alexis007: ladies of nowadays eh .....hardly vocal and with complex body language, they still expect you to be able to understand them and decode their every behavioral gimmicks.
for me, I'm done with solving mysteries, cus I'm no Robert Langdon. once a lady joins me in my crib and spend more than 30 minutes, she wants the Koko.........and unless I'm just not into her, or in the mood, I must definitely straff her.
last bullet: any lady who comes over to your place and; a. asks if the door is locked from time to time.
b. see fun in nothing else in your crib than just you, even when you're advertising the hottest telemundo in town to her.
c.watches you with this cold stare like an abandoned owl while you're talking (her mind no just dey for your gist at all at all ).
d. tells you to your face that you are boring even when you funny pass Tosyn2much etc.......is h0rny and wants to get laid. Don't pity her, fu(k her without apologies.
Na una go dey keep best friends...(with benefits) lolz ....
. na so one grl wan turn me 2 mugu, she no no sey i don tear eye tey tey. we dey chat 4 whatsapp, i ask her out, bt she sey we go only b frnds i com sey ok. meanwhile no day she no dey txt me, hw am i doin? i don eat? wetin i eat & d likes. she go txt me sey abeg mak i send recharge card 4 her, she go sey she dey broke mak i help her with small moni, on her birthday she sey na me go buy cake 4 her. i don become cheer giver. visit me, she go sey she no dey go guy house. na so i Block her 4get her trouble
Truckpusher: There are sometimes you don't want to go down with a woman simply because you don't want to be caught up in a dangerous dramatic love triangle - I believe the op knew how sensitive her case was and sleeping with her would have given her the right to lay claim that a relationship exists and this is where I admire the op's courage.
Some persons wouldn't mind but I have always told people that one mad rush of uncontrolled sexual desire can ruin your entire life or give you the heat that you wouldn't wish your enemy to have.
I personally called him a 'jonsing' boy but deep inside me what he did was the right thing - Sometimes , women are crazy and you pray not to be their victim when their madness comes calling.
At least some people are reasonable. even the so called brainless fish does not eat all kinds of bait on a fishing line. after the sex of course, they would have to sit down and discuss what happened last night. Some ladies are devils in human flesh and one must not allow some few minutes of adrenal rush ruin ones life forever.
Ebiz12: I wonder why normal friendship between opposite sex is so complicated,somehow one would be expecting sex and the other is tagged selfish or a fool for not giving in.
Why can't a guy and girl just be friends and just let it remain like that.
Mrbigman1: Lol, It has happened to me severally and I get even worst returns.
I just landed in Nija but while I was away, I was having a very friendly chat with my account manager.
When I landed, she was d first person I called that am coming to warri and if she can grant me d grace of coming to my house to keep me company. She agreed and came. We enjoyed good chat while I cleaned my house. She eventually slept over.
I gave her a shirt which she slept in, middle of d night, d devil in me woke up and she dnt resist. All she said, promise me u'd never fvck me, I respected her and felt, why kill my self when I Wnt do anything thing further and I dnt like begging.
After sometimes, I continued and she enjoyed d touches with loud moan and a lot of water downlow.
In the morning, she felt so ashamed and I apologised and she left.
When she got home, she dnt pick my calls no more and I went to her office and she said to me
"What kinda man puts a woman in such mood and apologies after all. Infact, why did I even sleep over in ur house at first? Dnt I know d road to my house? "
I died inside me and since den, I have never used dat branch.
One thought is, do women really love and wnat dis sex more dan us men?
Why d many pretence?
Why dnt dey just tell u what dey want so we can do it fast fast?
Dat has been will continue happening cos she's someone daughter and I can't force her to go against her will.
I v realised dat some ladies r very confuse wen it comes to what they want. That's y dey keep jumping frm one boy to anoda. You can't understand dem finish no matter how hard u try
Ramos16: I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break. She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up. Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance. When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me. My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman. My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?
