Enahi:
thank you so mcuh

You welcome.

Enahi:
thank you for the advice I am not desperate I don't just want Men coming to me for the wrong reasons. I think me been me is not helping me at all,I can be too emotional and nice to a fault most Naija guys don't like that. Naija guys like the mean tough girls.

you sound like a really nice person and if being you is being nice and principled then you dont have to change a thing about urself. Nobody likes mean people. There are so many bad guyz out there but there are still few unique ones who will appreciate you for you. hold on God may be sending one great guy your way soon. on a lighter note, plenty people like me dey find good girl oh abeg never bad or give up

Enahi:
what the heck did you just type here

da truth, bliv me, u will neva find a man who wud love u for real except r body i ls involved

Come hook up with big papa, am gonna show u good loving babe

Enahi:
Truth is I hardly jump into bed with men and some have left me because of that. I just don't know if its just sex that matters to Men?

You want to separate the wheat from the chaff.You don't need many men,you just need 'that man'.
Don't worry about the men who leave when you don't offer sex,as a matter of fact,it should be for you a test of their intents.There are men who are not asking for it,I wasn't.
My question for you is,what circle of friends/acquintances are you keeping?

thorpido:
You want to separate the wheat from the chaff.You don't need many men,you just need 'that man'.
Don't worry about the men who leave when you don't offer sex,as a matter of fact,it should be for you a test of their intents.There are men who are not asking for it,I wasn't.
My question for you is,what circle of friends/acquintances are you keeping?

I really don't have friends, don't have much time to hangout or even visit the few friends I have.

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

Why are you searching for love, when you can love yourself, focus on ya life, and be happy? You never find things when you are desperate.

Enahi:
I really don't have friends, don't have much time to hangout or even visit the few friends I have.

Even if you spend much of your time at work,acquiesce with colleagues,their friends and customers.You need a network even if you're an introvert.
If you do not work on wkds and you attend a church,get into departments and bond.
You have to push yourself a bit.

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

We all feel like giving up one time or the other. My advice,pursue love of self, then love from others will come.

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

AH! pele o, na wa o, buh u dey moderate romance section? what of all those guys wey dey dm you, sift better one out na

Enahi:
i do dress decently, I don't know if its spiritual men has actually stopped me to tell me they
had a hard on by just looking at me I dont wear revealing outfit . It's so painful and embarrassing.

Eeeyah! pele, just be patient sha, better guy go come

mumu9gerian:

AH! pele o, na wa o, buh u dey moderate romance section? what of all those guys wey dey dm you, sift better one out na

me ke moderate romance section how? I don't understand?

Enahi:
me ke moderate romance section how? I don't understand?

ma binu, maybe i didnt get it right

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

stop falling in love with players,learn to appreciate good guys who loves you more.

Enahi:
Truth is I hardly jump into bed with men and some have left me because of that. I just don't know if its just sex that matters to Men?

it depends on the kind of men you roll with

The problem is urself and d solution is also urself. dont get me wrong, am not trying to push d blame to u, but am just trying to bring out some points. The solutions includes: Self confidence, self-love, self-worth, self-empowerment, self-development. Now let me explain self-confidence: there are certain gals with inferiority complex, they feel dey are not up to and therefore any guy that comes around dem, dey feel iss so special and should be treated as such, also dey lack self confidence in d sense dt dey feel dey are not up to d standard of so many people and try to avoid people, most of diz kinda people av few frnds. Self-love: u should learn to love urself, know dt u are awesum, beautiful and unique, it doesnt matter wat people say about u or how dey see u, it all depends on how u see urself, love urself, dresswell, ofcourse dress d way u want to be addressed, make urself look lively with certain mkup, not to heavy. love urself enough to believe u deserve to go out, if u develop dis habit, it increases ur chances of meeting more people who wouldnt feel u are boring and avoid u. doesnt need to be clubing if u feel its not right or responsible to u, just mk sure u go out. SELF-WORTH: U must know wat u worth, dont let anybody take u for a fool, believe u are awesum, act like u are awesum, access urself, know ur worth amongst men and dnt let anyone take u for a fool. Self-empowerment:learn to empower urself. Self development: develop urself, dont remain where u are, if u are a gud cookbut only know how to cook a few food, learn more, I for one am attracted to ladies dt can cook well, i cook very well and so ladies find it hard to impress me in d kitchen. i love waking up in d morning and preparing food for I and my lady but she must be good. also develop urself in other aspect, educationwise, characterwise, and others.
Note: u shouldnt act proud, just be a woman of class and responsible guys would be after u, wen irresponsible ones see u, dey would fear u, only few responsible guys would love to have u. but dont mk d mistake of shunning guys or acting proud, stories flies fast. cos dt guy u shunned could be frnds to that responsible guy and he would tell d guy u a snub and u would miss it. Be friendly, love urself, know ur worth, develop urself and u would find d guy

we can work something out dear

There are many good guys in town that you have met. Few men only marries without having sex with their partner. You must get that into your damn skull. Relationship is not about reading bible in the church and quoting psalms. Get intimate with your guy then the love will grow. Else nothing will happen.

i wish i could help

ur body, personality will attract men , ur character and manner will pursue some but it is only u that will choose what u want (so start now to set ur criteria).

