raumdeuter:


A lot of single men. More than you only can handle.

Why don't you share? Are you trying to tie him down? Nothing would concern you about his life or where he stays

It would just be casual sexx and no relationship. Just hookup for sex and go your own way. Both parties are going to get tested and always use protection so no disease risk

Are you game?

cococandy:
I'm not game.
One man don do me for now.

raumdeuter:


Hmm so are you not modern, Are you also brainwashed into desiring a secured relationship vs casual flings? Are you also being conned into not wanting a casual relationship

raumdeuter:


Does the modern liberated woman still care about slu.t shaming? I thought those are for brainwashed people. Some women dont want relationship thats not news Surely there would be some deviant people in a population

But the truth is ANYWHERE in the world, Women desire marriage and they do so at a higher rate than men. It has nothing to do with culture of a certain country, Its the genetic make up

Men would always desire casual sexx more than females whether they are 15, 40 or 75yrs old. And women would always desire a secured relationship preferably marriage

On the Ashley madison website for cheaters have you seen the ratio of male to female?

lilmax:
smh, as usual women without substance

Jamean:
I was speaking with someone yesterday and she questioned when I was gonna get married...followed by..''isn't the guy ready''

My response...''So once a guy is ready to marry the lady too by defaults becomes ready? Doesn't the woman have a calendar plan and timing for her life, a time to marry and achieve other things Will you just marry and halt your life while the man continues with his old syllabus

He is ready doesn't mean I am, its either he waits till I am or we reach a compromise.

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tpiander:


if he is ready to marry and you are not, why should he wait?

Just free him and then you can marry at your leisure.

Jamean:


If he is ready to marry and I am not, why should I rush

tpiander:

if he is ready to marry and you are not, why should he wait?
Just free him and then you can marry at your leisure.

Jamean:


You modified your post after I quoted you to include a second question....people like you are the ones who modify their classwork with the teachers correction and accuse the teacher of not marking correctly.

Man of substance, element and gas

Valeree:

off point..

tpiander:


that's my point.

why not call off the relationship so you can both move along with your plans, if you aren't on the same page as regards marriage.

NashvilleTN:


Bukatyne, I do agree with you. Since the days of Adam, man has learned to blame everyone else but himself.

The OP's message is counter-intuitive. Women are desperate to get married, yet they are conned into marriage. I would have thought the desperate person should be conning the less desperate.

I have read all sorts of theories on this forum but it seems that people choose to argue whichever suits them at a point in time. Women generally marry older and richer guys; not 100% of the time but most times and I do not think that has changed. I am not sure who is conning who but men and women generally should not rush into marriage.

OP presents the case as if it's only women that are unhappy in their marriages. There are lots of unhappy men in their marriages too. In fact if one partner is extremely unhappy, there is no way the other can be very happy unless they truly hate each other.

And come to think of it, there is no marriage in this world where things were perfect from day 1 to year 60, go ask anyone. Life itself is full of challenges and how we react to them is what matters most. Settling and living with one person the rest of your life will always be challenging and there will always be some unhappy moments. The fact that a marriage is having problems today does not mean they were never happy or they would never be happy again. But marriage shouldn't be a nightmare though.

raumdeuter:


Are you game? If you are. Just let us know and I would alert the guy to contact you and he would give me updates

Modern woman wanted. That hasnt been brainwashed, no marriage intention Kindly signify

Mindfulness:


So why do men marry? Why did you marry? Did your wife con you?
Men have held far more power than women for thousands of years and yet they have not abolished an institution that runs counter their needs? It doesn't make sense, does it? Did they do it for the love of women, out of altruism? Did women force or con men into marrying them for thousands of years? Did men do it to do women a favor? Why didn't men abolish the institution if it isn't what they actually want?

Mindfulness:


So why
Men have held far more power than women for thousands of years and yet they have not abolished an institution that runs counter their needs? It doesn't make sense, does it? Did they do it for the love of women, out of altruism? Did women force or con men into marrying them for thousands of years? Did men do it to do women a favor? Why didn't men abolish the institution if it isn't what they actually want?

crackhaus:

Abeg no vex, are you male or female?

I need to understand how any man/woman who lives on earth can ask me that question.



Let's ask Sambarry, I have a feeling she can explain how women con men into marriage...and no, getting pregnant is only just a more drastic tactic...women have learnt to be much more subtler than that.

bukatyne:


What has modernity got to do with interest in marriage or lack of it?

babygirlfl:


This problem plays itself out again and again. People using their definition or thought of something to attach people they think represent that. I am yet to see any modern woman that said she does not want a committed relationship because she is modern. There is a clear difference between " I don't want a committed relationship because I am modern" and " I am a modern woman and I also don't want a committed relationship." Someone having two attributes is different from saying people with one attribute must always have the other.