Hello great nairalanders....there's this guy i started dating...he looks very caring and all dat...but something happened dat made me break my trust in him....there was a time my b.f and i were strolling out, so we met his elder brother and his bros g.f, he didn't even introduce me to his brother as his g.f...all he said was dat i should meet Sarah(i.e is bro g.f) and he didn't say anything like Sarah meet my g.f(lady jul)...and dat night he spent a night in my room, he calld dem and told dem dat he's spending a night with his friends....mind u dis guy is going to 25yrs old o...pls am just kinda confused right now...i don't even know what to think any more,...mature advice needed...pls if u think i should trust dis guy click like,,,buh if u think i shouldn't trust him click share....pls i need only mature opinion

He may be trying to play a good boy at home. Don't condemn him yet. Cheers

Abobaku has the answer, but unfortunately he's nowhere to be found.

Obinovictor:
He may be trying to play a good boy at home. Don't condemn him yet. Cheers

thanks dear

Pls mature advice still needed....

women......

why not just dump the guy who shows genuine care and concern because he didnt introduce you as his girlfriend.

so now if we tell u not to trust him then what.....

will you still stay in the relationship?

LadyJul:
thanks dear

You're welcome... some homes are so tight. Some parents hardly want to hear this be/gf issue. Not saying you should totally trust the guy though but watch him closely.

He is just 25,...give him time, soon he will do the needful

IamLEGEND1:
women......

why not just dump the guy who shows genuine care and concern because he didnt introduce you as his girlfriend.

so now if we tell u not to trust him then what.....

will you still stay in the relationship?

thanks for your opinion

Sharp nigga,he wan chop nd clean mouth...



Honestly,he dy gbadun yer *** once he complete his mission,na oyo una dey oooo..

LadyJul:
Hello great nairalanders....there's this guy i started dating...he looks very caring and all dat...but something happened dat made me break my trust in him....there was a time my b.f and i were strolling out, so we met his elder brother and his bros g.f, he didn't even introduce me to his brother as his g.f...all he said was dat i should meet Sarah(i.e is bro g.f) and he didn't say anything like Sarah meet my g.f(lady jul)...and dat night he spent a night in my room, he calld dem and told dem dat he's spending a night with his friends....mind u dis guy is going to 25yrs old o...pls am just kinda confused right now...i don't even know what to think any more,...mature advice needed...pls if u think i should trust dis guy click like,,,buh if u think i shouldn't trust him click share....pls i need only mature opinion

for your mind you thinks say the guy go marry you abi?smh....

anigbajumo:
Sharp nigga,he wan chop nd clean mouth...



Honestly,he dy gbadun yer *** once he complete his mission,na oyo una dey oooo..

no mind her.

'he spent the nite at ur house and he told dem he is wit his frnd'
excuse me?
he is not d crious type
dnt waste ur tym wit him

LadyJul:
Hello great nairalanders....there's this guy i started dating...he looks very caring and all dat...but something happened dat made me break my trust in him....there was a time my b.f and i were strolling out, so we met his elder brother and his bros g.f, he didn't even introduce me to his brother as his g.f...all he said was dat i should meet Sarah(i.e is bro g.f) and he didn't say anything like Sarah meet my g.f(lady jul)...and dat night he spent a night in my room, he calld dem and told dem dat he's spending a night with his friends....mind u dis guy is going to 25yrs old o...pls am just kinda confused right now...i don't even know what to think any more,...mature advice needed...pls if u think i should trust dis guy click like,,,buh if u think i shouldn't trust him click share....pls i need only mature opinion

LadyJul:
Hello great nairalanders....there's this guy i started dating...he looks very caring and all dat...but something happened dat made me break my trust in him....there was a time my b.f and i were strolling out, so we met his elder brother and his bros g.f, he didn't even introduce me to his brother as his g.f...all he said was dat i should meet Sarah(i.e is bro g.f) and he didn't say anything like Sarah meet my g.f(lady jul)...and dat night he spent a night in my room, he calld dem and told dem dat he's spending a night with his friends....mind u dis guy is going to 25yrs old o...pls am just kinda confused right now...i don't even know what to think any more,...mature advice needed...pls if u think i should trust dis guy click like,,,buh if u think i shouldn't trust him click share....pls i need only mature opinion

..ok..so uwan to sleep wit yor boy friend elder brother & u nid maturre advice fron us.. correcct?

he spent the night with you but told his folks that he is with friends right in front of you

my question is what is wrong with your mouth and asking him? if i start telling you all the different reasons why he could have done what he did then i might ruin your relationship. Ask him

Op introducing you to the world won't stop him from breaking your heart if he is the type, maybe he's not allowed to venture into such path in the house.
But a little pay back will show his intentions, introduce him as a friend to a friend or family, and see how he'll feel

Ehya,national president of side chicks association

faith551:
Op introducing you to the world won't stop him from breaking your heart if he is the type, maybe he's not allowed to venture into such path in the house.
But a little pay back will show his intentions, introduce him as a friend to a friend or family, and see how he'll feel

I think that is better.. U re on point

LadyJul:
Hello great nairalanders....there's this guy i started dating...he looks very caring and all dat...but something happened dat made me break my trust in him....there was a time my b.f and i were strolling out, so we met his elder brother and his bros g.f, he didn't even introduce me to his brother as his g.f...all he said was dat i should meet Sarah(i.e is bro g.f) and he didn't say anything like Sarah meet my g.f(lady jul)...and dat night he spent a night in my room, he calld dem and told dem dat he's spending a night with his friends....mind u dis guy is going to 25yrs old o...pls am just kinda confused right now...i don't even know what to think any more,...mature advice needed...pls if u think i should trust dis guy click like,,,buh if u think i shouldn't trust him click share....pls i need only mature opinion

Sori may I ask how old u are? Am nt sure he is ready to be in a serious relationship wit u. At 25, he has a long way to go so, don't trouble yurself with issues like dat else u give yurself HBP .

he is going to 25 u say, then how d u expect him to tell is elder bros he is sleeping ova at a girls place? D guy stil b small pikin. He cnt even introduce u as his gf. You too introduce him to ur frnds/family as ur frnd.

@op why don't you ask him before making some conclusions? What if he doesn't want his family to knw abt you yet,so just calm down and ask him first before u decide on what to do.

Make i collect money from ATM first, i dey come..