Kenzico: I have done this act to 2 different ladies who voluntary decided to sleep in d same room with me on different occasions...Upon all d respect I accorded 2dem all through. They still disliked me cha....and I still stood proud and had no regrets for not touching them. My bro, leave d biAtch....she jux wan put u 4 problem or very soon she go say u RAPED me
Guy, am already motivated by ur comment, never keep it down.
I agree oh! A lady friend of mine visited me...walahi, I saw her as mary-amaka, phone ringtone na Jesus, dressing na Jesus, attitude sef...out of the blues she said she wanted to visit me. Me no expect that kain visitor. To cut he long story short, she never resisted my advances...not even the slightest resistance. Fear catch me small oh.
In sarkodie's voice "You know say BODY NO BE FIREWOOD"..........the thing too dey hold them. As in too much......
E get one wey begin dey preach to im friends say i be monk, sake of say she don visit my house like 10 times and nothing happened. Trust me, as our semester exams don end and i no get anything wey dey worry my poor mind, na her body i dey use rest. 24/7 we both dey stay full n@ked. As in not even panties on. Unless na when we wan chop food get strength, na so so Fu(k Fu(k we go do from morning till night.
Wetin concern me kwanu?......the chick dey disturb me every time, dey tell me how she too dey gbadu me, how she bin dey crush on me before i come agree make we dey follow. To me, she is just an intimacy gadget, cus deep down in my heart i don't feel a thing for her.
Anyways, na just to dey fu(k till i see better chick. Then eh, the speed wey i go use dump her go pass the speed of light.
Moral of my epistle: Ladies (I dey tell una this thing because i get sisters, if not......) don't ever in your life drag a bro into a sexual relationship, else you'd turn into one of his pastimes. If he is not into you, try as hard as you may, He would never be into you.
Ramos16: I am not good at telling long story, so this will be short, My best friend, a girl, had a boyfriend, whom i do not really relate to, their relationship had issues so she decided to take a break. She called and asked if she could come to my place, i agreed, and was happy to have her, as even i had to just had a break up. Long story short, she spent three days in my place, we ate from the same plate, and slept on the same bed for three days but i never touched her or made advance. When she left my place, she called and asked if i am okay, that something must be wrong with me for not having sex with her or even touching her once througout when she was with me. My honest thought through out her stay was that i was trying to help a friend who was heart broken, so i played the gentleman. My people pls help me oh. Did i do wrong?
Men and women cant be friends. Your experience proved it.
alexis007: In sarkodie's voice "You know say BODY NO BE FIREWOOD"..........the thing too dey hold them. As in too much......
E get one wey begin dey preach to im friends say i be monk, sake of say she don visit my house like 10 times and nothing happened. Trust me, as our semester exams don end and i no get anything wey dey worry my poor mind, na her body i dey use rest. 24/7 we both dey stay full n@ked. As in not even panties on. Unless na when we wan chop food get strength, na so so Fu(k Fu(k we go do from morning till night.
Wetin concern me kwanu?......the chick dey disturb me every time, dey tell me how she too dey gbadu me, how she bin dey crush on me before i come agree make we dey follow. To me, she is just an intimacy gadget, cus deep down in my heart i don't feel a thing for her.
Anyways, na just to dey fu(k till i see better chick. Then eh, the speed wey i go use dump her go pass the speed of light.
Moral of my epistle: Ladies (I dey tell una this thing because i get sisters, if not......) don't ever in your life drag a bro into a sexual relationship, else you'd turn into one of his pastimes. If he is not into you, try as hard as you may, He would never be into you.
I don talk finish.
