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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by blenko: 11:44am On Sep 04, 2015
Break the relationship immediately because You dont need a slut around u. There are lots of decent girls out there who would respect and trust you.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by TITOBIGZ(m): 11:58am On Sep 04, 2015
Tapout:
seriously, u don't know what to do?? undecided ....chie, embarassed some guys dey fall my hand scatter cry ....okay I'll give u my little advice


"buy an expensive ring, close ur account if possible....then use ur knees and walk to her place (make sure it's bleeding excessively before u reach).....then conclude by proposing to her......


no need to thank me, it's nothing
cheesygringringringrin
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by stanvesco(m): 12:31pm On Sep 04, 2015
Amen747:

Na u dull pass.
So u no even touch breast. My babe tell me say she be V and even told me she would go with me for virginity test. I jst played along for 3 months until she landed in my bed. Her tootoo deep lyk borehole. I jst dey enjoy dey go until her day of reckoning comes
kai,walahi u dey kwase...lmao.lollllling...
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by djshoxy(m): 12:42pm On Sep 04, 2015
Bros. I have read ur story. Buh my advice is dis, try nd pick her calls, she might be d second holy mary on earth. Without any man sleepin with her. Vero ko vero nii.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Neverquit(f): 12:54pm On Sep 04, 2015
God bless you abundantly.

Most people forget that some doctors in naija do not observe the confidentiality code. Some doctors don't care...all they want is someone to pay the bills.

Whether this post is true or not, it still stands that some doctors do not observe the code/ethics.


shadowgwalker:
That one does not happen in Nigeria. This same reason why patients die of bullet wounds because they send the patient out to go get a police report. An unconscious person will start answering questions before treatment? Even if she answers, how sure will the doctor be that she's saying the truth.


I know a story sImilar to this, the girl was saying she has never had sex meanwhile the cos of her steady vomiting was as a result of pregnancy after series of test was carried out. She lied because it was her fiance that took her to the hospital.

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by flawlessT(f): 12:57pm On Sep 04, 2015
ORACLE1975:
My guy when ever u here vagin u most text first b4 u believe as for her something went wrong..... But if u need story peak her call by then complete season is ready.
U go test tire...lol
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by flawlessT(f): 1:04pm On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:
Op, your story is fictitious, and a slap on the medical profession. No doctor will reveal a patient's condition to you just like that, especially such a sensitive one.
Yeah,u r ryt

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 1:31pm On Sep 04, 2015
ben1daEbiri:
I disagree with you at some point,when my girl got pregnant,she went to the clinic (owned by a family friend),after the test,she called me and asked me if i've talked with my girl (cos we were having a lil misunderstanding)so i knew before she told me herself;now my question is this:was she wrong telling me before my girl? (meanwhile she was suspecting my girl was seeing another guy)


If your girl decides to press charges, your family friend would lose his license.

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Davidifeanyi: 1:36pm On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..
Dont go near her if still value your Life and also want have peace. Once a Liar is always a Liar... Take heart Bro....goodday.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Sep 04, 2015
yanabasee:

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This isn't about "rights"... It's about life.. If you're a doctor or an interns partner... One of the ethics of a doctor on duty is to seek for the consent of the extended family of a patient, depending on how severe the case might be.
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Note that the OP gave a summary of his conversation with the Doctor. In an actual sense, you will agree with me that the doctor must have asked him many questions before relaying the information to him. You should know this if truly u practised med. surg.


In a case where the patient is fully conscious, and in sound mental health, he alone can give consent for anything. An extended relative CANNOT. In a situation like this were the girl is fully conscious, the doctor needs her permission to disclose her condition even to her mother.

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by eyinjuoluwa96(f): 2:06pm On Sep 04, 2015
Hmmmm sm girls sha...disgrace to womanhood
nthn to say rili #just forgv nd move on nd dat shldnt stp u frm loving
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Happiness87(f): 2:19pm On Sep 04, 2015
remiotega:
She shudnt hav lied abt her virginity.
And Op if u ar crossd cos she lied, I don't support her on dat one...but if u ar crossd cos she isn't a virgin...I hav one question for u..


























Are YOU a VIRgin?



So after disvirginin so many girls u were dreaming of marrying a virgin!






