bcblazer:

I wish I understood all the gibberish you wrote.

faakay:

@bcblazer

So What do you want us to do now? hen?

Comot for here jor!

ChuckWoody:

Yo bcblazer, i tried to help ya, and now you're getting blazed from all quarters.

Like I said, no tricks or gimmicks required. All it requires is changing your habit, taking a step back and doing things differently.

Sex will always be there if you really want it. But you said you wanted a proper chick. So take heed, put it away and think with your other head, dawg.

Before it's too late.

My advice is free. No need to pay me.

tope2000:

I so pray he listens to you

Be creative and contribute to the thread productively or just get lots, silly slowpoke!

onyinye2:

Prayer won't help him.

His wake-up call will be a doctor's note stating he is HIV Positive.

bcblazer:

If you don't have anything meaningful to add, why don't you just back the F off this thread?

onyinye2:

Prayer won't help him.

His wake-up call will be a doctor's note stating he is HIV Positive.

St☆rStruck:

You already tired, darl?
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faakay:

Look Boi! You be OYA! Bush RaT! You are FronTing!       Just go and Tie your d**k! Mother DuckeR  

bcblazer:

I'm not tired. You are fired from this thread. You are a pest.

St☆rStruck:

ch. . . do I look like one of "your girls"?

bcblazer:

Of course, not. You can't be. My girls are not "trucks" thinking they are "stars". Those big-sized pear-shaped booties at your rear is what you call "startruck"? Or is it your wide-open pussie with a knocked engine that is your ""star truck"?

Ladies, you girls should be calm and think straight.

St☆rStruck:


Can someone please translate this to English?

bcblazer:

Even an illiterate with learning disabilities will understand my post.

St☆rStruck:

That is because an illiterate with learning disabilities wrote that

topup:

At the original thread poster; then the problem is not with the 'chicks' it's with you. Only you allow into your world what you don't want, only you can control what enters and what leaves.

The answer is simple, you are going to have to work on your fidelity. The more you see women as walking sex-toys, the less you are going to be able to a) control yourself and b) find someone to have a serious relationship.

Anyways, what are your reasons for wanting a serious relationship? Is it your mind that wants one, your body, your soul, because I can tell you I've been in this position before, where the guy convinced himself that what he needed next was a serious relationship, but he soon realised that he wasn't ready for that kind of seriousness.

I'm sure if you genuinely want to find someone special, it will become easier for you - not that you are fighting parts of yourself!!

bcblazer:

I think I'm ready for a serious relationship.

bcblazer:

Dude, you are the man. You just topped it up, Topup!!!
This is what we call reasonable advice. People were here
throwing rocks at me like they are rock fans!!!

bcblazer:

I think I'm ready for a serious relationship. But I'll still be
hitting on girls, of course, not like before and be banging
at my buddie's place without her knowing. It happens
man.

bcblazer:

Dude, you are the man. You just topped it up, Topup!!!
This is what we call reasonable advice. People were here
throwing rocks at me like they are rock fans!!!

I think I'm ready for a serious relationship. But I'll still be
hitting on girls, of course, not like before and be banging
at my buddie's place without her knowing. It happens
man. From this, I don't think you're ready.


Thanks for the advice.

Anymore shall be heartily appreciated, folks!!!

No wonder you loved your previous relationship. It wasn't really a relationship, it was more like two side attractions or appetisers to your life. You were with one and having sidechicks,

I don't know if you're gonna take my advice, but sincerely, you need to change your mindframe, but I can't force you. You have to choose to change.


Another thing is that, you seem proud to admit that, you can't help but sleep around, hit on ladies etc, 

That is not something to be proud of  
I'm not judging you, I'm trying to give you a flash into the future. Don't be one of those guys who in future wishes he could right all his wrongs and mend all the broken hearts.
I don't know what you've been through, but the way you're going about this is not right.

I'm a decent MORE than decent girl, and I wouldn't go out with you.
Now before you go and insult me - think about it.

Decent means:
-Smart - smart enough to see the truth of your infidelity
-Sensible - enough to stay away from you and know what's good, because it ain't all about the sex
-Responsible - enough to do what's right for me, take care of my emotional well-being, not to date someone who is going to mess up my mind and emotions.

If you feel like you're unable to get the girl you want, you have to reassess yourself. Be the type of guy that a decent girl would want, not pretend to be one, BE ONE.

St☆rStruck:

Because unlike Sister Topup, we knew you'll waste our valuable advice.

I'm not a surprised. You ARE a LovePeddler after all.

bcblazer:

StarTRuck,

Are you in love with me?You've been all over me.

bcblazer:

StarTRuck,

See babe, I love with my mind and not with heart,
I've got no passion and don't have no patience, honey.

Can you handle that sweetie?

bcblazer:

But StarTruck,  straighten up, aight? word

davidylan:

it still amazes me how some men find it so easy to treat women like pieces of meat . . . its not a sign of being a big boy you know . . .

topup:

No wonder you loved your previous relationship. It wasn't really a relationship, it was more like two side attractions or appetisers to your life. You were with one and having sidechicks,  

I don't know if you're gonna take my advice, but sincerely, you need to change your mindframe, but I can't force you. You have to choose to change.


Another thing is that, you seem proud to admit that, you can't help but sleep around, hit on ladies etc, 

That is not something to be proud of  
I'm not judging you, I'm trying to give you a flash into the future. Don't be one of those guys who in future wishes he could right all his wrongs and mend all the broken hearts.
I don't know what you've been through, but the way you're going about this is not right.

I'm a decent MORE than decent girl, and I wouldn't go out with you.
Now before you go and insult me - think about it.

Decent means:
-Smart - smart enough to see the truth of your infidelity
-Sensible - enough to stay away from you and know what's good, because it ain't all about the sex
-Responsible - enough to do what's right for me, take care of my emotional well-being, not to date someone who is going to mess up my mind and emotions.

If you feel like you're unable to get the girl you want, you have to reassess yourself. Be the type of guy that a decent girl would want, not pretend to be one, BE ONE.

davidylan:

it still amazes me how some men find it so easy to treat women like pieces of meat . . . its not a sign of being a big boy you know . . .

bcblazer:

Nigga shut the f**k up, you momma's boy-turned- douchebag!!! Go play somewhere.