[See what women have been hiding from you/b]

So welcome! I ain't gonna bullshît you on anything. Since I am cork sure your are here for information. so here it goes:

[b]1. First and foremost, a man needs to embrace himself as a man. I’m not big on the whole “celebrate yourself” theme that women buy into but in a sense, if you are a man, celebrate the fact that you are a man. Shît, women get to celebrate being fat, why not celebrate being a man. But seriously, a guy needs to accept the fact that he is a man and be proud of it. We are a part of a brotherhood that women will never understand and for as much as society will try to shit on men and blame us for the world’s evil, men have done awesome things that refuse to be silenced. We are the leaders on earth, not women. We need to embrace that role.

2. A man should seek wisdom and understanding. King Solomon wrote an entire collection of Hebrew poetry based upon wisdom and how it should be one of the chief aims of a man. Wisdom and understanding open the heart of a man to know things about life which remains shut to a man that scoffs at learning. I’m not suggesting that a guy ought to know everything but he ought to know how to live his life intelligently, and to be at peace.

3. Another very important quality that I could write so much on is a man’s ability to recognize and master his fear. By master I don’t mean to totally overcome it, because I don’t believe it is necessary to nor do I believe overcoming fear should be the goal. By mastering fear, I mean he recognizes the fears that he has and does business with those fears to minimize or deaden the impact those fears have upon him…especially with respect to making decisions. A man who recognizes his fears and takes action in spite of his fears, gains an incredible understanding of himself that other men will never know.

4. A quality that is very near and dear to me is humility. I have great respect for a man with humility. Humility isn’t “I’m a piece of shit” or “I’m not good enough.” Humility is a right counterbalance between confidence in yourself and your abilities, coupled with the recognition that as a human being you are flawed. Every man has limits and weaknesses. Every man has skills and strengths. When a man only ever focuses on his skills and strengths and minimizes his weaknesses and flaws, he becomes stunted in his growth as a person. I’m not saying that we need to be looking for our weaknesses or focus on what they are, because we don’t have to do that. Life has a way of bringing those issues to the surface for us, showing us what is lacking. It’s in those spots where we have a decision to make: ignore it or face it. And once a man comes to terms with those weaknesses, he doesn’t have to hide anymore from the fact that he has them. He can then live life with the knowledge that he isn’t perfect and grow to accept that. Guys that try too hard to prove themselves only prove that they are scared of who they are.

5. A man should look out for others. I know there are lots of people out there to be avoided but there are people out there who can benefit from your experience and wisdom. Giving to others does two things: it reinforces my experiences as being important and provides validation to me that my life is important. I’m not just here for myself but I am here to serve others. A good man shares what he knows with others and isn’t selfish.

culled from an online self improvement community..

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We are tired of "women this,women that" kinda topics. Meanwhile happpy bday to my day 1 nigga @akin powers

[quote author=newsomtin post=37281779][/quote] true

So u saying women have been hiding these?

Nairaland haff suffer

czarr:
So u saying women have been hiding these?

Nairaland haff suffer

Yea! it has. I believe you read the whole thing and absorbed some of the points. if not, you must have briefly perused the bolded. I also believe that you have/ already imbibed some of these points already. Thanks for dropping by. have fun.