sodd off. girls hardly turn down proposals nowadays.

Nice Write up

Not true

Sabrwahaqqo:
I will comment because I don't wanna lose track af this one....ffg

Haha bros

Well said

You turn my proposal down because of your fantasies, just go and find another husband

sorry...reading long essay makes my brain to run stupid

such babes never see anything ...u help or man build ur home!anyway...time is cumin when there prayers would be like *God any how....even I will be d one sponsoring the marriage I will....Lord let him jx say it* a time is cumin when babes will be d one proposing....but DAT should be after I am married .#winks#

feji333:
Well said

so not true

Mzflexydeeva:
The thought of a lady saying no to a marriage proposal to many is unrealistic. Many a time ladies are characterized by their attitude towards trapping a man into marriage rather than refusing a proposal but as uncommon as it may seem to many, guys still get their rings thrown back in their faces.

7 common reasons why ladies reject marriage proposals include:

1. Financial independence

When financial independence is mentioned, a lot of people are quick to say ladies are only after the money, want a well to do man but this isn't about the man. Not that the "independent state" of a man doesn't count but some ladies reject marriage proposals because they (the lady) want to be financially stable before starting a family. Not every girl likes the idea of a man taking care of all her needs. Some ladies want to also be able to contribute and support their husbands financially before their answer is yes.

2. Family attachment

A man who loves his family can be said to be a good man. He can also be said to be one who would make a good husband and father but when a man is too attached to family it can be a reason not to be taken seriously when he pops the question. A man who can't make decisions until he gets approval from his family still has an invisible umbilical cord round his neck.
A guy who has to meet all the needs of his family before considering the needs of his "to be" wife may not change after marriage. No woman wants a man whose decisions can only be final after the parents have certified

3. Age factor

Many ladies have lost great men because they have allowed themselves to be consumed by the feeling of "still young".
A lady who feels she is too young to get married shouldn't be in a relationship. Some ladies claim to be ready but when the proposal comes they say they are too young. This has more to do with their inability to deal with commitment.

4. Mending fences strategy

Relationships are never perfect and a good surprise is always welcomed but proposing during a misunderstanding or a fight usually backfires. It is good to want to work through issues easily and have them sorted out quickly but proposing when she's mad at you is risky. A no may just be what you get.

5. Proposal method and ring choice

Ladies usually have things they fantasize about. One of which is their wedding and also the way you propose. Ladies have been known to turn down marriage proposal because they felt it wasn't romantic enough, others because it was too extravagant. Choice of ring too has not been left out. Ladies love to show off among their peers, no wonder a lady would say no to a guy simply because she feels the ring used in proposing is not befitting.

6. Sexual satisfaction.

The importance given to sex in relationships these days cannot be over emphasized. A lady could reject a proposal upon considering if the guy satisfies her in bed or not. In a relationship, a lady can still try to get her sexual satisfaction from someone else but in marriage she may not. Knowing that a guy can't sexually satisfy her is a good enough reason to say no for some ladies.

7. Lack of trust (too many female friends)

Lack of trust is one of the most common issues faced by relationships today. A lot of people are in relationships where trust is only a mirage. A major cause of lack of trust for ladies is encompassed in the fact that the guy has too many female friends. In such situations, the lady is likely to feel insecure and unsure. Even when the guy proposes, she tends to take it as a joke and the reply is usually no.

LET THEM KEEP ON SAYING NO TO MARRIAGE,

WHO EVEN WANT TO PROPOSE TO YOU PEOPLE

AFTER ALL!!! NAIJA WOMEN ARE ANIMALS, AND ANIMALS DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE ANIMALS

I think some are true but there are some who think they are too young and want to flirt before saying 'I DO'

Guys hw does it feel to get a NO??.. I'v never xperienced a NO

Nyc write up...especially no 1,ladies no dey joke wif dat

noblesteph:
such babes never see anything ...u help or man build ur home!anyway...time is cumin when there prayers would be like *God any how....even I will be d one sponsoring the marriage I will....Lord let him jx say it* a time is cumin when babes will be d one proposing....but DAT should be after I am married .#winks#

GET READY TO LAY EGGS,

START PREPARING YOUR NEST

God help us all

sonofananimal:
LET THEM KEEP ON SAYING NO TO MARRIAGE,

WHO EVEN WANT TO PROPOSE TO PEOPLE

AFTER ALL!!! NAIJA WOMEN ARE ANIMALS, AND ANIMALS DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE ANIMALS

omg....feel like shedding tears.... bro dat was too hurtful ..not all

missbronze:
Very correct.


Truth is that, not all men are husband material.


In one way or the other, a lady will see what will make her nt want to get married to a guy. or have her reason for nt accepting the marriage proposal.




But, trust guys, they will nt want to know the reasons, or accept their fualts, and, work towards being a better person .


Rather, they will start labelling the gal all sorts of name. and, will be wishing her evil.

