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7 Things Not To Tell Your Friend About Your Relationship by Olasco93: 1:29pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
1. Their Past Relationships Never discuss your partner’s past relationships with your friends, it will only lead to ridicule and negativity. Whatever they told you, they told you in confidence hands and they knew it will only stay with you, don’t break Their trust by telling others about it. Only you can make your partner trust you more and you hold that power In your hands as long as you stay quiet about their personal details with others. 2. Complaints If things seem a bit off about your relationship, don’t go off complaining to your friends. If you do this a little Too often, your friends will start telling you to leave the person because they see how sad and miserable You are with them. Whatever problems you’re facing with them, talk to your partner about them and don’t Go complaining to your friends. 3. Comparing Unless you want your friends to think negatively about your partner, don’t compare them to others in front of your friends. We all go through ups and downs in relationships, it doesn’t mean you run off crying to your Friends about how your Ex was so much better. These kind of things don’t go away, they usually travel to your partner somehow and it hurts them when they get to know how badly you talk about them and how Little you try to make your friends respect them. 4. Intimate Details What happens in the bedroom, should stay in the bedroom. Never, and I mean NEVER, let out your intimacy Details to your friends. It’s not only bad if your partner gets to hear it from someone else, it’s just embarrassing. No one wants you to tell them how good or bad the sex is, keep it in the bedroom, only you can make your Friends respect your partner and the intimate details should be kept from even the closest of friends. 5. Fights We all want to go talk to someone when we are down and sad. But it’s probably not a good idea to tell your Friends about your fights, you two will be fine in a few days but your friends will remember the fights and tell You about the fights every now and then. Couples fight, it’s normal, keep it between the two of you, you can’t Trust your friends with the fights you have with your partner. If it’s really that serious, go see a therapist. Anything is better than letting your relationship be an open book to the world! 6. Money Issues Like I said, only you can make your friends respect your partner. The more you talk bad about them behind their Backs, the more it gets difficult for you in the future. If your partner is going through some money issues, don’t go Telling your friends about it. Not only will it make you seem cheap, it will forever make you seem like a gold digger. Whatever it is, talk it out with your partner and not the rest of the world. 7. Their Personal Problems Never discuss their personal life issues with your friends in hopes of getting some positive input on things. If something bad happens in your partner’s family, keep it to yourself because they trusted you with that Information and they think you’ll keep it to yourself. If they somehow find out you told others about them, you Might never be trusted again. Culled from Sunday Idika 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Things Not To Tell Your Friend About Your Relationship by Paragondan: 2:57pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
over to d next person under me |
Re: 7 Things Not To Tell Your Friend About Your Relationship by Maximillian1: 3:03pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
Xo what den do u tell ur friend abt the relationship?? |
Re: 7 Things Not To Tell Your Friend About Your Relationship by Nobody: 4:55pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Things Not To Tell Your Friend About Your Relationship by emitheo(m): 6:05pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
nice 1 |
Re: 7 Things Not To Tell Your Friend About Your Relationship by Adasun(m): 6:24pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
The poster below me tho |
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