My girlfriend confessed to me that she used to date a married man because of money. She cut off the relationship when she met me. The man is richer than I am. If it's just a casual fling I won't be bothered but, our relationship is very serious and is pointing towards marriage.

My worry is if her act will come back to haunt us knowing how grave adultery is.

You should go for counselling because with your mindset on these issues, you will create a big mess of your marriage in future should any little problem occur in it both in your business or delay in conceiving. You will blame it all on her.
You need a serious work on your psych and mindset before deciding to move on with her. You also may have been sleeping with small small married girls oblivious that they are married.
Sometimes NOT KNOWING is less harmful but honesty is the best.
Good luck.

hey bruv, its nothin new in nigeria. 95% of the girls are into married men.

Tell dat ur girlfriend, "wat goes around, comes around" she will sow wat she has reap, in time to come, dat is to say, wen she fully settle down, dats how other "small girls" will be dating her own husband, it is a law of karma, frm time in memoria.

ladies be ruining their own relationship since 0001BC, dude she loves u that's why she told u, she didn't know it'll take a turn against her like this..
she might have changed..

#justsaying!

My friend don't waste ur time

You shouldn't judge her tho, at least she opened up to you. Shows that she's willing to let go of her past rendezvous. If she has stopped, pls forgive her. Some girls have done worse and would just hide it from you.

u are doomed.....

@ chocolateme , Inasmuch as I try to wave it off my mind it finds it's way back. I hope counseling will counter the effect. One thing is I admire her honesty and courage to let it out and never ceased to love her more.
BTW I've never laid any small small married girls .
Thanks for the advice.

@ IVORY2009 , I bet she knows.

@ lekjons yea, she does.

@ ladyF, I've forgiven her and also begged God to forgive her too. The irony here is I despise women that hook up with married men not knowing that mine was one.

You should be happy she told you. Every1 got a past. Even though I don't support dating married men. Dump her at your own risk, and watch if the new bae tells you truthfully. Na the person wey tell you, u know o! God bless you.

@ SURElee , you're correct. Na person wey tell you you know. Bless you too sister.

The problem now is not about she leaving the man, its now about the mindset.

My candid advice is that you cut the relationship if you are not sure of yourself.

Cos if u go into the relationship deeper and it ends up in marriage, you may still be looking at her in that direction.

Better a broken relationship that a broken or unstable marriage.
Decide