FrankDude:


Ok, so she just wants a male friend, that she can hang out with during the evening, talking about how couples get romantic at gardens,move everywhere with the guy, make everyone think they are dating, does everything the guy asks her to do except romantic stuffs and be friends ever after. that makes sense uhn?

halfrica:



A sign she loves u ok

Bt wants u to still be her frnd

She is happy wit u she is like wat if u guys av misunderstandings which happens while datin

Who wud she talk to?

I kinda reason like her too i av guys i pour my feelins to bt wudnt date cos if we break up or av misunderstandin i wont av my frnd bck even tho we end up as frnds again it wont b like before truss me

trilobite:
Young man, you are almost in the friendzone.

You've made it too easy for her. When women know they've got you they will misbehave.

Ask her out again, profess your love, say all the sweetest things for a set period.

If after that period she still says no, you run like hell.

Tell her you're no longer interested. Ignore her.

She will beg. Fact!!!

Once you've done this, ask her out for the last time.
If no again.

Forget her finally and move on with your life.

There are many fishes, woman never finish.

halfrica:



A sign she loves u ok

Bt wants u to still be her frnd

She is happy wit u she is like wat if u guys av misunderstandings which happens while datin

Who wud she talk to?

I kinda reason like her too i av guys i pour my feelins to bt wudnt date cos if we break up or av misunderstandin i wont av my frnd bck even tho we end up as frnds again it wont b like before truss me

cozy7:
Take this from a pro.....stay single (4now), don't get hooked up, keep spending time with her. I can assure u that she's got eyes for u and is coming but is taking things slow, I suggest u don't rush, if u do, YOU'LL LOOSE HER. I'd also suggest u periodically take her to cozy environments, admire her n give her d impression that u got s rare choice, but keep your distance. I'M SURE SHE'LL BE YOURS. BUT BE CAREFUL BRO, SUCH KINDA LADIES OFTEN LUV 4REAL, ONE MISTAKE N SHE'S GONE 4REAL.

FrankDude:


Wow, so u are sure she isn't using me to replace her bf's absence?

cozy7:
Wen u say "replace", u make yourself sound like "spare-parts", well if that's what u call it, isn't that wat u want...to be her man? Let me put it 2u this way, I no her type and I can tell u she wants to KNOW n FEEL your worth b4 she falls....u must be patient, she'll come around. But I must tell u 2b careful, as a little mistake can make u d loser. Let me tell u a fact....I can bet she secretly sees u as her man (I've got reasons 4saying so), so u must stay clear off other ladies.....as true luv (which she's gradually building 4u) comes with jealousy!

FrankDude:


No wonder she always avoid fighting with me, she always take her time to make sure she explains everything to me whenever it seems like I am angry , and she goes extra mile to do so. The day I told her I can't be her friend again, she was so emotional, although she was hiding it, she used those friendship display pictures "I want someone who would accept me even if I have nothing to offer" on her picture. She got so upset and sad. I think I believe she values our friendship more than dating. U are right. But she still my friend till now and I see how greatly my actions and words affects her, I effortlessly stir emotions in her but she always bury them.

FrankDude:


Ohhh that's it abi?

No problem she wld remain my friend.

I hope she would be able to withstand seeing me kiss another girl on my dp? and not paying any attention to her like before.

If that's how both of u reason, u still loss , because now that I didn't date her and went for another girl, she will still lose my friendship because I won't have her time again cos I am giving my babe time. So its a lose-lose situation for her na

FrankDude:


U mean she wants just sex and fun from me with no commitment?

I doubt that, because I have hit her on the ass before and she didn't like it, told me not to do it again.

FrankDude:


Ohhh that's it abi?

No problem she wld remain my friend.

I hope she would be able to withstand seeing me kiss another girl on my dp? and not paying any attention to her like before.

If that's how both of u reason, u still loss , because now that I didn't date her and went for another girl, she will still lose my friendship because I won't have her time again cos I am giving my babe time. So its a lose-lose situation for her na

omoikea:
guy you are seated on the friend zone with seat belt!

FrankDude:
There is this girl (20 years old) in my university, we are in the same department, the girl is very analytical and a Catholic , she is pretty too and has class. She is also intelligent. I never knew she had a boyfriend in another university, whom she hasn't seen for a long time(long distance relationship). I didnt bo her to ask her whether she has a boyfriend because its not in my nature to do that, I just go for any girl that interest me. So I started showing this girl interest, although I didn't make it obvious because I wasn't sure how she feels for me, it was later that she told me she can't date me because she doesn't feel the same way for me, and that she has a long distance boyfriend. So anyway, we agreed to be just friends, after so many thoughts and fighting on my own side. But I still get jealous when I see her playing with another guy, anyway it seems I have overcome that jealousy.

