As it is, my girlfriend of about 7months and I are having some little bit of trouble in our relationship and it borders on infidelity, disregard and mistrust.

While the first is my alleged crime which I admit, the other two are problems that she has.

She is a lady from a divorced home. Her Dad had several wives and I guess this contributed immensely to her inability to condone any act of familiarity with the opposite sex as I have hitherto been quite good at.

At the sight of a females picture or text which sometimes are playfully amorous she snaps and begins a macabre dance of paranoid and delusional dances

While I must admit that I love her and genuinely of course.

This show of destructive tendencies was never what I bargained for.Severally she had asked to leave the relationship for much more flimsy excuses but this current one with a lady I was once involved with seems to have been the last draw and it has fractured the camel's back.

I however want her back so much not because of lack of options: never but because there are no assurances as to whom the next person would be like

I have been traumatised by relationships in the past and I feel I beat myself too hard sometimes

Sometimes our fights had been physically abusive and believe me my folks raised a good man, I would never raise my hand on a woman. But even with such actions I still have strong feelings for her

I'm I delusional or infatuated or just being plain stupid?

Won't it be wise to just let this lady go Nd move on with someone better?

A physically abusive woman can kill right?

I am confused and I feel my mental judgement is clouded by this thing called love and I need a reawakening.

Someone should please wake me up I need to smell the morning coffee.

https://www.nairaland.com/2540781/girlfriend-beats-me

Sorry

You don enta...

U never c anything

LOL

One chance

Let her beat you, it's your destiny.

ok

*grabs op, stylishly turns his back, gives him two confam slap in d butt* mummy's boy! sooner, the girl go buy cain(correct 1 oo), order u to lie down, and remind u of ur secodary school days!!

Na talk be dat, beat her back as a real nigga

firstEVA:
Let her beat you, it's your destiny.

Lol... babes U r funny oo


@OP I like ur sincerity

Why don't u stop the infidelity ?? That could help her change too

i dey come, make i come help you beat am

Didn' you know the kind of woman you were getting involved with when you met her? When was the first time she beat you up? What did she say to you after she cooled down? How did you react? Well you knew what was coming but decided to stay. You make your bed so you lie in it.

Kpele

beating may feel bad for awhile but joy is by the corner...


continue to eat the beating till she`ll break you skull

Nothing wey we no go see for nairaland sha

Clap for yourself
You deserve Nobel prize

My gf beats me too, especially when I don't fvck her well. I guess I should end the relationship

she beats u cos she knows youre weak.....very weak




you can decide to remain a fool or become a man

I feel for you honestly she's not your true love...
yes it's healthy to argue in a relationship but harming another is not in the script of love. I've been there....bruised and hurt

Get back up again wear your smile God has given you another chance at love