so i have been dating dis girl for a while nw,the problem is she told me she is a rape victim,she said she was raped twice at d age of 15 although have had sex with her but she told me she doesnt enjoy sex dat sex is nt her thing since her first experience wasnt fun, how do i talk her out of her traumatized state cos its affecting our relationship. sorry for my typo,advice pls

Oh my...Forgiveness is surely the first step, you can get contacts of counselling centers. Rape victims usually still suffer long term issues.

i have a similar case, m confuse also...

Hmmmmmm. Thats traumatization. Try 2 go for psychological help

pls i need good reply thanks

Daughterzion:
Hmmmmmm. Thats traumatization. Try 2 go for psychological help

i would love to talk to her myself,what are the things i can say or ask her to heal her emotionally

ur gal ws raped at age 15.....twice!
now sex is not her thing...even tho u guys ve had sex b4..


and tis affecting ur relationship cos she doesnt moan during sex ba? she doesnt make u feel like u re doing any work...is dt it?


well, b4 u guys ve sex just pray...lalasticalala does it and it works.

nokiaba3:
i would love to talk to her myself,what are the things i can say or ask her to heal her emotionally

am not a psychologist na. Only 1 knows d best thing to say to ha.
But wait o. Can u give us more details on how she was raped. Cos u know some girls bring that crime upon themselves.

Awwww. Plsss be patient with her.

DDeliverer:
ur gal ws raped at age 15.....twice!
now sex is not her thing...even tho u guys ve had sex b4..


and tis affecting ur relationship cos she doesnt moan during sex ba? she doesnt make u feel like u re doing any work...is dt it?


well, b4 u guys ve sex just pray...lalasticalala does it and it works.

she moans....if you wanna joke pls go to joke section

nokiaba3:
she moans....if you wanna joke pls go to joke section

oh..she moans.
can u tell us how does it?

bros abeg no vex...

but try prayer na...

I knw what her thing is at the moment...just forget abt thrusting her, use ur hands and mouth to do the wonders and tell her you will no longer have se*x with her. It will send another type of msg to her brains that would nutralize the truama.....physics is good oo...i do find solution to everything easily, though many wont believe this my solution.

nokiaba3:
so i have been dating dis girl for a while nw,the problem is she told me she is a rape victim,she said she was raped twice at d age of 15 although have had sex with her but she told me she doesnt enjoy sex dat sex is nt her thing since her first experience wasnt fun, how do i talk her out of her traumatized state cos its affecting our relationship. sorry for my typo,advice pls

. STORY 4 GOD. I USE TO BLIV DEM LADIES B4 ON SUCH STORIES, UNTIL I FOUND OUT DEY ARE USING TO DECIEVE GUYS SO AS NOT TO SEE DEM BAD OR INQUIRE ABOUT MOST OF THEIR PAST RECKLESS LIVE.

Awww, really feel for the girl. I once dated a girl who was also raped at 17yrs and couldn't enjoy sex unless it was rough (like rape). Got tired of slapping her around and called it quits
Hope you're emotionally stronger than me...

hhuuu That's a pity

Please don't break her heart 'cos she'll will just give up on love
**Did you ask her about the demon who did the act I think that its good you know If you're going to marry her...

Nigeria's Law states that LIFE IMPRISONMENT is the punishment for underage rape BUT its a lie those judges will give them #200,000 bail OR 5yrs Imprisonment For destroying someone's life......Rubbish.

mecussey:
I knw what her thing is at the moment...just forget abt thrusting her, use ur hands and mouth to do the wonders and tell her you will no longer have se*x with her. It will send another type of msg to her brains that would nutralize the truama.....physics is good oo...i do find solution to everything easily, though many wont believe this my solution.

thanks bro