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Running Out Of Gist With Your Partner? by floblaq28(f): 7:40am On Sep 20, 2015 |
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I was listening to an OAP, she said when you go
out most people that go out with their partners
don't talk. The girl is either chatting and the
would be having his drink. At some point gist just
finish, yea right...but to have a bonding
relationship at no point could conversations
seize... For real
Happy conversations are the difference between
a happy relationship and a boring one.
Conversations can help both of you understand
each other better, and help both of you bond
better. No matter how long you’ve been in a
relationship, it’s always communication that
brings two lovers closer together, and leads to
better understanding.
Topics to talk about in a relationship
When you’re in a relationship, it’s easy for the
right topics to talk about to slip right past your
fingers. If you’re in a new relationship, both of
you may have so many questions to ask each
other.
But the fear of sounding rude or getting too
personal may leave a lot of empty space in a
conversation.
And if you’re in a seasoned relationship, both of
you may be so accustomed to each other that
silence may seem perfectly normal. But every
now and then, you do need to bring the
excitement and life into a relationship by talking
about the right things.
Interesting topics to talk about
#1 Plans for the weekend. Talk about your
weekend plans together even if it’s still Monday
evening. It’s exciting and fun, and it’ll give both
of you something to look forward to after a long
week of work.
By having something to look forward to, it’ll even
help both of you get through the week with
enthusiasm because you know you have a good
weekend coming up.
#2 Compliments. Talk about the things you like
or admire about your partner. Let them know just
how much you appreciate them, be it about their
personality or about something they did the
earlier week.
#3 Daily worries. ‘So what’s been worrying you
lately?’ sounds so simple, but yet, it’s something
that can make your partner feel grateful and
cared for. Even if they have no worries, just
knowing that you care would make them feel
good about being in the relationship.
#4 Work. There’s always something to talk about
work, be it a new project or a bad boss. By
talking about each other’s work life, it’ll help both
of you understand each other’s professional
sides and ethics better.
#5 The little secrets. Secrets are always fun to
talk about. You can talk about secrets as a game
where each of you have to take turns to reveal
one new secret. It’ll be a lot of fun, and both of
you can get to know each other more intimately.
#6 Movies and TV shows. There’s always
something new and fun every week when it
comes to movies and shows. Talk about each
other’s favorite shows or the movies both of you
are excited to watch.
#7 Food and restaurants. Even if your lover isn’t
passionate about cooking, they’d at least
appreciate good food. Talk about new
restaurants or places both of you should visit
over the weekend or on a special day. It’ll give
both of you a chance to explore cuisines
together and also make dinner plans for the
weeks to come.
#8 Personal dreams. Talk about your dreams
with your partner. Tell them what you intend to
do or what your visions and dreams are. It’ll
make for great conversations, and help your
partner get to know your personal side better.
#9 Vacations. Plan your vacations or weekend
getaways weeks or even months earlier.
Vacations are almost always the highlight of an
entire calendar year, so even dreamily planning it
ahead of time can get both of you excited.
#10 Hobbies and personal interests. What do you
enjoy doing in your own private time? Share your
thoughts with your lover. Chances are, your
partner too may have a few hobbies that you
like.
#11 Friends. It’s always good to know more
about each other’s friends. It’s a step closer to
learning more about your partner’s life and what
they do, especially when you aren’t around.
#12 Proud moments. Ask your boyfriend or
girlfriend to tell you about the moments in life
when they’ve felt really proud of their own
achievements. Memorable moments and
childhood memories always provide for hours of
fun, hilarious conversations.
#13 Offer help. Ask your partner if you could help
them with something, even if it’s as silly as a
chore. Working together on tasks always brings
two people closer. And it’ll always make your
partner feel grateful for having you around.
#14 Five year plans. If you’ve been dating for a
while, talk about where you see yourself five
years from now as a couple. Having shared goals
always makes the relationship stronger and gives
both of you something to work towards.
#15 Self improvement. When you talk about your
own flaws and where you’d like to improve, it
helps your partner feel more relaxed and
comfortable, and they’d break down their own
high walls and talk about their vulnerabilities too.
#16 Families. Talking about each other’s families
gives hours of interesting details and gossip. And
it also helps make first introductions and
spending time with family more fun.
#17 Problems in the bedroom. Never push
problems in the bedroom under the carpet. At
some point, they’ll always come back to haunt
both of you. If you aren’t able to perform or don’t
feel like having sex all of a sudden, talk about it
so both of you can overcome any issues
together.
#18 Sex talk. For a relationship to be successful,
sexual intimacy is as important as romantic
gestures. Talk about your sexually sensitive spots
and erogenous zones, positions you like or want
to try, your secret sexual fantasies and whatever
it is that turns you on in bed. It’ll be exciting and
revealing at the same time.
#19 Wellbeing and wellness. While health issues
may not be easy to talk about, it’s still a great
way to get to know each other and enhance
each other’s lives.
#20 Advice. Communication isn’t always about
getting to know more about each other. Every
now and then, offer advice and share your
suggestions on what your lover could do to
improve their life or their work.
#21 Your past. The past is always exciting and
fun to talk about. You don’t need to talk about
past relationships or your sexual details if that
makes you feel uncomfortable. But talk about
your childhood, your young dreams and all the
little things that make you who you are.
#22 The future. What do you want to do with
your life? This topic can make for intellectual
conversations that can help you get to know your
partner’s view about life and the pursuits that
matter to them.
#23 Preferences. Sometimes, it’s the little things
that can give both of you hours of fun
conversations. Talk about each other’s likes and
dislikes. After all, preferences always change
with time, and the more you know about your
partner’s present preference, the better you’d
know them.
#24 Shared goals. Plan shared goals together. It
could be about painting a wall, running a
marathon the next year or just about anything
else. When you plan things or try something new
together, it brings both of you closer.
#25 Personal opinions. If you truly love each
other, don’t hold your thoughts back if you want
to share what’s on your mind with your lover. It
doesn’t matter if it’s a suggestion or a warning,
if you feel it, say it. Your partner will feel good to
know that you’re always looking out for them no
matter what. It always feels good, doesn’t it,
when you know that you have a special someone
who cares so much about you?what 1 Like |
Re: Running Out Of Gist With Your Partner? by Jetjacky(m): 7:44am On Sep 20, 2015 |
Gosh... guy Na this thing you want ma read E no go work |
Re: Running Out Of Gist With Your Partner? by ladygudhead(f): 7:56am On Sep 20, 2015 |
^^^ I wonder oo.no chance abeg if they r running outta gist they should quit!!! |
Re: Running Out Of Gist With Your Partner? by Jonifech: 12:34pm On Apr 05, 2018 |
Re: Running Out Of Gist With Your Partner? by habsydiamond(m): 2:18pm On Apr 05, 2018 |
I go don old B4 I finish reading this.....why can't u summarise it na..... |
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