Comon! Gerrrarahere!
don't you think that the issue here is not the lies but the fact that she even did abortion, who knows how many of these she has done, and what is her womb is ruptured with complications? what do you think is the future of such relationship
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by kpaofame: 2:59pm On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:
Op, your story is fictitious, and a slap on the medical profession. No doctor will reveal a patient's condition to you just like that, especially such a sensitive one.

hmmn IMO doctor's reveals the patients conditions to proven family members when d condition is serious...Am not sure the doctor had the guys number before...so IMO the doctor aint wrong and this story is very possible..haba person wen wan upset d medical bill not to be in the know of what he is spending for....
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by 123papas(m): 3:01pm On Sep 04, 2015
buh she is still a virgin to u if you have not touched her. manage her like that. Olodo

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by adaweezy(m): 3:07pm On Sep 04, 2015
banttieman:

That is what people like you get when you attach unnecessary importance to virginity. Pls look for another virgin. You're still learning. How old are you self?
The problem is not the virginity but the trust that has been destroyed
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Akin0: 3:55pm On Sep 04, 2015
I will advice you stop seeing the girl. This is the first test of sincerity in the relationship and she has failed you. May be , you need to hear out first. But if it is confirmed to have been sleeping around, then you don't have any business with her. Period.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by yanabasee(m): 3:57pm On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:



In a case where the patient is fully conscious, and in sound mental health, he alone can give consent for anything. An extended relative CANNOT. In a situation like this were the girl is fully conscious, the doctor needs her permission to disclose her condition even to her mother.
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Did it occur to you that the doctor might have asked her to make contacts to somebody that will stand out for her? Before she called on the OP to come to her rescue? At that point, the doctor will in any condition relay the information to him depending on the relationship between the OP and the patient.
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Well... I won't debate on diz any further becoz I've handle cases of such and I can boldly tell u dat d doctor did the right thing.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by emitheo(m): 5:39pm On Sep 04, 2015
you guys are just bombarding d OP anyhow...
Mr Op,i think you should try & know how she was disvirgined...cos what if she was raped & that got her pregnant? hmm?
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ceaser: 5:42pm On Sep 04, 2015
ben1daEbiri:
and when you die with it you expect to goto heaven?that's a no brainer

Funny. She will definitely make heaven. That has not in any any way precluded her faith or destroyed her belief. If you still insist you are right, then I guess all soldiers will never make heaven for the fact that they kill other humans to protect the sovereign integrity of their country.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by TalkingBird: 6:01pm On Sep 04, 2015
Some women and lie is like bread and butter. The incident was just to help you have the facts and take a well informed decision.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ceaser: 6:03pm On Sep 04, 2015
shadowgwalker:
That one does not happen in Nigeria. This same reason why patients die of bullet wounds because they send the patient out to go get a police report. An unconscious person will start answering questions before treatment? Even if she answers, how sure will the doctor be that she's saying the truth.


I know a story sImilar to this, the girl was saying she has never had sex meanwhile the cos of her steady vomiting was as a result of pregnancy after series of test was carried out. She lied because it was her fiance that took her to the hospital.

It happens in Nigeria my brother. Some doctors may not always be explicit and detailed in their history taking and examination, that does not make such attitude right. But one of the things that is tatooed on the mind of every aspiring medical practitioner as medical students is the issue of patient confidentiality and detailed history taking and proper documentation. Medical students have failed exams and have had to do resits for such oversight - it is a very necessary and tasking training just like the average soldier during recruitment. There may always be one or two caregivers who don't adhere to this but the day they'll require a single sentence of notification in a client's case folder to save their neck is the day they will fell sorry for 'emselves. Heck a note as trivial as "sphygmomanometer not available to check blood pressure" by a prudent caregiver in a government hospital lacking such equipment may go a long way to save him/her from lawsuits that may arise in future.

Patient awareness in Nigeria is on the increase with increased internet penetrance and global network and healthcare givers in Nigeria are increasingly learning to be above board to guard against lawsuits from clients.

As per the bullet wound you spoke about, it was a legislation by the NPF and even though refusal to give medical care to a patient whose life is threatened by a gunshot wound may be seen as unwise, it is a government rule and even at that, emergency services and resuscitation will be instituted to keep the patient alive until such time when the police report is presented and other definitive treatment modalities will be instituted. Even the police has reversed this order as they themselves have realised it is against the preservation of life.

Here is a real life scenario: A who woman has been married to a man was brought to the emergency for delivery by her mother-in-law. After initial evaluation, the woman had given false information regarding her parity and obstetric history (history of possible previous childbirths and associated events). She actually denied ever undergone any prior childbirth.

