This is a true life story...as I am typing this, the guy involved, who happens to me a pal of mine, has absconded from his own house due to the promiscuity and troublesome attitude of his wife!!!

There's no day that passes without he and his wife quarrelling and shouting on top of their voices! Each time they quarrel, and I am close by, I don't try to separate or broker peace because I am aware of the negative effects it could have on my image! . I believe you still remember what they say...when you try to be a peace maker between two lovers, they use your matter to settle their issue and you would become the bad person.

This my pal got involved with a 'retired' but not 'tired' Runs Girl as a life partner!!! I don't know what blinded him from seeing what he was getting into as at then. He was foolishly and blindly in love; they have been together for 3 years now, though it has been hell for this guy!

I don't want to believe the idea many people normally hold that you cannot know the actual character of the lady you intend getting married to! That's a BIG LIE!!! No matter how a woman hides her character, you as the guy can know the real nature of her, except you have been blinded by such foolish type of lust, not even love, like my paddy! Pretense has limit; I strongly believe there is a certain level a woman cannot go beyond when it comes to pretence

My pal's wife insults him and his entire family at will, even in the presence of outsiders! She openly lets him know that the man is not up to the level of the men that approach her outside because the young man doesn't have a stable job. Whenever the man is out, she flirts with other men!

As am typing this, the man has absconded from home for 3 months now due to constant nagging, quarrels, fights and promiscuity!!!

What am saying in essence is:

1) If you marry a woman that nags, you must have observed that before the marriage but you were blinded by lust!

2) If you marry a promiscous woman, you must have seen that when both of you were dating. I know people who married club girls or met their wives in night club, yet they still complain that their wife is promiscous. What were you expecting? A saint or angel? A leopard does not change its skin; the spots must always be there!

3)If you marry a woman that insults people and even your own family members, you should blame yourself, man! . Don't tell me she was very meek and respectful when you were dating. She must have insulted people or talked to them rudely then in your presence but you were too lazy and dumb to see the handwriting on the wall!!!

Our elders say, 'He who brings in ants-infested woods into his house should not complain when lizards start paying him visits'!!!

A word is enough for the wise...
Stay blessed!!!

You are on point Bro

Are there still people who think love is blind? I advice you to get big recommended glasses like mine

Don't ignore the signs!
They may come to haunt you in future

God help us

Alright

ArchEnemy:
.....but we need God

Prayers should be backed by reasonable and wise actions!

People forget that there is a book in d bible called proverbs.. Rich wisdom is found in there. Its is better for a man to live in d desert with a lion dan to stay under thesame roof with a nagging woman...

Jhymrod:
Alright

Hmmm. Ok

Cutehector:
People forget that there is a book in d bible called proverbs.. Rich wisdom is found in there. Its is better for a man to live in d desert with a lion dan to stay under thesame roof with a nagging woman...

Thanks! That's why I read it often

Cutehector:
People forget that there is a book in d bible called proverbs.. Rich wisdom is found in there. Its is better for a man to live in d desert with a lion dan to stay under thesame roof with a nagging woman...

There are also wolves in sheep clothing.....pretenders who ll only unleash the dragon after their prey mistakenly ties the knot

OP am sure you are still single. But if otherwise and yours is perfect and peaceful, thank God.

The matter of love, choice and marriage is beyond our wish and since we are not gifted to reading minds, we always end up picking what we have.

Howbeit, man has no power over his destiny as to effect the change he desires.

Rapmoney:
Prayers should be backed by reasonable and wise actions!

ya still on point

psucc:
OP am sure you are still single. But if otherwise and yours is perfect and peaceful, thank God.

The matter of love, choice and marriage is beyond our wish and since we are not gifted to reading minds, we always end up picking what we have.

Howbeit, man has no power over his destiny as to effect the change he desires.

You ve spoken well but I differ on that line that man has no power to change his destiny

Mr Op i endorse this post for front page

ArchEnemy:
ya still on point

Manuelson:
Mr Op i endorse this post for front page

Thanks...ok seun, lalasticlala, rocktation and ishilove, abeg do the needful!

psucc:
OP am sure you are still single. But if otherwise and yours is perfect and peaceful, thank God.

The matter of love, choice and marriage is beyond our wish and since we are not gifted to reading minds, we always end up picking what we have.

Howbeit, man has no power over his destiny as to effect the change he desires.

Bro, it has nothing do to with reading people's minds! You cannot teach a right-handed person to use left hand at old age. A woman who is troublesome must have been with such nature even before you marry her! Most men are too blind to see...

ArchEnemy:

You ve spoken well but I differ on that line that man has no power to change his destiny

On point!

Hmmm... Interesting

THE BEST ARTICLE I HAVE READ IN AGES.
NICE ONE OP. I Love it.

LadyBoss1:
Hmmm... Interesting

Good afternoon

Rapmoney:
Good afternoon

Afternoon lol would come bk to this later ..
Hope ur aite tho

divinehand2003:
THE BEST ARTICLE I HAVE READ IN AGES.
NICE ONE OP. I Love it.

Thanks! You guys keep us going

LadyBoss1:

Afternoon lol would come bk to this later ..
Hope ur aite tho

Am fine and okay.

OK o

ArchEnemy:
You are on point Bro

Are there still people who think love is blind? I advice you to get big recommended glasses like mine

Don't ignore the signs!
They may come to haunt you in future

God help us

Thanks and God bless for the understanding.

.... People believe once they are in love, whatever bad character exhibited by the ones they love can be tolerated..... But, the thing is such characters are not always exhibited frequently during courtship, but once married and the tolerable characters are then exhibited on a daily basis, one's tolerance level goes thin and then trouble starts....
.. If you are tolerating what you don't like during courtship,be rest assured your marriage won't last.

Noo..ahsekeena is to blame




Mehn...before nko, who's to blame? Women are also to blame for the type of men we marry...NO BRAINER! I don't really see the sense in this or the purpose this thread is to serve.

OK nau...men make Una learn oo

From today only bad guys will marry bad girls... Leave d good girls for the good guys

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Marriage in itself is scary, How I wish.....!!!