SO IF THE GUY LATER BECOME BECOME A BETTER PERSON ( AS YOU MAY SAY)
AND YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED, DID YOU THINK THE GUY WILL STILL COME BACK AND REPROPOSE TO YOU AGAIN

The same way some ladies are good for girlfriends,not wife..Some men are good for boyfriends,not husbands..to a particular lady @ a particular time.all depends on what the lady had in mind from the beginning of the relationshiP....Same for the man

So many Nigerian ladies do not want to marry outside their tribe, State and in some cases, community. So any marriage proposal from a guy who does not come from within their region is definitely a no no. This is very common among the Southwesterners, the Anambra and Abiriba people of the South East and a few others.

noted mam

noblesteph:
omg....feel like shedding tears.... bro dat was too hurtful ..not all

WOMEN ARE LIKE EGGS.
SOME ARE STILL IN THEIR SHELL WHILE OTHERS HAVE ALREADY BREAK OUT OF THEIR SHELL.

THE NOT ALL WOMEN, ARE STILL IN THEIR EGG SHELL, WITH TIME THAT EGG WILL SOON BREAK AND YOU WILL SEE THE REAL WOMAN BEHIND IT.

LesbianBoy:
Let the MUMU girls keep rejecting marriage proposals. I am sure rita dominic was also rejecting marriage proposals....now look at what is happening! Even tonto obasanjo don marry sef and rita still never marry even with all her supposed "beauty" and "classiness"

U get problem with Rita Dominic ...she reject ur Elder bros proposal ..calm dwn..she no dey complain give u...

I'm looking for a relationship sha.

Most of your points are debatable but point #1 is outrightly objectionable!!!!.

Uh na don start again.. .!!

Make uh na leave MARRIAGE alone naaaaa.

When did it become the fastest means to happiness. ... I ask, especially the ladies..?

IamEdwardRichard:

so not true

Where do you disagree with the op?

Mzflexydeeva:
The thought of a lady saying no to a marriage proposal to many is unrealistic. Many a time ladies are characterized by their attitude towards trapping a man into marriage rather than refusing a proposal but as uncommon as it may seem to many, guys still get their rings thrown back in their faces.

7 common reasons why ladies reject marriage proposals include:

1. Financial independence

When financial independence is mentioned, a lot of people are quick to say ladies are only after the money, want a well to do man but this isn't about the man. Not that the "independent state" of a man doesn't count but some ladies reject marriage proposals because they (the lady) want to be financially stable before starting a family. Not every girl likes the idea of a man taking care of all her needs. Some ladies want to also be able to contribute and support their husbands financially before their answer is yes.

2. Family attachment

A man who loves his family can be said to be a good man. He can also be said to be one who would make a good husband and father but when a man is too attached to family it can be a reason not to be taken seriously when he pops the question. A man who can't make decisions until he gets approval from his family still has an invisible umbilical cord round his neck.
A guy who has to meet all the needs of his family before considering the needs of his "to be" wife may not change after marriage. No woman wants a man whose decisions can only be final after the parents have certified

3. Age factor

Many ladies have lost great men because they have allowed themselves to be consumed by the feeling of "still young".
A lady who feels she is too young to get married shouldn't be in a relationship. Some ladies claim to be ready but when the proposal comes they say they are too young. This has more to do with their inability to deal with commitment.

4. Mending fences strategy

Relationships are never perfect and a good surprise is always welcomed but proposing during a misunderstanding or a fight usually backfires. It is good to want to work through issues easily and have them sorted out quickly but proposing when she's mad at you is risky. A no may just be what you get.

5. Proposal method and ring choice

Ladies usually have things they fantasize about. One of which is their wedding and also the way you propose. Ladies have been known to turn down marriage proposal because they felt it wasn't romantic enough, others because it was too extravagant. Choice of ring too has not been left out. Ladies love to show off among their peers, no wonder a lady would say no to a guy simply because she feels the ring used in proposing is not befitting.

6. Sexual satisfaction.

The importance given to sex in relationships these days cannot be over emphasized. A lady could reject a proposal upon considering if the guy satisfies her in bed or not. In a relationship, a lady can still try to get her sexual satisfaction from someone else but in marriage she may not. Knowing that a guy can't sexually satisfy her is a good enough reason to say no for some ladies.

7. Lack of trust (too many female friends)

Lack of trust is one of the most common issues faced by relationships today. A lot of people are in relationships where trust is only a mirage. A major cause of lack of trust for ladies is encompassed in the fact that the guy has too many female friends. In such situations, the lady is likely to feel insecure and unsure. Even when the guy proposes, she tends to take it as a joke and the reply is usually no.

Bbf newest

Misssclassy the analytical analist, shey looto ni?

rawtouch:
During this scarcity of husbands no lady will say no

And you think wives aren't scarce as much

ok ooooo

If you believe the OP then you are mentally mad!!!!!

Oshomole, AY, Akpororo, Taiye Taiwo, etc made us to understand that ONLY MONEY is needed for a girl to say YES for ever!!!!!!!

Mzflexydeeva:

Choice of ring too has not been left out. Ladies love to show off among their peers, no wonder a lady would say no to a guy simply because she feels the ring used in proposing is not befitting.

Let her buy the ring. She should get her choice, and bring it for me to propose.