make great parents. It’ll also give several women nearing 45yrs without husbands the opportunity to experience motherhood, and stop destroying people’s marriages out of desperation.”

7.
“Religion is only a big cover-up in Nigeria. Keep your eyes more open, and do thorough background checks on anyone who either puts religion first, or preaches too often on social media. They are mostly ‘Bad Markets’.

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Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by Paschal001: 11:57am On Aug 12, 2015
Correct gist
Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by Kingsasian(m): 12:11pm On Aug 12, 2015
All are correct most especially the last one.
Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by ronald4lif(m): 1:37pm On Aug 12, 2015
6 and 7 are damn right.

Single parent-hood should be endorsed and encouraged. This way everyone still maintains their inalienable rights to freedom and liberty and same time upholding their parenting responsibilities to their wards.

The overly religious ones? You mean the type that can't brainstorm on broad of issues without setting barricades and reminding you on what one holy book said, as if your life depends on it. No thanks.
Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by bigheart2013(m): 5:38pm On Aug 12, 2015
ronald4lif:
6 and 7 are damn right.

Single parent-hood should be endorsed and encouraged. This way everyone still maintains their inalienable rights to freedom and liberty and same time upholding their parenting responsibilities to their wards.

The overly religious ones? You mean the type that can't brainstorm on broad of issues without setting barricades and reminding you on what one holy book said, as if your life depends on it. No thanks.


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Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by KanwuliaJara: 5:51pm On Aug 12, 2015
AAAAAAALLLLLLL OF THE ABOVE!!!!! cheesy
Blame MATERIAL and SPIRITUAL POVERTY!!!!! wink

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Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by bigheart2013(m): 6:32pm On Aug 12, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
AAAAAAALLLLLLL OF THE ABOVE!!!!! cheesy
Blame MATERIAL and SPIRITUAL POVERTY!!!!! wink

Na you talk ooooo grin grin grin grin. when they come after you, no call me oo grin
Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by KanwuliaJara: 8:10pm On Aug 12, 2015
bigheart2013:


Na you talk ooooo grin grin grin grin. when they come after you, no call me oo grin

Wey dem? shocked
Dem nefa de-activate and de-mobilize all NL accounts tey-tey? wink
Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by SAMBARRY: 9:40pm On Aug 12, 2015
Number 7is the most important
Re: Which Of These Statements Is So True About Relationships In Nigeria? by jashar(f): 12:10pm On Aug 13, 2015
there are some truths in the posts. Some...

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