Fellow nairalanders, I married a lady who told me she had a kid while in secondary school. I later discovered after three years of marriage that she had four grown up kids for another man, this I discovered after she has given birth to one for me and pregnant with another. It's a very heart breaking issue for me and wish I could turn back the hands of the clock. I am actually not interested in the marriage anymore but for my kids sake, am seeking your candid advise as her first issue with the other man is 22 years old while my first is 4. Her defence was that the other man used juju on her and still pleading to me for forgiveness.She is now 37.

I'm sorry bt dis ur case is highly spiritual!!!!

But it's too late to run away. Bros, God will help you to carry this cross.

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I still don't get what op is trying to say

this is serious

I'm lost

**sips mountain dew**

Na old woman u marry?

If her first child is 22, how old is she?

I stand to be corrected, i advice according to my instincs.
Married? Firstly marriage is kinda everlasting so you just to forgive and forget even if its hard but let her know how hard it is for you to forgive her. About that 4 kids, you may decide not to allow them in ur aoz since you were not aware b4 marriage and if u are nice enough, allow them(consider ur financial ability). Your wife needs to be idonno, you should just leave her, she didnt tell u bcuz she was afraid of loosing u i guess....

@femmmmy
thats what happened when you hurry and marry a stranger... and yes, you have all the rights to leave that deceitful woman (who knows what else she is hiding from you)

Smtn is definiitely wrong smwher......hw old is she exactly....u need serious prayer

divorce

Real bondage mehn!!!!!!