The greatest ambition of women is marriage.
Women believe once they are married, all their problems are solved and once you are their SUITABLE SUITOR for marriage, only God can save you from them.
They will use all sorts of deceptions in makeup and makeover of their looks and characters to deceive men into unholy marriages. And the weapon they use most is sex and not love.
Women don't love you; they just want to own you.
Every woman wants a man to call her own.
Having a husband is their life insurance. And they will use sex and pregnancy to trap the men they want to marry. And only few men can escape from their deceptions. And lest you forget, no woman keeps all her eggs in one basket.
They always have a Plan B in every master plan for relationship and marriage.
Only very few of them don't have a Plan B as an insurance.
As guys have a side chick, majority of babes also have their own side guy. Of course, two can play.
If you believe any babe who swears that she will never cheat on you, you are a FOOL.
They always have and save a guy for the rainy day.

When they fail to hook and hitch MR RIGHT, they grudgingly settle for MR AVAILABLE as their consolation.
And when you are their MR AVAILABLE, only God can save you from the mood swings and tantrums of their frustrations of losing MR RIGHT. Majority of women often fail to marry MR RIGHT in Nigeria. And that is why majority of them cheat on MR AVAILABLE.
MR AVAILABLE is always in the Plan B of majority of single women, including the so called sisters in Christ who play "holier than thou" to the "runs" babes or club girls.
I have seen girls leaving orthodox churches for the new generation Pentecostal churches in search of MR RIGHT and even swearing "I MUST MARRY THIS YEAR BY PEACE OF BY FIRE".
That is why the Singles Ministry is now a booming business in Nigeria.
The Smart Alec fake pastors simply use probability more than certainty to deceive majority of single women by lying to them that either their sins and evil spirits or witches and wizards are responsible for their delay in marriage and even conjure what they now call "EVIL SPIRIT OF DELAY MARRIAGE" and then recommend that the desperate single women sow fat seed offerings to hook MR RIGHT with fasting and praying.
In fact, there are cases where they even collect thousands of naira to fast and pray for single women and ask them to bring photographs of their target boyfriends for special deliverance prayers.
"That evil spirit, witch or wizard of delay marriage must die this year! Amen!"
"Whoever and whatever is holding back your husband must release him this year! Amen!"
The poor guy may be either jobless or not financially secure for marriage.
They will come up with another verse they can misinterpret and manipulate; "Whosoever findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord." - Proverbs 18:22, King James Version (KJV).
The right sentence should be "He who finds A GOOD WIFE finds a GOOD THING." Because if you find a BAD WIFE, you have not found any GOOD THING, but an EVIL THING.
From the thousands of poverty stricken couples and families in Nigeria, heaven knows they must have made the wrong choices by rushing to marry without being prepared and ready or they married the wrong wives and husbands. Because, anyone "who findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour of the Lord" in marriage should not be begging to pay house rent and school fees!

When the marriage is no more rosy, then you will see women showing their true colours; claws, fangs and all.
Every day, these women must have something to hiss about.
They greet you with more hisses than kisses.
"Darling, what is wrong?"
"Nothing," she would reply in denial. But heaven knows something is definitely wrong.
Nothing is wrong, but she is hissing into her pillow or hissing at the wall as she is backing you in bed.
In most cases, their husbands have either failed or lagging behind in "Keeping up with the Joneses".
And in "Keeping up with the Joneses", the women are in materialistic competition with other women in their greed for status symbols of the social class. And they either cheat on their husbands to get them or lure their husbands into corrupt practices to get rich quick to get them.
When they return to the same pastors with their problems, the pastors will conjure more problems with fake visions of "ENEMIES OF PROGRESS" and blame their woes on innocent people instead of finding out the causes of their financial problems such as academic or professional shortcomings of the couples who don't have the required qualifications or business expertise and experience for the kinds of jobs they must have in "Keeping up with the Joneses".
"We must drive jeep this year!"
"We must build our own duplex!"
Covetousness leads to greediness.

The other true colours show up when the women after wedding, hiss and brush aside all their Mary Kay, Fair & White Gold, Clear Essence, Brazilian Hair, Peruvian Hair, Indian Hair and other fake beauty enhancements they were addicted to when they were desperately hunting for SUITABLE SUITORS for MR RIGHT. They have fought and they have won the battle and so they don't need all these weapons of their warfare again.
You will begin to see the gluttons in them showing up.
They eat their own three square meals and also even eat yours too.
Then, their unhygienic habits show up.
The bedroom, living room and kitchen are so dirty that you wonder if dogs and pigs are now living with you.
Finally, the hour glass and figure 8 that she had and attracted you to her gradually turns to the ugly figure of their true nature; either of a dog or a pig.
She is no longer a delight to sight.
Seeing her UnCloth is now scary and forget about saying sweet dreams with hugs and kisses, because sleeping with her is now a nightmare.
How can a man have sweet dreams sleeping with an elephant in bed?
Oh! Lord, have mercy!
You are trapped.
And this is when you now realize the full meaning of your "FOR BETTER FOR WORSE" wedding vows.
But this is not what you bargained for!
You have been conned!

The smart and wise wives who don't want to lose their husbands are the ones who make sure that they keep and maintain as much as they can the attractive looks and characters that attracted their men to them before marriage. Because, they are afraid that if they fail to do so, they will become unattractive to their husbands. And when you are no longer attractive to your husband, he will go after the woman who is attractive to him.
No sane man will love a woman who looks like a dog or a pig.

