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***please Help Me*** by PROdaniel(m): 8:55pm On Aug 30, 2015
Hey waddup people. I need ur hlp on an issue bothering me.....
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I used to have a gf, we loved each oda so dearly. We were always into each oda, our love was just a beautiful one. She is igbo and im yoruba. She decided to let me disvirgin her and begged me not to leave her cos im d only guy dat has eva seen her unclothedness. After some months we had a quarrel. She sed something senseless and i took it up with her. I got so angry to the extent dat i sed abusive words to her (wch v neva done b4). Afta realising my mistake jst 3days afta, i pleaded with her but she refused to listen. I later knew she was already dating one of her EX. I wept and knelt down for her to plead, but she was so full of herself. One thing is that she lives in Lagos and dat guy lives in Benin. That was how we brokeup.
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WE HAVE BIN AWAY FOR FIVE MONTHS NOW BUT STILL CANT FORGET HER. JUST FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO LOOK AT ANY ODA GURLS EYE.
What do u think might happen later. Will she want me back later or hate me........
(rmb i took her virginity)
Re: ***please Help Me*** by Fajs: 9:02pm On Aug 30, 2015
U took her virginity to where?
On a serious note u v tried ur best and it is obvious she has moved on, so Bro u too move on... Thank ur star u even got to the Promise Land
Re: ***please Help Me*** by Cutehector(m): 9:03pm On Aug 30, 2015
Yea I remember u to took her virginity...



Sometimes the words we say wen we havn a fight with our partners can leav an indelible mark...

Like a frnd of mine told me, she quit thr rship cuz d guy called her a LovePeddler..


If she said some crappy things, u should hav just been a man and dissolve evrytn withn u.


Self control is a virtue u knw... Nw u"v experienced this, I believ in ur nxt relationship, u"d try to be more cautious so when smth like dis wants to occur, u hold urself.

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Re: ***please Help Me*** by Nobody: 9:03pm On Aug 30, 2015
u took her virginity to where? why did u take it? is it yours?
oya give it bacq..it wasnt urs to take..

orijin bad gan!
Re: ***please Help Me*** by kennynelcon(m): 9:05pm On Aug 30, 2015
Kwa Amu gi nga.

I hope you are not a student.
Re: ***please Help Me*** by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 30, 2015
Fajs:
U took her virginity to where?
On a serious note u v tried ur best and it is obvious she has moved on, so Bro u too move on... Thank ur star u even got to the Promise Land

why did u use dt sentence...u took her virginity to where?

did it just come into ur mind?

i dont understand how 2ppl will get d same idea dsame tym..
Re: ***please Help Me*** by PROdaniel(m): 9:12pm On Aug 30, 2015
HEY PEOPLE I KNOW U R TRYN SAY UR OWN PART. BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT THE STORY IS MUCH MORE LONGER THAN THAT. I LOST SO MANY THINGS COS OF HER. WHEN I TOLD PEOPLE PEOPLE THE REAL STORY, THEY WERE SAYING A PARTICULER STATEMENT ''she shldnt have taken the decision''.
THO I REALY BLAME MY SELF FOR ACTING LIKE AN ANIMAL
Re: ***please Help Me*** by Heromaniaa: 9:17pm On Aug 30, 2015
Get over her. date another. life is brief. she has moved on.
Re: ***please Help Me*** by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 30, 2015
Lols. You need more time to recover . In tha mean time, redirect your enenrgie and attention tew something more sensible . Chasing pusee shouldn't be tha plan nigga cool
Re: ***please Help Me*** by beautifullll1(f): 9:37pm On Aug 30, 2015
I've even 4gotten what it feels like to love, be loved or even be hurt, let alone breakup....



Bros, I just de imagine wetin to tell u self

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Re: ***please Help Me*** by fajani(m): 10:21pm On Aug 30, 2015
Every damn body pass through this in the race of love, thank God you deflowered her, the more reason to let go. My first love who broke my heart stylishly without doing anything wrong left a pact in my life because i refused to let go the pain that i couldn't know the colour of her pant hunt me a lot that it turned me to a drug addict and a drunkard all in the name of love. It took me 8 years to breakthrough those addictions. Holding on does nt make us strong but letting go. It will seem to you that there's no other girls like her which is a blatant lie... God will surely compensate you with a girl that will be faithful to you. Just be happy.....

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Re: ***please Help Me*** by Nobody: 10:49pm On Aug 30, 2015
Some girls will let u dis virgin them even when they have no real feelings for u because they already have someone that they really love but don't want to be emotionally shattered should in case she gives it to here true love &. they eventually break up which is most likely..these are the set of girls that were tutored by queen feminists u don't want to fck with them..they can even play a player... just saying tho.. I think u should let her be & move on

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Re: ***please Help Me*** by Iphesure212(m): 11:00pm On Aug 30, 2015
My advice: maybe u should return her virginity, she will run back begging at yr feet. works lyk magic grin
Re: ***please Help Me*** by japhmanuel: 11:29pm On Aug 30, 2015
Move on
Re: ***please Help Me*** by chigoizie7(m): 12:48am On Aug 31, 2015
You didn't tell us what really happened and u want us to advice u? Bros, na 1/4 baked advice u go get from us. Truth be told, she already moved on ever b4 u said what u aid to her, she was just waiting for an opportunity to end it officially.


Just 3days and she has moved back to her ex. Odiegwu, who does that?

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Re: ***please Help Me*** by Nobody: 1:13am On Aug 31, 2015
You took her virginity..........igbayen nko undecided

Millions of women are married to men that did not take their virginity but their hearts and trust.

She claims you the only one but three days after a quarrel she back to her ex. 5 months and you are still stuck on her ? Please move on bro. Life has a lot to offer you, and so do you.

Maybe you took her virginity and she took your brain. #just saying sad

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