NB: not all romantic flirt will end well, the ones u don't expect or give a chance may be the one to stay.

so like the proverbial fisherman cast ur net and catch everything, then sit down and select ur best catch based on the criteria u had already set but note that u will live with the consequences of ur choice both good or bad

wishing u luck

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

Honestly I dont know what to say abt this shìt
I got a lotta females who are in the same boat with you
but look at the bright side
Many PMs have been sent 2u since u put up this shìt
There will b a nice guy among them pick one

Don't give up

God has not given up on you!

You will get it right soon

BUTCHCASSIDY:


Honestly I dont know what to say abt this shìt
I got a lotta females who are in the same boat with you
but look at the bright side
Many PMs have been sent 2u since u put up this shìt
There will b a nice guy among them pick one

Hmmmmm.....dont t think I will reply any pms, they are looking for the obvious.

Enahi:


Hmmmmm.....dont t think I will reply any pms, they are looking for the obvious.

Well can't blame them. You could have been more tactful
you had to make it obvious you had a big butt
Now you cant tell who genuinely likes you
Id suggest you create a new profile
then learning from ur mistakes send out the message codedly
Good luck yo

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

awwwwww my dear it's like that most times when you search for love, the best you can do is to LOVE YOURSELF first, do things that makes you happy, enjoy every bit of your life and the people around you and believe me soon that love will find you. I'm just testifying.

Enahi:
I really don't have friends, don't have much time to hangout or even visit the few friends I have.

erm..... correct me if i m wrong ,u don't hangout with friends and the few u have, u hardly visit? meaning you are a more of a WORKAHOLIC ?? hmm babe ,from my point of view, if a guy were 2 go out with u, he ll be writing application letters just 2 see u, if he's lucky, he ll get 2 see u like twice or thrice in a month. Now tell me why a guy won't just want to bleep u and take off knowing that u re married 2 your job? Ur my kind of chic, nice personality and all BUT, BUTT big BUTTT aside, no de carry your job 4 head, the job will come and go but a good guy will stay no matter what...... even when BUTT n all doz incredible features SAAG...... My oppinion

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

A trial will convince you.

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

I feel yours words and your pains, so sorry if I insulted you because of my people(biafra). But I guess you need to opened up and be free with pple. Socialised more than being reserves.

You get heartbroken, maybe you should check your characters and see if it s the reasons you get dumb a times. Maybe your job maybe affecting your relationship cos I ve seen someone who said his girlfriend does not have time for him. So because of that, he broke up with her.

We as individuals re not perfect, we need to be flexible so that our life can be smooth and be happy again.

I wish you well enahi.

Enahi:
I have been searching for love. Each time I fall in love I get heartbroken?
I don't socialize much and don't have much friends,basically its just me and my job.

I don't know what am doing wrong, I get asked out but its mostly for the wrong reason and purpose. Most Men get attracted to me because of my body.
Exactly what am I doing wrong? Is there something am not doing right ? Do I need to socialize more? Am I too reserved?
Seriously I am tired,should I give up on love?

I feel like giving up.

@ Enahi, have you been heartbroken again? Sorry o! Igbos guys beware

Hehehehe ..no be only reserved na reservoir she be....does a reserved woman run after men that don't want her?meanwhile ,to her every Igbo woman is a prostitute and she,a saint from Edo.... Her attitude is the reason they only see her good for sex.

IGBOPRINCE:
I feel yours words and your pains, so sorry if I insulted you because of my people(biafra). But I guess you need to opened up and be free with pple. Socialised more than[b] being reserves.[/b]

You get heartbroken, maybe you should check your characters and see if it s the reasons you get dumb a times. Maybe your job maybe affecting your relationship cos I ve seen someone who said his girlfriend does not have time for him. So because of that, he broke up with her.

We as individuals re not perfect, we need to be flexible so that our life can be smooth and be happy again.

I wish you well enahi.

peppyluv02:
Hehehehe ..no be only reserved na reservoir she be....does a reserved woman run after men that don't want her?meanwhile ,to her every Igbo woman is a prostitute and she,a saint from Edo.... Her attitude is the reason they only see her good for sex.

Can you please leave my thread alone, you frustrated stinking miserable swine.

I see I have given you a new job of going through my thread, I hope Seun pays you for your efforts.

IGBOPRINCE:
I feel yours words and your pains, so sorry if I insulted you because of my people(biafra). But I guess you need to opened up and be free with pple. Socialised more than being reserves.

You get heartbroken, maybe you should check your characters and see if it s the reasons you get dumb a times. Maybe your job maybe affecting your relationship cos I ve seen someone who said his girlfriend does not have time for him. So because of that, he broke up with her.

We as individuals re not perfect, we need to be flexible so that our life can be smooth and be happy again.


I wish you well enahi.

I am actually reserved and can get really emotional.
But Nairaland is fun, I think am addicted to Nairaland.

hahaha of course you just confessed here that 'frustration' and 'desperation' is your signature ....you will forever remain a b1tch to men!
Igbo girls must really be stealing the show from you hence your hate but no one gives a fvck b1tch!

Enahi:


Can you please leave my thread alone, you frustrated stinking miserable swine.

I see I have given you a new job of going through my thread, I hope Seun pays you for your efforts.