On examination, the doctor found a an abdominal scar consistent with a C-section. She was asked how she cane about that and she lied that she had undergone an appendectomy (a history which she had not volunteered during the history and of course an appendectomy scar is way distinct from a C-section scar).

After being made to realise her folly of lying, she later admitted the truth and upon further probing, she had consistently told same lie to her husband who unfortunately is a novice. Of course she pleaded with the caregiver that she wouldn't want such sensitive and seriously damning information divulged to her mother-in-law who was the relative on ground. To this the doctor had to oblige. It is just what is ethical. And even though all that transpired including the discovery by the doctor MUST be noted in the clients case file, it is not expected to go beyond that.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by scifiminaz: 6:17pm On Sep 04, 2015
This guy dey learn how to write nollywood drama una dey answer am. Mtcheeew me no even wan date virgin. I don't want to date a girl because of sex but it must be among oooo biko! make she no go dey sleep with anoda mufucka for suckaway for backyard ooo
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Adortem: 7:01pm On Sep 04, 2015
Hazardd:
Op, the truth is that am sure the girl don't Love you base on your story....
So i will advice you to stop being her maga to avoid more future heart break... Am sure he saved your number in her phone with "my foolish he-goat" as your name.....next patient pls
I think I recognize you,we are friends on facebook,because of your last phrase...next patient pls. Afians right?
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by CandyBar: 7:07pm On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..


You still dey think am?

She left you roasting while she had sexcapades. Be wise.....advice yourself the way you'd advice your son.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Sep 04, 2015
Pick her call. Tell ha u ve forgiven her. Play along n straf her like 10tymz. Then kick her out of ur life
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Horlaz(m): 8:01pm On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..
u dnt kwn wt to do so ur mumu reach ds level cry well,my advice to u is,jst do as if u dnt care nd tell her she hs bn given then come beep am lyk say ur life depend on her toto @least doing dt ur money nd ur tym wil nt be of waste aftr dt u cn nw brg out some weird behaviours
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by dombenis(m): 8:14pm On Sep 04, 2015
Blackchainz:
.chai,y u first me
.... sorry my guy. I know that you ve entered one chance motor. there is a girl am dating now, she told me that she is a virgin and she never allow me to ve sex with her or kiss her but I do provide for her and I love her.beside I want to quite the relationship but is impossible to me, so please what ill I do to quite the relationship.? .thanks and God bless you as you tell me what to do.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Hazardd(m): 8:25pm On Sep 04, 2015
Adortem:

I think I recognize you,we are friends on facebook,because of your last phrase...next patient pls. Afians right?

i don't think so, what's your username on Facebook
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Adortem: 8:43pm On Sep 04, 2015
Hazardd:


i don't think so, what's your username on Facebook
Is your name Afeez?
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by hYpErbOi: 8:49pm On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:



No sir, as long as the patient is over 18, he alone can decide who should know about his health status. I have attended to people who are hiv+ and their spouse know nothing about it. im bound by ethics not to reveal it to their spouse unless they tell me to.

Don't assume d Thread is fictitious cus as it is even common sense r applied 2 some professional ethics..

Her situation was deteriorating more that the hospital demand contact of sum1 close 2 her cos the abortion was almost taking her life. a situation that even the doctor might loose his right to practice if he na him do the abortion.

OP_i feel 4u tho e ad 2believe say 4 this 21st century wuna sti dey practice al that "Bro John + Sis Ruth" kinda church love.
Wise-up man n move on with ur life.. Lot of babes r out. Get a hole-Bleep a hole (no girl is single..u either snatch from someone OR share with someone)
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Optional2(f): 8:50pm On Sep 04, 2015
histemple:


Your point is very valid, especially as a non medical practitioner.

But I must tell you that the doctor has committed a very gross misconduct that can sack him and make him pay heavy damages.

The "friends" that took her to the hospital should have been the ones that will tell the BF and not the doctor. Except she so approves.

The only time a doctor can reveal a patient's health condition to unauthorized third party, is through a regulatory or law enforcement agency. And he must have such request verified by the court.

Like I said earlier, it is just like the bank. If a banker gives your account details to an authorised third party, you can sue for damages and be paid. And the particular employee must be sacked.
if u were in d OP's shoe wat wil u av done Pay a bill u dnt av knowledge of wats wrong wit d patient or if u were d doctor who d manager of d hospital dirct not to treat any patient wen dy avnt pay any deposit. Wat wil u do as d guy nd wat wil u do as d doctor
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Hazardd(m): 9:23pm On Sep 04, 2015
Adortem:
Is your name Afeez?
no

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