lol, countless times still now, i still just wonder why

BirdOfParadise:
I have been stalked by a man who I ve never met and he was sending me messages that he was going to marry me.
He kept sending me annoying messages with random numbers and told me he would show up at my house with his family and I had no choice but to marry him.
I eventually had enough. I warned him to keep his distance, then I changed my phone number for good.
Have you ever been stalked? Please feel free to share your experiences on here. Cheers.

you didnt complete it.. what happened next

broxymall:
lol, countless times still now, i still just wonder why

tell me about one experience.

broxymall:

you didnt complete it.. what happened next

he couldn't call or text me anymore, that was the end of Solomon Grundy!

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Dunno why my lying memory is taking tym to boot

sinaj:
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Dunno why my lying memory is taking tym to boot

You wanna lie baby? Don't even dare!

BirdOfParadise:
he couldn't call or text me anymore, that was the end of Solomon Grundy!

why didnt you give in?

broxymall:

why didnt you give in?

A man who I ve never met, spooky as ever, his phone never rings when I try calling any of the numbers he sends me texts with. He was a mental case. Said he was divorced and had kids.

Chiadikaobi:
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have not experienced such tho.........but am still wondering what this FP is all about

It's debilitating, and scary 'cause you're always expecting the worst, and in a constant state of worry that leads to bouts of fear. Learn the art of self defense, and how to 'play' with pocketknives, pepper-spray, and firearms. Increase your security. Let people know (friends, family, etc). Inform the authorities, if possible. Cut off all contact with said stalker, and keep account.

hmmmm

a man stoop so low just to fraternize with you,and you're forming?,doesnt show courtesy...................when you must gotten to 30,thats when u will know how imperative the stalking is to you.........

OMG, scariest experience ever. It started with never ending phone calls after I broke up with him. One minute he'd call just to call me the most horrible names. Telling me he never loved me. Yanno, hurtful things. Next thing, 5 minutes later, he'd call to apologise & to tell me he still loved me. Other days he'd call only to go off on me & tell me he never wants to speak to me again. Days later I'd get a call with him telling me not to get too big headed, he still didn't wanna speak to me, only wanted to hear my voice. That's when I started to notice he was volatile emotionally & that maybe I should change my number. When I changed my number that's when he started showing up in person, scaring the hell out of me one night when he appeared behind a tree. It was really late at night & I was from my waitressing job. He said he wanted to make sure I didn't bring men from work. This guy did everything you can think of, including stealing my clothes from the washing line. I don't have proof he did it but the jeans & top that were missing were what I wore when we 1st met. So yeah, I still suspect he did it. I still shudder when I think about what he might have done with the clothes. Did he wear them? Ha! Anyway, I just had to get a protection order & moved in with a friend just to feel safe from the nut.

Mehnnn! Don't wish for anyone to go through this kind of stuff,its so scarry!

Back in school a guy called my phone and started threatening me about having nacked pictures of me and a man and how he was going to paste them all over school,I was like One of the most confusing time of my life...

I was asked questions like did you send nacked pics to someone,got drunk with some guy,was rude to a chyker,or mayb was fooling around with my friends and took nacked pics and now they are using it against me
Long story sha!
Today its just a story!

Damn did you ever hear from him again after the protection order? Must have been scary lol some dudes are seriously tripping

PunkyVeer:
OMG, scariest experience ever. It started with never ending phone calls after I broke up with him. One minute he'd call just to call me the most horrible names. Telling me he never loved me. Yanno, hurtful things. Next thing, 5 minutes later, he'd call to apologise & to tell me he still loved me. Other days he'd call only to go off on me & tell me he never wants to speak to me again. Days later I'd get a call with him telling me not to get too big headed, he still didn't wanna speak to me, only wanted to hear my voice. That's when I started to notice he was volatile emotionally & that maybe I should change my number. When I changed my number that's when he started showing up in person, scaring the hell out of me one night when he appeared behind a tree. It was really late at night & I was from my waitressing job. He said he wanted to make sure I didn't bring men from work. This guy did everything you can think of, including stealing my clothes from the washing line. I don't have proof he did it but the jeans & top that were missing were what I wore when we 1st met. So yeah, I still suspect he did it. I still shudder when I think about what he might have done with the clothes. Did he wear them? Ha! Anyway, I just had to get a protection order & moved in with a friend just to feel safe from the nut.

cruzyteejay:
have not experienced such tho.........[s]but am still wondering what this FP is all about[/s]

you ve said the necessary, the rest is irrelevant. Thanks

uche92:
Damn did you ever hear from him again after the protection order? Must have been scary lol some dudes are seriously tripping

This happened more than 10 years ago but he still bothers me every now & then. Not very often though, only when he hasn't taken medication I guess. He does it on Facebook since he doesn't have my number. I've since blocked him even there.

EnlightenedSoul:
It's debilitating, and scary 'cause you're always expecting the worst, and in a constant state of worry that leads to bouts of fear. Learn the art of self defense, and how to 'play' with pocketknives, pepper-spray, and firearms. Increase your security. Let people know (friends, family, etc). Inform the authorities, if possible. Cut off all contact with said stalker, and keep account.