Abeg give me ur sister no..make I do d same thing 4 am Rain dey faLl 4 here abeg
This is what's called LAST MINUTE RESISTANCE by girls. It gives you that guilt feeling if you fall into this situation and it's kind of an innate bullshit mechanism girls exhibit just at the point of having sex
Solution - When next you find yourself in a similar situation, be reassuring in your response that she'd be fine and enjoy the experience OR just get up from the bed/floor or wherever position you were and zip your pants and don't say a word to her and act as if noting happened (You'd get blue balls but its fine)
Google the bolded and verify what i posted. Cheers
PUA
Yongi99: Okay since this thread is growing fast, let me share my own "similar" experience. ::::::::::::: So I met this girl at a seminar, we exchanged contacts. And we got talking, I mean like she is always telling me "good morning", "hi", "what are you doing now?" "am bored", she virtually starts our chat everyday. Within a week we are talking about sex. I asked her when last she had sex, she told me without hesitation, and she did asked me too.
Then the next question she asked me was "what will you do to me if i spend a night with you?". That one hit me hard. Now i had to think hard before answering, because it's a double-side thing. Well, I told her i will do "beautiful things" to her. She just "lol".
Now, the next day she is at home and says i should come keep her company. That she is bored. On my way there, she kept asking bout my current location, she kept prompting me that I should be fast oh, or else she will sleep off. I mean like she wanted to see me immediately.
I got there, we watched a movie, on the bed, together. Afterwards she says she wants to sleep. That i can continue watching the movie. My mind wasn't even in the movie.
So consciously or unconsciously my hands started drifting. I put a hand on her butt and was caressing. I didn't get any resistance from her. So i moved to the upper, and started touching her b00bs. She had told me earlier that touching her b00bs turns her on the most. She wasn't wearing a bra. And she wasn't "asleep", she was very aware of what was going on.
She told me to stop...mildly. I continued. And start sucking on her bOObs, for about 7 minutes. Then all of a sudden she got up. She didn't say a word, but her face said many words.
She was upset or angry. This got me thinking really hard, we have talked alot. Why are you now behaving funny? Or why did you allow me go as far as sucking when you didnt want it? She said she was angry cos i touched her.
The next couple of days after the incident. We were radio silent. No chats or call.
Mrbigman1: Lol, It has happened to me severally and I get even worst returns.
I just landed in Nija but while I was away, I was having a very friendly chat with my account manager.
When I landed, she was d first person I called that am coming to warri and if she can grant me d grace of coming to my house to keep me company. She agreed and came. We enjoyed good chat while I cleaned my house. She eventually slept over.
I gave her a shirt which she slept in, middle of d night, d devil in me woke up and she dnt resist. All she said, promise me u'd never fvck me, I respected her and felt, why kill my self when I Wnt do anything thing further and I dnt like begging.
After sometimes, I continued and she enjoyed d touches with loud moan and a lot of water downlow.
In the morning, she felt so ashamed and I apologised and she left.
When she got home, she dnt pick my calls no more and I went to her office and she said to me
"What kinda man puts a woman in such mood and apologies after all. Infact, why did I even sleep over in ur house at first? Dnt I know d road to my house? "
I died inside me and since den, I have never used dat branch.
One thought is, do women really love and wnat dis sex more dan us men?
Why d many pretence?
Why dnt dey just tell u what dey want so we can do it fast fast?
Dat has been will continue happening cos she's someone daughter and I can't force her to go against her will.
the truth is that she had the thouths of fyioking sincce before she fyyiokt u
. na so one grl wan turn me 2 mugu, she no no sey i don tear eye tey tey. we dey chat 4 whatsapp, i ask her out, bt she sey we go only b frnds i com sey ok. meanwhile no day she no dey txt me, hw am i doin? i don eat? wetin i eat & d likes. she go txt me sey abeg mak i send recharge card 4 her, she go sey she dey broke mak i help her with small moni, on her birthday she sey na me go buy cake 4 her. i don become cheer giver. visit me, she go sey she no dey go guy house. na so i Block her 4get her trouble
?......the chick dey disturb me every time, dey tell me how she too dey gbadu me, how she bin dey crush on me before i come agree make we dey follow. To me, she is just an intimacy gadget, cus deep down in my heart i don't feel a thing for her.
.....hardly vocal and with complex body language, they still expect you to be able to understand them and decode their every behavioral gimmicks. 
