Bimbo Adetokunbo (not real name) relays her experience at an exotic gay wedding in Lagos. She also shares the stories of her close shave with lesbianism, the pressure, threats and attractions with Gboyega Alaka and Omolewa Oshin.

IT was an all-pink affair early March. All the girls were in pink bum shorts and rise and fall cropped top – that was the dress code. The atmosphere was surreal, with sensual lights, music, dance, rich perfume and sweat mingling. Wine and food was also in abundance; shawarma, asun, cake. Chicken barbecue… The celebration in the air was also unmistakable.

At the centre of it all were Tope and Tola (not real names), two women who found love and comfort in each other’s arms and decided to quit the pretences, damn the consequences and get married. Although it is common knowledge that same sex relationship and marriage is outlawed and punishable with up to 14 years imprisonment in the country, this couple was beyond caring, as they revelled in the joy of their day, exchanging vows. Another woman, also a lesbian, served as officiating minister and blessed the union. They also exchanged wedding bands in the form of exquisite ear rings and thereafter went into a frenzy of kisses and endless cuddling.

As if taking a cue, all the gay lovers in attendance also went into a frenzy of applause, cheers and kisses.
The wedding took place at a popular nightclub on Victoria Island, Lagos, and the couple, who are obviously from very comfortable backgrounds, wowed all present by capping it up with a presentation of exotic cars to each other as wedding gifts. The party went on until early the next morning, when the couple drove away in each other’s arms to their hotel room at the prestigious Eko Hotel and Suites, and guests sauntered away in trickles after wearing themselves out in a most exhausting bout of fun.

To tell the truth, it was probably the most exciting party I’ve been to in a long time. Even the nightclub staff and other people who had come on their own couldn’t help but join us, seeing the wild fun excitement in the air.

Like in normal wedding, both couple considered themselves the luckiest people on earth, having found best friends in each other. Tope could not hide her feelings and actually confided in some us, who are very close to her that the day was her most memorable so far, because she was not only hooking her best friend, but also her confidant. They generally exuded that familiar joy found amongst normal wedding couples. In their joy, they urged all present to enjoy all the food and drinks.

The party was organised by their gay friends, who felt compelled to host a wonderful bash for the ‘delightful couple’. Other gay lovers were also present in abundance, both the men and the lesbians.

Tope is a final year accounting student of a frontline private university in Ogun State, while Tola is a final year student of a federal government institution in Lagos. Somehow, they both looked set for a fulfilled family life, except that, as an outsider who got invited plainly on the level of my closeness to them, I kept wondering how they hope to make a life, and more importantly, make babies.
But from the look of things and the celebration on the night, that worry seemed not to be on their radar at all.

The whole gay thing
You may wonder and rightly so too, why I felt so comfortable in the midst of gay people, when I’m not. Well, I’m not gay, but it has taken me a lot of determination and will-power to resist and weather the temptations they throw at me. I attend the same private university with Tope in Ogun State. Tope was my roommate in school in year one, and a very jolly one too except for this gay thing. In fact, my five roommates were all lesbians, except for me. And it was not for lack of trying that they didn’t win me over. As a buxom lady, they all seem to have eyes for my body, and you could tell that they’d do anything to get me into their beds. They tried all tricks possible to lure me into lesbianism, promising me all the excitement possible and the fact that I only need to try it out to know why it is the fad today. But I stood my ground.

My reason? I just couldn’t bring myself to doing it with them, because that’s just not who I am. Often, they’d grab me and steal touches at my sensitive parts, all in the name of playing with me. Sometimes, they’d rush into the bathroom with me and start handling me, but usually I smile and laugh over it, because I understand their plight and because they were not getting to me.

Besides, I’ve never had any feeling or affection for girls, and before you could really engage in lesbianism or lesbian sex with a fellow woman, you really must love the person. As I speak to you, the only woman I love is my grandmother, and of course falling in love with her in that skewed manner is not even in my wildest imagination, nor possible.

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Bad thing! God forbid evil.

lalasticlala and seun hope am not the one waking you today. Morning to you all. fp for this story... is interesting

exlinkleads:
lalasticlala and seun hope am not the one waking you today. Morning to you all. fp for this story... is interesting

You and your gay friends are so dead. . .14years no be beans!

exlinkleads:
lalasticlala and seun hope am not the one waking you today. Morning to you all. fp for this story... is interesting

Are you high? Shey na lalasticlala and Seun u want make government arrest abi?

Keep at it, you will soon find yourself in jail. Abi you don't know the offence for what you are doing ko? Inshort, this thread will soon be shut down

I no even read am

hmmmm

Hmmmmm........I knew it was only a matter of time before things like this begin to happen in Naija.

Hmmm

Watching!!!permit me to say..



End time tinz

Pls remind me how you were invited again?

You must be a healthy liar and a good writer


E fit be true shaa, make I consullt IFA

Were is baba mai gaskiya.he should start arresting these pple oh

What is my business with what two consenting adults do behind close doors?

Ok

Bad company corrupts good manners.. Op, u fit find urself being a lesbian o

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I always wonder, is she a human being or a robot?

christinie:
Bad thing! God forbid evil.

Yes dear, it's evil. that's y we need to fast track our wedding to save u from temptation...

Medunah:
Hmmm

all these hmmm hmmm... say ur mind

Even a female colleague of mine is a lesbian.

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da fucck ezz diz suppose to mean??

when babes never finish for town. hian!

Nawa o

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PMB should probe you for this Land

Craze

Nice story but too long. The amount of views even before it hits frontpage show Nigerians're secretly enamoured with gay and lesbian topics.

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Ok

onyenze123:

Yes dear, it's evil. that's y we need to fast track our wedding to save u from temptation...