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Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by hamzia(m): 9:12am On Sep 18, 2015 |
Cameroonian women and girls whose chests were ironed with hard and heated objects by ther mothers in a traditional practice tell their heartbreaking stories. Breast ironing is the pounding and massaging of a pubescent girl’s breasts, using hot tools, to try to make them stop developing or to disappear. It is typically carried out by family members who are trying to protect the girl from sexual harassment and rape. They hope it will aslo prevent early pregnancy that would tarnish the family name, or to allow the girl to pursue education rather than be forced into early marriage. It is mostly practiced in parts of Cameroon, where boys and men may think that girls whose breasts have begun to grow are ready for sex. The most widely used implement for breast ironing is a wooden pestle normally used for pounding tubers. Other tools used include leaves, bananas, coconut shells, grinding stones, ladles, spatulas, and hammers heated over coals. Cindy, 14 years old; and a wooden spatula that has been used for breast ironing. Photo credit: Gildas Paré “Every morning, before going to school, my mom makes me lift up my top so she can make sure I haven’t taken my bandage off. It’s been two years now and she still checks it on a daily basis. It’s humiliating. I’d like her to stop. When I grow up, I want to be a lawyer or play piano. I hope that wearing this bandage will help me to continue my education.” – Cindy, 14 years old.
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Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by hamzia(m): 9:13am On Sep 18, 2015 |
Jeannette, 28 years old. Photo credit: Gildas Paré “Having breasts was shameful. My grandmother noticed mine when I was 10. One night, she made me lie down on a bamboo bed by the fire. She pressed on me with a hot wooden spatula and tried to flatten them. Even now, I don’t want people to touch my chest.” – Jeannette, 28 years old.
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Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by hamzia(m): 9:14am On Sep 18, 2015 |
Carole B., 28 years old; and berry pits are also used to flatten the breast Photo credit: Gildas Paré “When my breasts started to grow, people in my house began to talk about it. Neighbors, my mom’s friends, our elders. So much talking! Even I started to feel ashamed because people were talking about it. Eventually, my mom decided to iron my breasts. ‘If we don’t iron them, it will attract men. And we know that men mean pregnancy,’ she said. We needed to kill those breasts, she claimed. She used hot rock on my right boob, then the left, then the right. This went on for weeks. I suppose she meant well. Breasts are what makes a woman beautiful, though. Today, mine are flabby. They can’t even stand.” – Carole B., 28 years old.
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Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by hamzia(m): 9:15am On Sep 18, 2015 |
Carole N., 28 years old. Photo credit: Gildas Paré “They tell you: ‘Don’t scream, it’s for your own good.’ I haven’t had the courage to talk about it to my children yet. Three days ago, my son asked me, ‘Mommy, why do you have small breasts?’ I told him that I didn’t know. I also have a six-year-old daughter. But I’m not ready to talk about it. I would have loved to breastfeed a future president.” – Carole N., 28 years old.
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Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by hamzia(m): 9:16am On Sep 18, 2015 |
Doriane, 19 years old. Photo credit: Gildas Paré “I was eight when my mother told me: ‘Take your top off. Do you have breasts already? When a girl your age has breasts, men look at her.’ I didn’t understand what she was doing. Every day, sometimes three times a day, she would flatten my chest with a hot spatula. She would just say: ‘It’s for your own good.’ It was a nightmare. I noticed that the more she massaged me, the more my breasts grew. When she realized it wasn’t working, she used a rock. That was hell. It felt like my body was on fire. A guidance counselor, who I told everything, tried to talk to my mom and get her to stop. I was happy because I thought it was over. But she did it again—with heated fruit pits this time. She massaged and massaged. I packed my stuff and moved to my aunt’s immediately. Sometimes, I try to understand my mother’s actions. It hurts so much when I look at myself in the mirror.” – Doriane, 19 years old.
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Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by Nobody: 9:19am On Sep 18, 2015 |
NSOGBU DEY O |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by QueenEdna(f): 9:26am On Sep 18, 2015 |
African's are truly backward, thank GOD 4 civilization.... |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by osaslord500(m): 9:38am On Sep 18, 2015 |
QueenEdna: You are ryt. BTW nice butts u gat. 1 Like |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by jaelz(m): 9:41am On Sep 18, 2015 |
omo if them still won rape them dem go rape them no be bobby dem dey rape nah bah bobby rapistvdey look before him rape woman |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by majamajic(m): 9:48am On Sep 18, 2015 |
So they won't attract men |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by Cope1(m): 9:59am On Sep 18, 2015 |
make shekau catch them.
I weep for d black race,God help us. |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by QueenEdna(f): 10:19am On Sep 18, 2015 |
osaslord500: |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by Bambless1(m): 11:24am On Sep 18, 2015 |
Nonsense! |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by kprakhid: 11:27am On Sep 18, 2015 |
when will they start ironing pussy |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by kprakhid: 11:37am On Sep 18, 2015 |
I swear I didn't write pussy |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by hamzia(m): 2:56pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
Jeannette, 28 years old. Photo credit: Gildas Paré “Having breasts was shameful. My grandmother noticed mine when I was 10. One night, she made me lie down on a bamboo bed by the fire. She pressed on me with a hot wooden spatula and tried to flatten them. Even now, I don’t want people to touch my chest.†– Jeannette, 28 years old.
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Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
speechless!!! witches masquerading as "mothers". |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by fruityjojo(f): 12:24pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Sweet Jesus |
Re: Mothers Iron Their Daughters Breasts To Protect Them From Rape(explicit Content by tonychristopher: 7:20pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
hamzia: What a hell Why are Africans this backward So this is it ....and its too bad |
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