What I don't understand is why does this girl like hanging out with me almost all the time?
She sometimes calls me at evening time to see her, she takes me around school(on feet) to romantic places, telling me how she sees couples making out etc. Always walking with me after class, although she has told me she doesnt have friends like that, anywhere you see me you are likely to see her. She is conservative, doesnt hug, maybe because of her big boobs i dont know. Although I have told her never to discuss about her relationship problems with me in this friendship because I hate the feeling of being friendzoned. So she has never done that. I noticed this girl does almost anything I ask her to do, and she always try not to get on my bad side. If I tell her that she is doing something I dont like, she stops doing it and would never do it again, almost like I have her remote control with me. The only thing she avoids is getting romantic with me, she avoids talking romance or anything that could bring up "love" emotions between us. I was shocked the day she asked me about my past relationships, who broke up with who? Have I had sex before? Etc.
She told me later that she has broken up with her bf and she might not want to move on, that she wasn't happy about it , broken up for the past three weeks before I
Finally decided to chip in "going beyond friendship" in my conversation with her. She said "don't let's do that"
I asked her why , she said we had discussed about it before and concluded. I told her people change and shit happens, and she told me she knows, that she still maintain her stance.

So I made her realise that once I have a gf I won't be spending time with her that much etc. And then she was surprised, saying my gf wld be matured enough to give me space, i told her it doesn't work that way.
It was later later that she asked me what prompted that ? That I must have thought of somethiñg to say it out, that it has been locked up insid. Asking me that have I seen a girl that I like? Why is she asking me that, if she is not interested?


Anyway thAts the major thing, the reason why I did that was to figure out if this girl has any hidden intention with me or something, what do you think?
Is she using me to fill in space of her absent bf?
What is she doing?
What am I not noticing?
What's going on?

I need both male and female advice and interpretation. Thanks a lot

halfrica:


Nope u will av her time its d begining of ur new love u go all crazy nd all later on u wud start givin ur new gf space nt cos u dont love her bt u guyzs wud start workin wiv diff time e b like say na evil spirit dey infect relationship wit myspace syndrome

Dats why dis days relationship crack are as a result of no time to spend wit one anoda
Its a natural tin ok so sooner or later u wud need ur frnds time dan gfs even marrid men stay wit their frnds more often

BuddhaPalm:
Introduce another girl (or other girls) into the equation. Jealousy is your friend.

Women are the most competitive creatures on earth. And she will take your love-sausage right in the Ass - if that's what will WIN you FROM the other girls.

Be ruthless.

FrankDude:
There is this girl (20 years old) in my university, we are in the same department, the girl is very analytical and a Catholic , she is pretty too and has class. She is also intelligent. I never knew she had a boyfriend in another university, whom she hasn't seen for a long time(long distance relationship). I didnt bo her to ask her whether she has a boyfriend because its not in my nature to do that, I just go for any girl that interest me. So I started showing this girl interest, although I didn't make it obvious because I wasn't sure how she feels for me, it was later that she told me she can't date me because she doesn't feel the same way for me, and that she has a long distance boyfriend. So anyway, we agreed to be just friends, after so many thoughts and fighting on my own side. But I still get jealous when I see her playing with another guy, anyway it seems I have overcome that jealousy.

What I don't understand is why does this girl like hanging out with me almost all the time?
She sometimes calls me at evening time to see her, she takes me around school(on feet) to romantic places, telling me how she sees couples making out etc. Always walking with me after class, although she has told me she doesnt have friends like that, anywhere you see me you are likely to see her. She is conservative, doesnt hug, maybe because of her big boobs i dont know. Although I have told her never to discuss about her relationship problems with me in this friendship because I hate the feeling of being friendzoned. So she has never done that. I noticed this girl does almost anything I ask her to do, and she always try not to get on my bad side. If I tell her that she is doing something I dont like, she stops doing it and would never do it again, almost like I have her remote control with me. The only thing she avoids is getting romantic with me, she avoids talking romance or anything that could bring up "love" emotions between us. I was shocked the day she asked me about my past relationships, who broke up with who? Have I had sex before? Etc.
She told me later that she has broken up with her bf and she might not want to move on, that she wasn't happy about it , broken up for the past three weeks before I
Finally decided to chip in "going beyond friendship" in my conversation with her. She said "don't let's do that"
I asked her why , she said we had discussed about it before and concluded. I told her people change and shit happens, and she told me she knows, that she still maintain her stance.

So I made her realise that once I have a gf I won't be spending time with her that much etc. And then she was surprised, saying my gf wld be matured enough to give me space, i told her it doesn't work that way.
It was later later that she asked me what prompted that ? That I must have thought of somethiñg to say it out, that it has been locked up insid. Asking me that have I seen a girl that I like? Why is she asking me that, if she is not interested?


Anyway thAts the major thing, the reason why I did that was to figure out if this girl has any hidden intention with me or something, what do you think?
Is she using me to fill in space of her absent bf?
What is she doing?
What am I not noticing?
What's going on?

I need both male and female advice and interpretation. Thanks a lot

duduade:


1. Is this what your parents sent you to do in school. ...?

2. I hope this is how you answer your CAT/exam questions correctly?

FrankDude:


Dude am on first class. How is my academics related to this. Learn how to say relevant things.

Dotwillis1:
Go whisper that to your dad's ear. fagg !

duduade:
rubbish....small boy, if truly you are then learn not to be distracted. ..

Montaque:
How old is this ur friend?
She may have seen u as not 'marriage - ready'.
girls think long term.

FrankDude:


You are a big foo00l and i am not makiñg a mistake to have said that. U have mental problem. U are one of those who think in a unidirectional sense, very narrow and closed minded idi00t.

Tell us ur CGPA.