Eziokwu? While women are busy not showing their real colours, men are also busy not showing their real STATUS.
meanwhile..

chocolateme:
Eziokwu?

Lool . No fall oo. U no say cloud never clear

Sabrwahaqqo:


Lool . No fall oo. U no say cloud never clear

lol

* sleeping *

on point...u cant blame dem...naija is hard...and the ladies are lazy

I'm reading through this topic using Baba Obasanjor's face and voice, and I day (woman are wonderful talks, the good, bad and the ugly, mostly the once the who never wrote JAMB/UTME yet they has B.Sc/M.Sc in Trouble Making, Quarrel Planning and Implementation) just like mama Abosede.

Some also has professional qualification in how to make husband get involved on compound issues that does not concern them. But they get threatened when there is Singleand beautiful lady with dangerous backside within the compound. Lol, na u talk am o, not me o.

Following

I'm here to learn

*parks my canoe*
orikinla nice one. team baby daddy

Same thing goes to men.. Deep pretenders

Orikinla:
The greatest ambition of women is marriage. Women believe once they are married, all their problems are solved and once you are their SUITABLE SUITOR for marriage, only God can save you from them. They will use all sorts of deceptions in makeup and makeover of their looks and characters to deceive men into unholy marriages. And the weapon they use most is sex and not love. Women don't love you; they just want to own you. Every woman wants a man to call her own. Having a husband is their life insurance. And they will use sex and pregnancy to trap the men they want to marry. And only few men can escape from their deceptions. And lest you forget, no woman keeps all her eggs in one basket. They always have a Plan B in every master plan for relationship and marriage. Only very few of them don't have a Plan B as an insurance. As guys have a side chick, majority of babes also have their own side guy. Of course, two can play. If you believe any babe who swears that she will never cheat on you, you are a FOOL. They always have and save a guy for the rainy day. When they fail to hook and hitch MR RIGHT, they grudgingly settle for MR AVAILABLE as their consolation. And when you are their MR AVAILABLE, only God can save you from the mood swings and tantrums of their frustrations of losing MR RIGHT. Majority of women often fail to marry MR RIGHT in Nigeria. And that is why majority of them cheat on MR AVAILABLE. ....(to be continued).

Hahahaha. Seems you know all their tactics.

Go ahead please

Sommyangel:
Same thing goes to men.. Deep pretenders

Nah. Not all. Some men do not. I do not pretend and most people do appreciate that.

DeeTus:
Nah. Not all. Some men do not. I do not pretend and most people do appreciate that.

u can only speak for yourself

It's not only ladies that have such characteristics. It's a human thing. A lot of men lie to own a woman, some lie about their marital status, their age, just about anything in order to own a woman.
My own personal philosophy in life is that people can only hurt you when you give them the power to. I hardly lose sleep over anyone's bad behaviour no matter how close cos I've come to understand that human beings are flawed.

Sommyangel:
u can only speak for yourself

lol

CONCLUDED.

@Poster: i hail you. You got the truth. Women are so deceit. People if you think women are so great and beautiful with their well painted face with rainbow color,why did you think God didnt take one for himself. Women are a corruption..read your bible.

That is why you should bring her home and Bleep her well well. She will respect you.

Hmm

400billionman:
That is why you should bring her home and Bleep her well well. She will respect you.

That is what I do now.

mencade4:
*parks my canoe*

orikinla nice one. team baby daddy

Mencade you don born. ?

Sommyangel:
Same thing goes to men.. Deep pretenders

There are more straightforward men than women. Infact for someone like me, women are the reasons i ever tried becoming a player..

Ladies are the problem. Its worse when its marriage time. Their parents tell them times are hard but they dont want to hear that from the man she is about dating.

So smart guys will be deceiving her with N1,000 weekly as tips One guy man will leave only N2,000 in his account and give her ATM card and PIN to go and withdraw from his account. Making her feel in control. The girl will be smiling from ear to ear.

I hope guys are learning.

400billionman:
That is why you should bring her home and Bleep her well well. She will respect you.

Bro I have been trying to get your attention.
We need to talk

Connoisseur:


Bro I have been trying to get your attention.
We need to talk

You have mail.

400billionman:


You have mail.

Seen bro

Could you edit the mention

Well that's why its marriage. The truth is that we must still learn many things about our partners in the marriage and not before it.

Lets take marriage to be a course(economics) in uni. Before admission you may know the basics of economics (demand, opportunity cost, etc) thanks to second sch, not until u get into the uni u meet a whole new stuff about the same course(taxation, debt, production, cobb-douglas, public finance and so on) .....

Now left for you to learn, study hard and pass.

Front page tins

400billionman:


There are more straightforward men than women. Infact for someone like me, women are the reasons i ever tried becoming a player. One girl messed my heart up when i was a virgin, then i turned player and bleeped 50 girls in 5 years as revenge.

Ladies are the problem. Its worse when its marriage time. Their parents tell them times are hard but they dont want to hear that from the man she is about dating.

So smart guys will be deveiving her with N1,000 weekly as tips One guy man will leave only N2,000 in his account and give her ATM card and PIN to go and withdraw from his account. Making her feel in control. The girl will be smiling from ear to ear.

I hope guys are learning.

so we should give you a golden di.ck award for bleeping 50 ladies in five years abi??


see what my guy is boasting about!!!

smh....

Thank you so much Op! Very insightful, I must confess!

Women of this modern time are so full of deceit, especially here in our society!

A man who marries a "bad wife" may never live long to tell his story!

LORD have mercy upon us Your children (Amen)!