African guys can be very bold and direct in
the beginning of the courting process. They
tend to ‘get to the point’ a bit too quickly and
come-off abrasive at times.

This can be a complete turnoff! The manner in
which they ask ladies questions can come off
in an interrogative style and immediately kills
the potential of a relationship before it even
officially started!
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but
some of the questions that African guys ask
can be very intrusive, annoying and seem
offensive during the initial stages of meeting
someone. I’m not saying that Blacks behave
in this manner, but quite a number of them
have such attitudes. I’ve had my fair share of
experiences with African guys and have heard
a number of stories about other people’s
experiences.
Down below are the Top 5 Annoying
Questions African Guys Ask Girls.

1. Do you know how to cook?
When will an African man get tired of asking
this question? I understand that a ‘true’ old
school African man wants to marry a woman
who’s an exceptional cook, but that isn’t the
reason to bring this topic up 5 minutes after
meeting someone. They don’t understand that
there is a time and place to ask a lady such a
question and doing it too soon can be a real
mood killer.

2. What does your father do?
When African guys ask this question, I
strongly believe that they should be stared at
as if they’re off their rockers. Seriously! Such
a question shouldn’t even be a topic of
discussion right off the bat.
At times, I wonder if guys are trying to date
people’s fathers, how it’s their business and if
they “actually” know it’s an inappropriate
question to ask before properly getting to
know someone. They sound as if the income
of the lady’s father they’re courting
determines whether or not they will date her.

3. Why are you still single?
This is honestly one of the most ridiculous
questions a guy can ask after meeting
someone. Who knows what the magic answer
is that they want to hear? “I haven’t found the
right one yet” “I’ve been waiting on you” or “I
don’t know oh”? Comot jare!
It’s a very strange question to ask because it
puts ladies in an awkward position. Single
ladies are single for different reasons and
some people don’t always feel comfortable
sharing such information so suddenly.
Honestly, some of us don’t even have a direct
answer for that question.

4. Are you a virgin?
This is such a random and ill-mannered
question to ask someone. Such a question is
extremely personal and a lot of ladies don’t
like discussing their virginity with guys & even
fellow girls. It puts them on the spot.
Some ladies who have already engaged in
sexual intercourse might be fine with chatting
about such matters, while some virgins are
already insecure enough about their sexuality.
In today’s day and age, a lot people are
having sex like mad animals and guys don’t
understand that the subject of sex might still
be sensitive for some girls.

5. Are we going to have sex?
African guys need to stop following question 4
with this question. It’s so off-putting and truly
shines a negative light on them. I find this
question truly degrading on the lady’s behalf
and as a sign of desperation on the guy’s.
When women are ready to engage in sexual
intercourse, my brothers, they will let you
know!
I don’t believe any proper lady with dignity is
going to give you a timeline of when to have
sex with her. Having sex too early is the
reason why a lot of relationships don’t last. It
puts pressure on the lady to do something she
might not be ready for and relationships are
NOT mainly based on sex alone!

Cc: lalasticlala

So you are too big to be asked these questions abi , although no reasonable guy should ask you 4 and 5


So am first to comment, I renounce this position , I have a job

Sometimes I ask myself, why don't nigerian girls end up marryn white guys...

Indeed these are silly questions. Whoever such must be really dumb, especially the last three.

Here's clay




Go ahead and mold him

lol who will be asking 5 tho?

Heheheheeh

NeduLuiZ:
Here's clay




Go ahead and mold him

I have never done that

are those not important questions?

i hate guys asking a girl if she is a virgin. That nonsense annoys me.

Hope u no come to chop money?

Jhenny:
i hate guys asking a girl if she is a virgin. That nonsense annoys me.

every guy does

Hehehehe....

Any guy that wants to know the temperament of a lady at first sight;just ask her the number 4 question

fajani:
every guy does

Nt evry guy, cos I dnt

Jhenny:
i hate guys asking a girl if she is a virgin. That nonsense annoys me.

they are no virgins anymore,so a guys who ask such question may just be joking.

esohjayy:
Nt evry guy, cos I dnt

seconded.

And ladies asking what is your financial status

Youngpo413:
they are no virgins anymore,so a guys who ask such question may just be joking.

No virgins again? Tsunami carry them ni

If an African girl has d right to ask me what I do for a living, I think I also have the right to know what either she or/and her dad does for a living.

Jhenny:
i hate guys asking a girl if she is a virgin. That nonsense annoys me.

are u a V?