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Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 9:55pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
This a true life experience.Lets follow it step by step. 1.Learn to pray as a family:Involve your husband in family prayer.Find a suitable time for this. Once a day is ok.U'll see how he will turn to a good man. 2.Is time to stop Nagging: We nag alot.Either knowingly or unknowingly.U need to learn how to stop.My car was grounded on a friday,so I joined my colleagues and both were males. On our way,they were busy planning how to spend d weekend and avoid dr nagging wives. Once u push dm outside,it's had to bring them back. 3.Be their best companion:Pay attention when they complain of a particular thing don't ignore or overlook it.Or when they look for listening ears,always be there for them. 4.Learn how to Seduce Ur Hubby: Ladies this is very important. Men love to be seduced.dont leave them to those single girl out there.After all,the man married U and not them.There was a day my hubby's friend were calling him to hangout with them,guess what I did I've to UnCloth myself and suggest we bath together,after that,good sex and my hubby slept off.I just put off his phone so that they will not wake him and that is the trick I 've been using often. 5.Learn to forgive:Is very difficult to forgive and forget.Most times,we forgive but from time to time we still judge him from d past mistakes.I was once thinking of divorce but the truth is that even the holiest of all men can still cheat on U or do worst things. 6.Limit young girls visiting ur home.Except if they are related to ur hubby or the lady has a good upbringing. Most men lack self control.Help them by not leading them into temptation. 7.Limit the services of househelp.Dont let househelps cook for ur hubby,wash his boxers or make his bed or clean his room.No matter how busy u are.Do it by urself. Even if househelp will do it,let it be at their absence. 8.Avoid involving 3rd Party:If ur hubby wrong u in any way,please confront him.3rd party always worsen d whole issue.U can text him if u can't talk to him.But don't allow d issue to linger more dn a day without sorting it out. Always pray before u take any drastic action.My 8yrs marriage was on the verge of collapsing before I started practising d listed points above. Marriage Is not a bed of roses but we can make it better.And remember that two wrongs don't make a right. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:02pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
What if she dusnt want to get the man back? 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by yvelch(f): 10:07pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by HyDee001(m): 10:08pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
ahnie:Then we would need another thread titled: Men, It's time to get your woman back 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by kossyablaze(m): 10:11pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
Tell dem 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:12pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:14pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
What if He dusnt wanna get her back. HyDee001: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 10:20pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
ahnie: It's time to claim what is rightfully ours |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by HyDee001(m): 10:23pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
ahnie:Okay. That's serious now. This is the final option. If it does not work, shikena. We would need a thread titled: kids, it's time to get your parents back together. |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by lilmax(m): 10:25pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:26pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
What if the parents dusn't want to get back together? HyDee001: |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 10:28pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:29pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
Holy' holy halleluyah...sister e je' ka gba adura oluwa ooo,oruko jesus Cece23:Bae leave matter. |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by HyDee001(m): 10:33pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
ahnie:The will of the children would often prevail. They are the proof of the bond that exists between the couple, irrespective of their separation. If they won't come back together for the sake of their selves or for the sake of their children, then nothing can make them to. |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:35pm On Sep 11, 2015 |
Then that settles it. HyDee001: 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by nnamdibig(m): 4:35am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Marriage no be beans oooo If a woman can do all these, why will the man cheat on her or even hurt her? |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 5:05am On Sep 12, 2015 |
nnamdibig:because most men are born to cheat.its in dia Dna.i'ope i am not soundin like a feminist? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by cococandy(f): 5:23am On Sep 12, 2015 |
ahnie: No you're not. Men being born to cheat and their wives putting up with bullshyt, grinding n bearing and following the steps in all these orisirisi lists to win back someone who has no respect for them is more non-feminist ideology than feminist. It is more feminist to believe that not all men are bad hence no need to die in a relationship where your respect as a person is non existent whereas you can get such from some other good man elsewhere. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 6:14am On Sep 12, 2015 |
cococandy: Marriage is never a bed of roses. Thats why there is a clause "For better for worse".Provided d man is not violent,he will may change. |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Rukkydelta(f): 6:52am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Marriage = bed of problems |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
ahnie:babes ure soo correct! Dats wat I always say! Ladies shuld hav it @ d back of their minds so dey won't de of HBP wen dey find out! |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by DrObum(m): 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Why is it that similar things always happen to me esp on NL. Ok, let's see how it goes. 1. I enter Nairaland and move into the family section to see nice threads. 2. I see a thread on marriage, and I'm like 'what's it again?' 3. I read through the comments and I always see the outpourings of some bitter females. 4. Only God knows what men have done / not done to these ladies, but maybe we should apologise on behalf of the men folk cos your every thread rantings about men's alleged infidelity and so on doesn't make you look good. 5. I comment and go with my peace and somebody whom I didn't name mentions me in their comment. 6. I reply the comment and the mention and then I get a new e-friend. |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by EfemenaXY: 7:23am On Sep 13, 2015 |
cococandy: Well said Coco. HyDee001: Now this, I would like to see. |
Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by raydatluvs(m): 7:58pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
What the flip do ladies nowadays take men for!!! creeps me so much. Oh my!!! We are not weaklings for God's sake |
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