hey y'all guys think i'm a b**** i really dun know why. if a guy walks up to me to say somethin' i always try to be very polite but they always be like u think u'r smart or u mean! or she's a snob.  my friends tell me i'm  a nice  person n i know i am. in skool i'm a student recruiter, i'm in the christain fellowship, in fact i involve ma self in what eva activity i have time for n always try to be nice 2 people . my boyfriend's friends r always like "how do u cope wit' her" n i'll be like hello!!!!! i'm a friendly person u  gotta know me dats all!!

hope someone can help me in herre!!!!!!!!!!!

Wow. How old is your boyfriend? If he thinks you are difficult to cope with, then why is he still with you? If your normal friends like you and do not think you are a pain, then when why do even you even bother having a boyfriend?

No mater how angelic you are, there will be people who will not want to like you. You should not treat them as your friends. You should go out there and find the people who like the kind of person that you are, and befriend them, and stick with them.

thanks 4 ur advice well my bf doesn't think of me dat way well his friends are those who talk like dat but he's always like 'u got to know her" dats wat is kool about him!!!!!

Do u mean BIatch in the sense that, you r hot and spiky?

Anyways just don't care abt wat people say. If u know u r nice.. and ur friends say you are. fine!

I have to agree with Seun and Lizzy here. Not everyone will like you. Some will dislike you without even taking the time to get to know you. You just have to shake them off and keep moving.

Don't worry about what others think of you. They'll think that way until they decide to change it and there's nothing you can do to stop that. Keep being who you are.

Tam girl..u dont need to worry about them..if they think you are smart and mean then thats their own problema
the same thing happens to me in school..not everyone is going to like you u know..when u try your best, the sensible and good ones will recognise the great person you are and people that dont..just leave them to choke on their own ballz..
you'll see when the time comes, they wont have any choice than to come and meet you for help and then u'll see

Good points @ seun, hota, vexxy n nike, tamia, something like dat happened to me either, i think they are envying you or maybe ur boyfriend, they think ur a snob simply because ur smarter that them, if they dont like u, why dont u just leave, aferall u have lots of people that loves u, let them go on their own and u go on urs, thats there own cup of tea, thats how some human being behave..

"cup of tea"..i remember that word..

haters would always hate Tamz but real friends would stay forever, you will find it funny that your worst enemies would be one of your closest friends when the time comes

exactly, they will later be ur friend, there's this boy, not really my friend a classmate, i dont know why? he doesnt like seeing me, whenever im i get to school, he will eye me.._{imagine a guy}, he will hiss, and look at me as if i dont even exist, but all well and good, i know he was envying me, i dont give a damn, he later called me one day to explain something to him _chemistry, but i didnt hesitate, cuz i know i dont have haters, i love 'em all.

thats the spirit..
so see Tamia..just be the good person u are

They jealous of how sexy you are, your boyfriend's friends just want to be with you ,guys we shall always be the same . I think some wish they had a girl like you .

U r right abt that. Who wouldn't hate on a girl that looks like the almighty sexy Lisa Raye.

thats the way guys live. We always wish our girl friends were hot like someonelse

Thats why i say.... Boyz!

Tammy, just 'fashy' the haters.

Halle Berry is top on most blk men wishes, followed by TYra

Nope. According to BET.

It's:
Halle Berry
beyonce
blah blah.

I will take Kelly instead of Beyonce

most guys say that..... but the conclusion still goes on Beyonce.

Beyonce rules. kelly is way unsexy. na bone i wan nack?

bone , kelly is not bony , she is more flexible when it comes to that aspect

Nddy Beyonce is wayyy flexible than Kelly.

Did u watch her baby boy video with Sean Paul?

girl lets not start that Beyonce is too big , big face big everything

nigga please! U r like soo wrong.

her eyes are like the ones of owls

But u'd fxck her if she approaches you.

beyonce's got what every black desires and what every black woman should have and that a nice quality ass with well-proportioned thighs and a caramel skin. kelly on the other hand may have a prettier face and that's just about it.

but as far as i know the sexiest black female "celebrity" i know is buffie tha body (http://www.buffiethebody.com).   beyonce can go to blazes here.

not wat every black guy desires, kelly is pretty as hell, i would want my wife to be like that beautiful. who wants Beyonce ? only ugly people like Jazy would (but i love Jazy)

@ angel it all depends on my mood , i dont fall things like that

why do u so much care bout what people think bout you,wot matter most is what you think of miyaself.....any one can say anything as long as am concerned,am miya and i'll remain who i think i am.

soji, my middle name is miya too.

some idiot guys think if a girl does not start fawning over them when they yell "HEY SEXY" from across the street, then she is a stuck up B***ch snob. Ignore them. They are not worth your time. I keep telling people that when they complain about the idiocy of other people - sometimes, no matter how nice you are, you just have to not care

cOdec dat girl's ass is bleahhhhhhhhhh oh gosh what the hell is that?!

i guess it's da way u carry yaself or da way u look
maybe u naturally look a bit snobbish or kind of full of yaself but u don't need 2 worry
it was da same wit me when i was in high skuul everyone thought i was really snobbish n full of maself but den they realized i was really friendly n down 2 earth
they'll soon start 2 luv u