vizkiz:
I think I have watched this movie before...sheybe desmond eliot dey there na

Tomfrench:
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enkay2go:
Don't even think about it.Don't do it. You might feel you want to help your friend now but the tables will turn against you later. Keep talking to him. If he still feels u are not helping with that,let him be.
The problem most people have is,dey always think of the present,forgetting the future. Be wise!

Gurgle:
[size=20pt] but you don't need to sleep with her, just go to the clinic and give a sperm sample now

they will now use it to fertilise her egg and reimplant it inside her womb

you don't even need to touch her, I hope this story is real men

In fact they don't even need to use you, they can find a sperm donor. but if its because they just want your genetics in particular I can understand that [/size]

greatiyk4u:


Is a true story bt I tink dey need a confidant...........I av been sleepless since sunday n I tink I will suggest ur idea 2 dem

Gurgle:


Yeah all 3 of you go back to that hospital and have a consultation, discuss IVF (in-vitro fertilization) with them

All that sleeping with wives stuff was back in the old days when we didn't have technology. Its not necessary nowadays. you just need to give a sperm sample

In fact im surprised that you haven't heard of it or that nobody has suggested it to you, have you heard of IVF before were you actually agonizing about whether to sleep with her, that's very sad

I hope anybody who has the same problem will come across this thread, because its not necessary at all (unless you don't have the money. but im sure your friend can afford it since you said he works in oil)

greatiyk4u:



Tanx a lot av never tot of a situation like dis.......so I don't knw much about it n am not also in2 medical n health sciences line......God bless u.

Gurgle:
[size=20pt] but you don't need to sleep with her, just go to the clinic and give a sperm sample now

they will now use it to fertilise her egg and reimplant it inside her womb

you don't even need to touch her, I hope this story is real men

In fact they don't even need to use you, they can find a sperm donor. but if its because they just want your genetics in particular I can understand that [/size]

Sabrwahaqqo:

THEY SHOULD NOT USE HiM .... 5000 USD, they will get sperm from Mr.X

greatiyk4u:

Tanx a lot av never tot of a situation like dis.......so I don't knw much about it n am not also in2 medical n health sciences line......God bless u.

greatiyk4u:
My friendship of about 20yrz is about going sour due 2 a situation dats almost beyond our control.......it all started last sunday n d situation has been giving me sleepless night as my friend is alleging dat I am not a friend IN NEED.

Dis guy in question has been my best friend 4rm primary tru secondary 2 higher institution n even till date n surprisingly we av never disagreed on any issue talk more of quarreling.......a reason many pple call us "oyi chi"....meaning "divine friendship"

We attended diff uni.....also different course of study....my guy has been lucky 2 secure a job wt oil servicing firm in Warri immediately after NYSC wt gud pay...........2 be sincere he has been massively providing most of my basic needs all dez while making me knw less d magnitude of frustration associated wt unemployment....

Straight 2 d point d guy has been married 4 5yrz now...a marriage he got in2 wen he was still an undergraduate cos he is d only son of his parents........so far d wife has never had miscarriage talk more of giving birth n d guy being a religious type had always left everytin 2 God until d pressure 4rm both his parents n in-laws became unbearable...

Wen he consulted me on d way 4wrd I advised him 2 go 4 fertility test wt his wife in a reputable hospital wch he obliged 2......d result 4rm Unizik teaching hospital testified dat my guy is impotent wt slight hope of impregnanting a woman........I av tried 2 form religious by telling my guy dat dia is nothing God cannot do n dat God's delay is not denial bt he has turned a deaf ear 2 my advice......

D problem is dat my guy n his wife invited me 2 dia house last sunday n after offering me presidential entertainment d wife told me dat after due consultation wt her husband dey re painfully begging me 2 sleep wt d irresistibly CHARMING wife 2 give him children......

Wen I told d woman 2 stop dat expensive joke my guy told me dat if I don't come 2 his aids he is gonna lose his wife cos d pressure 4rm her parents especially d mother who wasn't much happy wt d union was already unbearable.........he concluded by saying dat dis is d time 2 knw if am a friend indeed

My conscience has not actually accepted d plea bt @ d same time I can't sit n watch my main guy life turning miserable and am afraid of d aftermath of d action

Plz I need urgent advice cos am on a hot seat right now.

tunnyl:
Pls dont take the offer so as to prevent future problems. Tell your friend and his wife go and adopt a child. They should lie to the family shez pregnant and send her abroad for 9months. Simple!

Gurgle:




yeah maybe an anonymous donor would be better

greatiyk4u when youre discussing with them ask them whether they really want you as the father OR somebody none of you know. discuss the advantages and disadvantages of both situations and come to a balanced agreement