naijaboiy:
Chai!

Sometimes in life we just have to make some tough decisions.

chocolateme:
i tell you, if she leave, people will talk and if she stays put, they will still talk.

naijaboiy:

But if she stays put what will she stay put and do?

The only reason I can understand is if she has a child for him already. If not,then she has no other choice.

chocolateme:
its true tho, she has no child but you know how people reasons, that he is in trouble now and she wants to leave him.

Should she wait for the whole 15 years for him? By that time he may not even be able to marry her again self.

She should just be with the family for a while at least,try to communicate with the guy if she can then move on with her life later on.

Let people talk,that one is normal.

naijaboiy:

But if she stays put what will she stay put and do?

The only reason I can understand is if she has a child for him already. If not,then she has no other choice.

chocolateme:
its true tho, she has no child but you know how people reasons, that he is in trouble now and she wants to leave him. Will he himself understand her plight if she takes a walk?

chocolateme:
Her lover and partner is in deep problem and I don't know how soon it will be resolve because right now, her life is at PAUSE.
They are genuine partners and very honest with each other, they have dated for long and it's obvious that they are going to the aisle together.
He is a hustler too, into business and other things to support his mom as dad is late and he is the only son, two sisters long been married so mom stays alone with a grandchild.
Just heard that he got caught months back in India with drugs and has been jailed. He is looking at 15 years hmm. What do you advice her to do because time may not be on her side as a woman though she is still in pains and refuses to leave the guy's mother's side.
If she is your sister, what do you think? Very responsible lady she is tho.

bomasek:
All depends on how old she's,let her dilly dally around the family between 6months to a year while she makes up her mind on the next step to take. If I'm to be candid in this regard,moving on is her best bet. No point living a nightmare,she can change towns if her worry is dem say dem say. @Op if the girl in question is u,PM me and let's start something beautiful. Cheers.

juliusocean:
move ahead with ya life joor no be him mate dey hustle for Onitsha ....I hope her demands didn't put him there anyway

Askseek:


A responsible woman engaged to a drug dealer. Abeg, make una no dey mislabel people. She should move on and truly be responsible this time around.

chocolateme:
lol see your head.