Good point. But for those who can't access "firearms"....

Kingsley1000:
a man stoop so low just to fraternize with you,and you're forming?,doesnt show courtesy...................when you must gotten to 30,thats when u will know how imperative the stalking is to you.........

Kindly shut your trap. Love, likeness or "fraternity" is not a do-or-die affair. You sound chauvinistic.

PunkyVeer:
OMG, scariest experience ever. It started with never ending phone calls after I broke up with him. One minute he'd call just to call me the most horrible names. Telling me he never loved me. Yanno, hurtful things. Next thing, 5 minutes later, he'd call to apologise & to tell me he still loved me. Other days he'd call only to go off on me & tell me he never wants to speak to me again. Days later I'd get a call with him telling me not to get too big headed, he still didn't wanna speak to me, only wanted to hear my voice. That's when I started to notice he was volatile emotionally & that maybe I should change my number. When I changed my number that's when he started showing up in person, scaring the hell out of me one night when he appeared behind a tree. It was really late at night & I was from my waitressing job. He said he wanted to make sure I didn't bring men from work. This guy did everything you can think of, including stealing my clothes from the washing line. I don't have proof he did it but the jeans & top that were missing were what I wore when we 1st met. So yeah, I still suspect he did it. I still shudder when I think about what he might have done with the clothes. Did he wear them? Ha! Anyway, I just had to get a protection order & moved in with a friend just to feel safe from the nut.

sorry you had to go through all of that dear. He sounds psycho I dare say! Yours was better, atleast you knew him. Mine was a complete stranger who gave me a fake name and picture.

BirdOfParadise:
you ve said the necessary, the rest is irrelevant. Thanks

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Ebiz12:
Mehnnn! Don't wish for anyone to go through this kind of stuff,its so scarry!

Back in school a guy called my phone and started threatening me about having nacked pictures of me and a man and how he was going to paste them all over school,I was like One of the most confusing time of my life...

I was asked questions like did you send nacked pics to someone,got drunk with some guy,was rude to a chyker,or mayb was fooling around with my friends and took nacked pics and now they are using it against me
Long story sha!
Today its just a story!

Awwww! Thank God it's all over now and you can breathe freely.

runzlord:

Please kindly vote for me here https://mobile.twitter.com/runzlord/status/639602054546255872?p=v
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It a a palm selfie contest by samsung.

Stop this at once...!

sinaj:
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Dunno why my lying memory is taking tym to boot

Long tym bae...where af u been

I had a few FB stalkers too, I left there for them. I can imagine what you went through.

PunkyVeer:


This happened more than 10 years ago but he still bothers me every now & then. Not very often though, only when he hasn't taken medication I guess. He does it on Facebook since he doesn't have my number. I've since blocked him even there.

BirdOfParadise:
sorry you had to go through all of that dear. He sounds psycho I dare say! Yours was better, atleast you knew him. Mine was a complete stranger who gave me a fake name and picture.

Yeah, yours is scary as hell. He sounds delusional. Funny thing about going through something like this is that, it makes you very paranoid. Makes you believe that everyone is capable of it. It took me time to trust again after him because I looked at every man as a ticking time bomb.

I met a guy while coming from the store the other day. He offered to give me a lift but I declined because something "felt" crazy about him. Anyway, I've seen him a couple more times after that & he always waves or say something. Now my suspicions have sky rocketed, because I'm not sure if he is following me or it's just a coincidence. Yesterday I saw him again but pretended not to see him but of course he saw me & had to say something as usual. Sometimes I think I have a crazy people magnet. If they're insane, chances are, I'm going to meet them somehow. From flashers to the mentally unstable. It makes dating very scary.

Kingsley1000:
a man stoop so low just to fraternize with you,and you're forming?,doesnt show courtesy...................when you must gotten to 30,thats when u will know how imperative the stalking is to you.........

Lolz....like seriously ....
so stalking is now a sort award winning behaviour in nigeria,so to marry now shuld be tru stalking...lolz
So getting married to a complete stranger who is stalking one now is d trend....i cnt stop laffing
Hahahaha....some nigerian men are just d most fvckedup set of people on earth....lolz.



Punkyveer come and see wat I just saw this early mawnin

BirdOfParadise:
Awwww! Thank God it's all over now and you can breathe freely.

I'm really grateful for that,thanks

misspicy:

Lolz....like seriously ....
so stalking is now a sort award winning behaviour in nigeria,so to marry now shuld be tru stalking...lolz
So getting married to a complete stranger who is stalking one now is d trend....i cnt stop laffing
Hahahaha....some nigerian men are just d most fvckedup set of people on earth....lolz.



Punkyveer come and see wat I just saw this early mawnin

It's disturbing, isn't it? Smh. Thank God authorities are starting to take stalking very serious. People with his mentality will soon be taught no means no. Frankly speaking, I think they have mental issues. Where's the pride when you do weird things just to get the attention of someone that doesn't want you? That's madness.