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Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 6:59am On Sep 14, 2015 |
I need advice My husband of 7 years cheats without any resspect for me . He sleeps outside almost every night. N yet prays and call God the loudest. What can i do |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Cutehector(m): 7:01am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Report to ur pastor or priest... |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:01am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Why are you still with him? |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:07am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Cutehector:Done that he does mot care |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:08am On Sep 14, 2015 |
[quote author=PunkyVeer post=37988869]Why are you still with him? [/quote We have three kids What am i to do pick them up and leave |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:09am On Sep 14, 2015 |
there is nothing u can do, just pray to GOD |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:10am On Sep 14, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:what kind of heartless question is this? 1 Like |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Cutehector(m): 7:11am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Milla247:mehn dats so bad... Its so so pathetic.. Wat abt d kids? |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Gboliwe: 7:16am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Milla247: https://www.nairaland.com/2354889/please-save-me-myself-husband/11#34398233 My advice, follow his footsteps and even outdo and outpray him |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:22am On Sep 14, 2015 |
[quote author=Milla247 post=37989036][/quote] Erm, yes, unless of course you enjoy being disrespected & disregarded. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:23am On Sep 14, 2015 |
softapples: It's self-explanatory. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:25am On Sep 14, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:ure telling her to leave her marraige. "dats not good a good advice |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:28am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Milla247:I dey come |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:30am On Sep 14, 2015 |
softapples: It's no longer a marriage when one partner disregards his vows & everything marriage stands for. One of the vows is- forsaken all others. Now tell me, would you advise your own sister to stay in such a sham of a marriage? |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by misspicy(f): 7:32am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Pray about it and stop worrying ursef,only God can stop him....make sure u protect ursef against stds....female condom is adviseable |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:36am On Sep 14, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:YES I WILL ADVICE MY SISTER to stay in the marriage, no man is a saint, everyone makes mistakes, u dnt leave ur marriage bcaus ur partner cheats on you, its ur job to know why he cheated, what happened? is it ur fault or not, and report him to someone he respects and listens to and above all pray to GOD. "moreover u have kids together. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:44am On Sep 14, 2015 |
softapples: Well, I don't subscribe to that school of thoughts, fortunately. Lol @ know why he cheated, what happened. It doesn't take rocket science to figure that one out. Marriage is a contract between two people, where each swears to abide by its laws, so when one is in breach, it's no longer valid imo. Kids or not, that's not the reason to stay in a situation you're disrespected in. A kid is better be from a broken home than be raised in one. 2 Likes |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 7:58am On Sep 14, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:Maybe i have been forgiving him easily Cos he acts so Is not what i did or not do Even if we finish having sex He can stand up go to club n Bleep another person I tink am losing my mind Which horrible mistake did i make I look at my kids n i weep He would beg postrate m all n i would forgive next min he off for days wit diff girls Yet condems people n calls God loudest I wonder y God is blind to all this |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 8:05am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Milla247: I feel for you my sister. But maybe it's time to put your thinking cap & big girl panties on & think about how of this you're willing to take. Your happiness as an individual is important too. Never forget that. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by AfroKnight: 8:07am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Hmmm. How do we correct a man who does all that and acts so religious? He won't listen to just anybody. Sister, if he's parents are still alive please involve them. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 8:10am On Sep 14, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:Decided to turn a blind eye till this year end At least mayb i could figure tins out Ve left him to his God Even if i relocate abroad Three kids no joke Pls i need advice |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 8:14am On Sep 14, 2015 |
AfroKnight:He does not listen to any of them On our annivary last year he was in a hotel bleeping someelse Am i crazy or is this shit normal U need to see where his begging. Omg |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by AfroKnight: 8:21am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Milla247: If he won't listen to his parents then I think you should leave him before he infects you with STI (God forbid). His behaviour is risky and sex is always safe. Talk to your lawyer. He won't stop cos he enjoys it and believes you would always accept his apology. Protect yourself sis. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 8:28am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Milla247: Sigh. In my language we say, an elephant's trunk is never too heavy for the elephant to carry, so I'm sure you'll manage somehow. There's light at the end of the tunnel. You're not the 1st to go through something like this & you sure aren't the last. You just have to know your worth as a person & teach people how to treat you by not letting them walk all over you like a doormat. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 8:32am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Have you tried going for counselling? Truth is this is not normal. He does this and prays to God (for forgiveness I guess). It's a weakness on his part and you would have to help him overcome it. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 8:54am On Sep 14, 2015 |
qwerty123qwerty:Help him how Lol. When i talk it would b am nagging so i shut..so i dont talk and his amaZed how come... This somebody who had nothing and we built it up... The betrayal is deep. |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 10:09am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Milla247:You did not answer my first question. Have you guys tried marriage counselling? Get an expert to help. I think he's struggling with the addiction. As his wife, I think you are in the best position to help him (or help him get help). 1 Like |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 10:44am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Whats his aim of calling God, to look like a good faultless holy man or is it a habit Anyway, call him to order, confront him about the cheating issue, that's if you are very sure he is. If no changes, you may have to involve his family. Still, if he doesn't change, the final decision to continue with him or not is in ur hands |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 11:31am On Sep 14, 2015 |
qwerty123qwerty:Yes we have done Even gone for mfm deliverance. Well he went only one day The one we went for the pastor was saying not taking it seriously Am tired of thinking its my fault |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 12:15pm On Sep 14, 2015 |
Milla247: Its not your fault jare. He is doing what he likes doing. The only thing i see is that you sef need deliverance to live an enjoyable life. 1 Like |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Mznaett: 12:32pm On Sep 14, 2015 |
Hmm |
Re: Heeeeeelllllp Me Oh by Nobody: 12:34pm On Sep 14, 2015 |
he doesn't respect u? he brings babes home? |
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