1).
Never raise your voice for any
reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
(Prov 15v1)
2).
Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your
family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are
each other's keeper.
(Eph 5v12)
3).
Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to
your husband, you never know how your husband will
interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy
home.
(Prov 15v13)
4).
Never compare your husband to other men, you've
no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his
Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5).
Never ill treat your husband's friends because you
don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid
of them is your husband.
(Prov 11v22)
6).
Never forget that your husband married you, not
your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
(Gen 2v24)
7).
Never assign anyone to give attention to your
husband, people may do everything else but your
husband is your own responsibility.
(Eph 5v33)
.
Never blame your husband if he comes back home
empty handed. Rather encourage him.
(Deut 3v28)
9).
Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is
too precious to be wasted.
10).
Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of
denying your husband s*x. You should give it to him
how he wants it. S*x is very important to Men, if you
keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another
woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand
s*x starvation for too long.
(SS 7v12)
11).
Never compare your husband to your one time s*x
mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never
recover from it if you do.
(SS 5v9)
12).
Never answer for your husband in public opinion
polls, let him handle what is directed to him.
(Prov 31v23)
13).
Never shout or challenge your husband in front of
children. Wise Women don't do that.
(Eph 4v31)
14).
Don't forget to check the smartness of your
husband before he checks out.
(Prov 12v4)
15).
Never allow your friends to be too close to your
husband.
16).
Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the
dressing table. Out there your husband is always
surrounded by women who took their time on their
looks.
(1 Sam25v3)
17).
Your parents or family or friends do not have the
final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time
looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave
them if you want to Cleave and enjoy.
(Luke 21v16)
18).
Never base love on monetary things. Encourage
him to work hard and assure him of your support.
19).
Don't forget that husbands want attention and
good listeners, never be too busy for him.Good
communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
(Gal 6v9)
20).
If your idea worked better than his, never compare
yourself to him. Its always teamwork.
(Gal 6v10)
21).
Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No
man wants a Nagging wife.
(Eph 4v29)
22).
A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even
know that her body needs a bath.
(Prov 24v27) (Prov 20v13)
23).
Does your husband like a kind of food? try to
change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov
31v14)
24).
Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy
every moment, resource as it comes.
(Luke 11v3)
25).
Make a glass of water the very first welcome to
your husband and everyone entering your home.
Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
(Prov 31v11)
26).
Don't associate with women who have a wrong
mental attitude about marriage.
(Prov 22v14)
27).
Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value
that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
(Heb 13v4)
28).
Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love
your children and teach them well.
(Prov 22v6)
29).
You are never too old to influence your home.
Never reduce your care for your family.
(Prov 31v28)
30).
A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray
always for your husband and family
(1 Thess 5v13)

You are blessed.

These are good points to uphold the home if the woman of the house can abide by them, although its not easy to possess all these qualities but I know the grace of God will see us through only if we submit ourselves to him.