There are two things that can change your life completely:
(a). Whom you marry will affect the rest of your life.
(b). When you discover your purpose for life.

1. God Fearing: Some people will say what of if the person is nice, moral but the issue is not about that, it is about the nature being changed. When you see someone that has fear of God, such person doesn’t just like stop committing sin, the person doesn’t want to commit sin because the person nature has changed. Even if such person mistakenly commit sin, he/she will feel bad because he/she doesn’t want to live like that. But someone who is not safe, sin is their nature. Don’t marry someone who is not safe that you will be forcing to love things of God.

2. Good character: The person must have good behaviour, most young people make mistake on choosing their partner based on physical appearance. Some will be looking for tall, handsome man and beautiful sexy lady to choose. People want to build their marriages on those things but those cannot hold a marriage together. Looks are not enough, of course you should marry someone you like but looks are not enough. Check what their characters like, is he or she faithful? The person that is lying for you today will to you tomorrow. If he is threatening to beat you today he will beat you tomorrow. The person must have self-control not a loose person. Marriage doesn’t change people’s character.

3. Compatibility: If you can check the issue of compatibility, things will go on easily. The compatibility am talking about doesn’t mean similarity, it just mean the ability of two people to get along. That means you have certain strengths or things that complement each other. Before you marry ask yourself are we compatible? Check some basic issues maybe like your values, as in do you believe in the same thing about life? Also check your purpose for life, when you discover who you are. Always discover your purpose for life before choosing your partner for life. Make sure you married someone that can accommodate your vision and help you to achieve it.

4. Companionship: Marry your friend, some people make mistake of saying they are too close to someone not knowing that such person is the one that understand you most because friend loved at all time. One of the main thing you will do in marriage is companionship and friendship. Don’t try to make your wife your friends instead out of your friends choose a wife. People tend to be real when there is no pressure.

5. Capacity: Before you start to look for a spouse, do you have the capacity? Spiritual and financial capacity are very important in marriage. Capacity simply means maturity, is when you can survive alone without depending on your parents or anybody. Marriage is not for boys is for men. Many people crash in marriage because they enter too early. You must make sure your perspectives about marriage are right. This mean you should not invite third party into your private life in decision taking. Don’t let anybody shutdown your dreams, you can expect the best in your marriage just follow the right guidelines and you will get there. A perfect marriage is not between two perfect people is between two matured people.

6. Undue influences: When you are choosing a spouse you should avoid undue influences like spending money on someone to impress them to love you. Buying them expensive items just to show off is not good because gift can pervert judgement. Make sure you choose someone that has the real quality that can sustain a home. Don’t beg anybody to marry you, marriage a commitment and two of you must want to go along because the journey is too far. If a man or a woman doesn’t appreciate you enough to marry you let them go another person that will appreciate everything about you will come.

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Hmnmm... Funny enough, marriage is my greatest fear..


Girls nowadays can ACT pass acts of apostles!

Thanks a lot.

Very nice one.

Ok, duly noted