Overtime, we have seen people cry over what they could have avoided. We have seen young girls and boys become sorry site after a few months into a relationship, just because they refuse to do what was necessary.Never enter a relationship to change someone. Infact, I don't know if humans can change another, but your

ability to "change" another persons ends the day your union becomes a relationship. Whatever that needs to be done, must be done. Whatever that needs to be corrected, must be corrected, before the relationship starts.

The worst place to try and "change" someone is the context of relationship. Anything you see him do now, if not properly corrected, he will do it to even ten times over, if he doesn't change from it BEFORE the relationship. Those her habits will stick with her as long as you are both now emotionally attached.

The right time to influence people is before the relationship starts. If he wants you, he will pay the sacrifice to dislodge that which will jeopardize your happiness.

Dating someone is telling the person, I appreciate all that you possess and I love you the way you are. Hence, the person sees no need to change from any habit or character. So, before you venture into the next relationship, be sure that the character the person possesses now is what you are going to live with, if you have reservations over a few, let the person make CONSTANT DELIBERATE efforts in changing from them FIRST.

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human beings are complicated

This is a nonsensical thread

that doesn't mean partners should not be corrected though

So much Gospel on relationship...


I wonder when practice will start...

Bottom line : look before you leap, marry your ideal partner And don't put your hope on giving them a new definition.

It's possible to change someone if the bond is strong cos both parties will want to make things work out.
Op, love changeth things

hbpeze:
This is a nonsensical thread

cant make head or tail of the write up.

itstpia8:


cant make head or tail of the write up.

So you do actually comment and don't just make dots (.) on threads Hi,and good morning.

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