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Tips For Married Islamic Brothers by Sparonani(m): 5:59pm On Aug 20, 2015
Tips For Married Brothers
1) Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.
When was the last time you went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too.
Remember that the Prophet (PEACE BE UPON HIM) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
2)Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.
3)Don’t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day – which brings no attention from the husband – until she does something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.
4)If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways the Prophet (saw) used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (ra). It’s a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.
5)Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when the Prophet (saw) would kiss his wife before leaving for Salaah, even when he was fasting.
6)Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgment she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t let that be; thank her!
7)Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don’t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.
coolDon’t belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. The Prophet (saw) set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (R.A) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.
9) Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how the Prophet (saw) would race with his wife Aisha (ra) in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?
10)Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger (saw): ‘The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.’ Try to be the best!
In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah – Ta’ala to make your marriage successful.
And Allah Ta’ala knows best!!

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Re: Tips For Married Islamic Brothers by u11gs: 6:08pm On Aug 20, 2015
Sparonani:
Tips For Married Brothers
1) Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.
When was the last time you went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too.
Remember that the Prophet (PEACE BE UPON HIM) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
2)Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.
3)Don’t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day – which brings no attention from the husband – until she does something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.
4)If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways the Prophet (saw) used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (ra). It’s a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.
5)Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when the Prophet (saw) would kiss his wife before leaving for Salaah, even when he was fasting.
6)Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgment she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t let that be; thank her!
7)Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don’t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.
coolDon’t belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. The Prophet (saw) set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (R.A) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.
9) Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how the Prophet (saw) would race with his wife Aisha (ra) in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?
10)Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger (saw): ‘The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.’ Try to be the best!
In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah – Ta’ala to make your marriage successful.
And Allah Ta’ala knows best!!
Jazakallah khairan bro
Re: Tips For Married Islamic Brothers by galadima77(m): 6:32pm On Aug 20, 2015
i love this post and may Allah swt reward the OP accordingly
Re: Tips For Married Islamic Brothers by saintikechi(m): 8:19pm On Aug 20, 2015
And don't put your suicide bomb under the bed while banging her, you might end up with one wife and seventeen virgins.
Re: Tips For Married Islamic Brothers by ByfireByfire: 6:08am On Aug 21, 2015
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Re: Tips For Married Islamic Brothers by ByfireByfire: 6:18am On Aug 21, 2015
Hypocrisy. When they allow and are taught all sorts of hostility and subjugation against their women in practice. They support adult marriage and painful intercourse with girl minors even when the girl yell and bleed for pain.


Of all the punishment that Islam recommends for crimes, what is the punishment for a man that beats his wife, denies her provision & finance or has extra marital affairs, or even for a man that marries or has intercourse with minors? I guess none.



Yet so many punishment unleashed against a woman for any trivial offense.



FILTHY HYPOCRICY!!!

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