Eyop:


me sef like you now but I dey fear

EggovinMma:



Lmao! !!!
But seriously this show for real concern, someone told me this just recently. Wetin una dey fear?

EggovinMma:


Then it won't work then.

Eyop:


Shey you see Oya see one the reasons for picture

Alezy:
Lolz. ...u seem prepared to stay without getting married all ur life

EggovinMma:


Lmao! !!
I can't treat someone that mean well and care so much about me like that. Contrary to what ignorant people think of me, I am a highly emotional person who show defense attitude only when she feels threatened..And that's being human.

EggovinMma:


Getting married to a stupid man ain't no achiement. It's complete torture. I rather die single.

Mzflexydeeva:
A lot of ladies find making their man happy very difficult. Some even feel making a guy happy is tied only to sex but it is worthy of remembrance that a lot of girls open their legs daily and this still doesn't make the men happy enough to stay with them. Maybe for the minute he wants to experience the excitement of your bosom but appreciating a guy is one thing most ladies overlook.

The number of ladies crying "he broke my heart" would reduce drastically if ladies stopped living their lives like its a fairy tale cartoon.

1. Insecurity:  no matter how insecure you are, its no reason to disrespect your man. Two captains can sail one sheep. Its hard to keep your calm especially if he has a lot of girls are around but shouting and insulting him won't make him pay more attention to you. You simply would be giving him more reasons to look out.

2: Appreciation: never underestimate the power of appreciation. If your man takes good care of you, use ever chance you have got to let him know he's doing a good job. If he looks cute in the morning tell him. If he showers you with gift, thank him. If he listens when you need a friend, be grateful. When you cry and he hugs you, embrace him. A man won't go looking for what he already has. When ladies point out more faults they are pointing at another lady to take their place.

3. The baby in every man: there is a baby in every man that comes to light when he is with the woman he loves the most. Don't see this as weakness. No matter how bad a man feels or angry or disappointed its the duty of the woman in his life to bring out the baby in him and know just how to calm the baby. You can't run away every time he's in a bad mood and expect to keep him.

4. Making him feel at home: around you, he doesn't want who to judge him but he needs someone who sees his strength not the weakness.

There are a couple of things ladies do without realising they are sending the men in their lives packing.
- challenging his authority as a man.
-always winning.
-nagging.
- being bossy.
Funniest part is, they always have an excuse and it is always this is who I am. Who you are is who you decided to be. There is always room for change especially when you make up your mind to be with the person. You must understand a man will always be the man irrespective of what you bring to the table.
Realizing that there is a difference between an humble woman and a stupid one  will hel you better appreciate that a man is your superior but you are his partner and never try to be the man especially when you know he really loves you and wants the best for you.

2tek:

U keep a woman for 2yrs without strafing ND u expect her not to complain, free her if you are not yet ready to marry. 2yrs is enough time for courtship. U'll b surprised to discover that she is emotionally attached to another man.

themanderon:


Of cause it would sound mypic to you now but when you grow older you will understand, I hope it will not be at 35 though

EggovinMma:


Getting married to a stupid man ain't no achiement. It's complete torture. I rather die single.

Prixus:

all I can say say u r r wise lady...

londoner:


That is the reality alot of Nigerian men must face. The kind of so called husbands and marriages some women see totally puts us off marriage. To marry a man-child is to live a life of extra burden.

You marry when you meet the right person and only then. Divorces are also happening which nobody wants.

Do you know how many Nigerian women wish they never married? In fact they became glorified cooks,maids and babysitters and only a wife technically.

You guys should be busy writing your holy grail for the men too. How to be a companion.

Eyop:


how you take know say him go bite am comot You be real character

Tufanja:
It is a shame and disgrace to read this coming from a woman.
If you have brains and self-respect and can seriously state something like "appreciate that a man is your superior", then there is no reason to listen to whatever you have to say. #nonsense #sick

Mzflexydeeva:
okay! Madam! Miss a man's superior. Why don't you turn your self into a "mrs" on ur own? Don't come here forming what I don't know. There's room for you to create a thread where you convince us of how superior to a man u r but until you have a constructive argument I don't have time to waste on ladies who try to gain attention from guys by attaching wat I say. BTW it's my opinion if it doesn't go down with u...... dear here always room for a challange

Mzflexydeeva:
A lot of ladies find making their man happy very difficult. Some even feel making a guy happy is tied only to sex but it is worthy of remembrance that a lot of girls open their legs daily and this still doesn't make the men happy enough to stay with them. Maybe for the minute he wants to experience the excitement of your bosom but appreciating a guy is one thing most ladies overlook.

The number of ladies crying "he broke my heart" would reduce drastically if ladies stopped living their lives like its a fairy tale cartoon.

1. Insecurity:  no matter how insecure you are, its no reason to disrespect your man. Two captains can sail one sheep. Its hard to keep your calm especially if he has a lot of girls are around but shouting and insulting him won't make him pay more attention to you. You simply would be giving him more reasons to look out.

2: Appreciation: never underestimate the power of appreciation. If your man takes good care of you, use ever chance you have got to let him know he's doing a good job. If he looks cute in the morning tell him. If he showers you with gift, thank him. If he listens when you need a friend, be grateful. When you cry and he hugs you, embrace him. A man won't go looking for what he already has. When ladies point out more faults they are pointing at another lady to take their place.

3. The baby in every man: there is a baby in every man that comes to light when he is with the woman he loves the most. Don't see this as weakness. No matter how bad a man feels or angry or disappointed its the duty of the woman in his life to bring out the baby in him and know just how to calm the baby. You can't run away every time he's in a bad mood and expect to keep him.

4. Making him feel at home: around you, he doesn't want who to judge him but he needs someone who sees his strength not the weakness.

There are a couple of things ladies do without realising they are sending the men in their lives packing.
- challenging his authority as a man.
-always winning.
-nagging.
- being bossy.
Funniest part is, they always have an excuse and it is always this is who I am. Who you are is who you decided to be. There is always room for change especially when you make up your mind to be with the person. You must understand a man will always be the man irrespective of what you bring to the table.
Realizing that there is a difference between an humble woman and a stupid one  will hel you better appreciate that a man is your superior but you are his partner and never try to be the man especially when you know he really loves you and wants the best for you.

Tufanja:


Hahaha..take a reading course. I didnt say anyone is superior to another. #wrongmentality #sick

Tufanja:


Hahaha..take a reading course. I didnt say anyone is superior to another. #wrongmentality #sick

foladaraawe:
Nice writeup

Mzflexydeeva:
thanks

londoner:
A household is not a company though.....its a family. No one has any sword out (well at least not me) but I have a very different view of companionship. At times one will lean on the other. At times the man and at other times the woman and it is not because the woman has become a man or the man a woman. The family unit reigns supreme not any individual.

NaijaHulk:


One the companionship bit, my belief is that both should be there for each other and that usually in never a problem except in rare cases; two people that love each other should and will provide great companionship to each other. where the issues tend to come in is in leadership and decision-making.

So the simple question for you is>>>

1. Who should be the leader of the relationship/marriage?


NB - family nor be company ooo: was just an analogy and I even gave the woman 50 percent shareholding which is as generous as any man will get... lol...