guys i'm really confused , i caught my 11 years old cousin with another girl in the act of lesbianism , Just this evening i payed them a visit and i didnt meet anyone at home , but d entrance door closed but not locked , i entered and i sat for about 10secs i stood up to get some fresh air at d balcony when i open d door to d balcony what i saw was shockin , i caught her in the act of lesbianism with her friend, now i want to be a good bro, i don't knw if i can tell her parent , but i know life will be a living hell for her if i did..please guys i need your advice

Advice flog de hell out of Her

Flog the living hell out of her and seperate her from that girl... That girl is the problem.. Not her..




Agutan Omo yen ti ba aja rin.. O si ti n je igbe papaa.. Ko ma sa pa lori loku..


Cc. Lalasticlala..

the posters above me have said it all...beat the hell out of her.

So wat would he tell the parents is the reason he beat up their child?

Op, what did you do to her while on d act??that determines the nxt step you should take.

Joevics:
So wat would he tell the parents is the reason he beat up their child?

.. The child will speak up for herself why he beats her.. If she cant talk.. Then thats it..

Joevics:
So wat would he tell the parents is the reason he beat up their child?

God bless u, beating her is just thesame thing as telling her parent.

I hate not dislike the idea af beating . It's even too late to start beating minding that the incident isn't an ongoing process ...

As for me the girl needs help! A 'mammothy' one at that. This issue is like the issue af a sick man who has to shout out loud for help for him to get cured. So, bro just broadcast the message to her parents . They should know how to handle this poo and get their child healed. Be a good cousin

gidjah:
Op, what did you do to her while on d act??that determines the nxt step you should take.

i just advised her, but i'm 100% sure she'll return to that act, cos it luks to me lyk she's addicted alrady.

donwest13:
i just advised her, but i'm 100% sure she'll return to that act, cos it luks to me lyk she's addicted alrady.

You should have beaten her before giving her advice, try and see if you can stop her from seeing the other girl maybe threaten to report to her parent if you see them together again.

At 11;thats really dangerous, if you live close to them, then i shall advice you keep her parents outa this.you must monitor her all day,does she have elder bro, if yes let him also help in doing same,but if not,you might really be the one to help here, if d parents are the noisy/strict typ, then they mit only punish her and leave her at that.she will still go bak to her vomit and will sure get worse.she really needs attention and care.talk to her all day,let her know all that is needed of her to know.once she can open up to u, then u will win her over(that is if you stay close to them),make her your friend and u will save her soul from destruction.If you stay far from them, dat na another talk,you will need to talk to her parents.but she will come to respect you the more,appreciate you the more and open up to you the more if she finds out you can keep he secret.On thE other hand if the parents are pretty intlligent, they can also pretend they werent told by you, they should impove on monitoring her,seperate her from such kind of friends and keep tabs on her, they too should get really interested in her affairs ,show her more love and care,with tim they will win he over.they must not show her they know what she does,but they should just 'CHANGE THE PARADE'and she will begin to sit up, but if they choose to shout about it(just as most of our African parents will often do in such a case like this!),then she will withdraw and change tactics, and they will eventually loose out at last.Good luck

donwest13:
i just advised her, but i'm 100% sure she'll return to that act, cos it luks to me lyk she's addicted alrady.

op the best thing to do is report to her parents.
while growing up, a lot of us were disciplined by our parents, some harshly, some not so harshly, but the fact remains that our parents loved us which is why to a greater extent they disciplined us, and if we are truthful to ourselves we would admit that those disciplinary measures kept us in check and partly helped us develop into the matured(not all o, some have just refused to mature, they need to visit bar-beach for deliverance) human beings we are today. so no matter how this girl's parent will discipline her, they want the best for her, i mean, who wants their child to be a lesbian or even bi-sexual in 9ja?
you just have to tell the parents, cos they will keep a better eye on her than you will ever be able to. how would you feel if that girl clocks 20 and is a full time lesbo, how can you ever look her straight in the eyes or look the parents str8 in the eyes knowing you contributed to their child being a full time graduated lesbo with a degree, practicing since the tender young age of 11, not even a teenager yet sef.

introduce her to more male friends her age,it shud reset her sexual orientation ,it wud b a risk of lesbianism or unwanted preg....devil nd deep blue sea

I think the best you can do is to report her to her parents. please don't cover up for her.

Tell her parents.

ADDICTION is coming, so fight it now.

--Inform her parents.
--Separate her.
--Register her in a mixed school.
--Never encourage her to be a boarder.
--Discipline her with open reasons.
--Set targets for her.
--Scrutinise her movie life.
--Choose new friends for her.
--Register her in an active church activity.
--Be prayerful.

Do not beat her sir. I still maintain that education is the key.

Gently ask her what she thought she was doing. And kindly explain to her how God frown on such act. I don't know the bible quote to back this up but she will appreciate it that you didn't tell her parents.

As a big brother that is now your responsibility to guide her to the right path.

Do not beat her please. I would have recommended a therapist but it will be expensive. It is shocking yes but beating is not the answer

op join them in doing it.your experience is needed

hbpeze:
op join them in doing it.your experience is needed

This is the second mischievouscomment you are making in less than 10 minutes. Shame on you!

Tell d parents o

donwest13:
i just advised her, but i'm 100% sure she'll return to that act, cos it luks to me lyk she's addicted alrady.

You need to report her to her parents so that they can handle her well now that shes still young before she gets older. pls dont hesitate to tell her parents especially her mum so that she can counsel her in a motherly way, tell her the consequence of her action and put the fear of God in her heart. I am a mother and i cant imagine hearimg such thing abt my daughter.

At 11 she is probably in secondary school where these things happen, especially boarding house. At 11 she has probably watched porn and they are acting it out. It could also be that she prefer girls.
The fact is a lot of girls do experiment with the same gender, but it does not necessarily mean they are gay or bi. Maybe lack of readiness for sex with the opposite sex,but high libido?
You should talk to her and find out which phase she is in. If she's a straight up lesbian, you can't do much about it.