A colleague of mine in the office needs my advice on a small issue and I brought it here for nairalander to help.He narrated it as follows "My ex whom we so much love each other left me to marry someone else. Two years after,she regretted her action and told me all she is going through in her marriage. She talks to me everyday since then. And I always advice her to endure and talk things through with her husband. Now,am getting married in a month's time and my wife is pregnant. I started a business of recent where I made clothes for people. It's very difficult getting stylists to work for me and when I discuss this with my ex she told me of her sister. I know her sister very well in the course of our dating. The sister has agreed to work for me but am doubting my ex might have a hidden agenda. Am carrying out the business in one of my rooms.I will need to leave her at home to go to my place of work everyday. Pls,advice

PRODUTIM1:
A colleague of mine in the office needs my advice on a small issue and I brought it here for nairalander to help.He narrated it as follows "My ex whom we so much love each other left me to marry someone else. Two years after,she regretted her action and told me all she is going through in her marriage. She talks to me everyday since then. And I always advice her to endure and talk things through with her husband. Now,am getting married in a month's time and my wife is pregnant. I started a business of recent where I made clothes for people. It's very difficult getting stylists to work for me and when I discuss this with my ex she told me of her sister. I know her sister very well in the course of our dating. The sister has agreed to work for me but am doubting my ex might have a hidden agenda. Am carrying out the business in one of my rooms.I will need to leave her at home to go to my place of work everyday. Pls,advice

Yes, and bleep her too.

this one na gwobe, original gwobe see me see wahala de. hope u got the message

Xeinstra1:
Yes, and bleep her too.

ah ha.. U wicked ooo

Tell him not to employ the ex's sister, especially if she's gonna be left there alone in the house. She could be there to spy on the guy. God forbid, poison him or even use magic on them. You just can't trust anyone blindly.

grayht:
ah ha.. U wicked ooo

... Nah... She will enjoy it.

Communicating with your ex isn't a bad thing, the bad comes in handy when u don't know when to draw the line. One thing I have learnt in the course of entrepreneurship is : make sure u employ capable hands, if ur ex sis is capable of handling whatsoever task u throw at her, then y not employ her, meanwhile u should make it formal.

If he knows what's good for him, he won't even dream of employing the ex's sister. Why invite wahala

And he should stop talking to his ex.