Why do men cheat? women ask this age long question. there seems to be no answer to this puzzle. women often wonder “with the way i show him so much love me, why did he cheat on me?” Questions, questions and more questions.

When i opened this blog, i never thought i would write about my experiences or affairs but this seemingly putrid question begs for answers. why do men cheat? or rather, why did i cheat on my girlfriend. well, technically, i didn’t really cheat on my girlfriend ( or so i thought), what i thought was a seemingly harmless activity turned out to be much more than i thought. Let me get straight to the point

It started out as a romantic,seemingly harmless outing. I had planned for it to be awesome because we don’t get to see each other during the week due to work engagements.

We where chilling in one joint like that when my girlfriend gently asks me to buy her something to eat,after all, its a joint that serves food and drinks. i made 3 mistakes.

#Mistake 1; I left my phone on the table and i got up to place our order

#Mistake 2; i didn’t change the password to my phone( she obviously knows my password)

#Mistake 3; i shouldn’t have been flirting with any other girl asides from my girlfriend

So, that’s how the abominable happened. I came back to our table to find a very angry looking girl that resembled my girlfriend. I started prodding and asking her what the problem was. She was just shouting in anger that i had let her down and betrayed her., that i don’t respect her and that i should go away. I should have handled the situation with more panache. Needless to say, the manager had to be called in to come sort out our differences.

The question is, why did i cheat? Its not as if i am not in love with my girlfriend, i am. So why did flirt with the other girl? Maybe its because i thought sex-chatting didn’t mean anything. This is because i have never met the other girl. We where just chat buddies online. i knew there was no way we will meet n carry out our nefarious activities but why did i encourage the chat? It doesn’t make sense. How will i feel if the roles were reversed?

I think men cheat because we want to explore other options out there. We want to know if we can still attract girls knowing we are in a relationship. We want to experience the thrill of pursuing and feeling a new girl. This is not good because it makes us selfish, inconsiderate and untrustworthy(am still trying to mend fences with my girlfriend)

I think the way to avoid cheating on your girlfriend is to try and remember what attracted you to her in the first place. Reignite the feeling u had when you first kissed her. Ladies, always try and stay fit. no one likes a ‘has been’… Complement your man, when you guys quarrel, settle it before the break of dawn. Dont get too pushy, give him a little space, we don’t like our girls constantly checking us. That is what makes us cheat in the first place.

Finally, love eachother like you never loved before
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Not all men cheat,but only GOD knows why d ones that cheat,cheats.

Simply bcoz ladies have been cheating right from garden of Eden (eve&serpent)

Not all men cheat buh d ones dat cheat is bcus there r many fish in d sea so dey wuld lyk 2 explore buh dey still av their real gf at mind

Men cheat because of nothing. . . There's no known reason why men cheat. That's all.

Some people said men re polygamous in nature....but this is a lie...men that cheat re fools

its in their DNA

Why do women cheat?

she's ur egusi soup but u wanted to taste ogbono soup...

jworos:
she's ur egusi soup but u wanted to taste ogbono soup...

lol, your head is there

This Na question lingering on us since 140BC
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Buh seriously the real answer is ...promiscuity!

They cheat cos the spirit is simply in them....


No justifiable reason,

eebruboss:
This Na question lingering on us since 140BC
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Buh seriously the real answer is ...promiscuity!

am telling u. we r never satisfied