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Advice For All Bachelors by harbeemx(m): 10:45am On Aug 20, 2015 |
WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON
ABOUT MARRIAGE
1. My son, if you keep spending on a
woman and she never asked you if you’re
saving or investing, and she keeps
enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.
2. My son, a woman could be a good wife
to you, some could be a good mother
to your children but if you’ve found a
woman like a mother to you, your
children
and your family, please don’t let her go.
3. My son, don’t confine the position of
your wife to the kitchen, where did you
get that from? Even in our days, we had
farm-lands where they worked every
morning . . . that was our office.
4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head
of the house, don’t look at your
pocket; look if you will see a smile on
your wife’s face.
5. My son, if you want to have a long life,
let your wife be in-charge of your
salary, it will be difficult for her to spend
it when she’s aware of the home
needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your
care, she will keep you asking even
when all has been spent.
6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman,
the pain in her body is nothing to be
compared to the wound on her heart and
that means you may be in trouble
living with a wounded woman.
7. My son, now that you’re married, if you
live a bachelor kind of life with your
wife, you will soon be single again.
8. My son, in our days, we had many wives
and many children because of our
large farm-lands and many harvests, there
are hardly any land for farming
anymore, so embrace your woman closely.
9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did
meet your mother could be your
eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but
remember, the closet thing we did
there was to embrace each other.
10. My son, don’t be carried away when
you start making more money, instead
of spending on those tiny legs that never
knew how hard you worked to get it,
spend it on that woman that stood by you
all along.
11. My son, when I threw little stones or
whistled at the window of your mother
father’s house, to call her out, it was not
for sex, it was because I missed her
so much.
12. My son, remember, when you say your
wife has changed, there could be
something you’ve stopped doing too.
13. My son, your mother, Asake rode the
bicycle with me before I bought that
tortoise car outside there, any woman that
won’t endure with you in your little
beginning should not enjoy your riches.
14. My son, don’t compare your wife to
any woman, there are ways she’s
enduring you too and has she ever
compared you to any man?
15. My son, there is this thing you people
call feminism, well, if a woman claim
to have equal right with you in the house,
divide all the bills into two equal
parts, take one part and ask her to start
paying the other part.
16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and
I took more yams to her father, if
you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t
blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that
our women had prestige.
17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to
school because I was foolish like many
to think a female child won’t extend my
family name, please don’t make that
mistake, the kind of female achievers I see
nowadays has made the male-
gender an ordinary tag.
18. My son, your mother have once locked
up the cloth I was wearing and
almost tore it because she was angry, I did
not raise my hand to beat her
because of a day like this, so that I can be
proud to tell you that I never for
once beat your mother.
19. My son, in our days, our women had
more of natural beauty, though I
wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor
painting of their appellation mostly on
their
arms, the ones you people now call tattoo,
but don’t forget that they didn’t
expose any part of their body like your
women of nowadays.
20. My son, your mother and I are not
interested in what happens in your
marriage, try to handle issues without
always coming to us.
21. My son, remember I bought your
mother’s first sewing machine for her,
help
your wife achieve her dreams just as
you’re pursuing yours.
22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me
and your mother, it’s a secret of
growing old and having children to take
care of you too.
23. My son, pray with your family, there is
a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to
God that knows everything, everyday. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice For All Bachelors by ladyF(f): 10:46am On Aug 20, 2015 |
True |
Re: Advice For All Bachelors by rawpadgin(m): 11:14am On Aug 20, 2015 |
best advice ever! introvert & lady f are fvcking jobless ![]() |
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